I am an attractive, well built individual who is in this lifestyle for over 10 years.  This is not a game to me but the way I choose to live my life.  I am not a believer in equality and, thus, choose not to structure my relationships in that manner.  I believe in the power exchange philosophy as a means to deep and effective interaction.

I am a big believer in growth and progress.  As people we either move forward or go backwards.  There is no standing still.  BDSM is my desired life path because it allows me to elevate all aspects of my life.  Domination of another is impossible unless one has dominion over himself.

The online world is full of misfits, liars, and scammers.  I have been around long enough to know that.  If you fall into one of these categories, save us both the headaches.  There is no point in even making contact.  What I seek are those who are serious about this lifestyle.  It is that simple.

I understand this site is full of 'comic book Masters' and 'kiddie doms'.  That is what most are seeking on here.  Your choices are many.  However, stop complaining that you cant find anyone real because few, really, truly are seeking this life.  I found that most are looking to escape the mess that is their present life and have someone rescue them.  BDSM, in my view encompasses more than that.  The question is "what do you bring to the situation" as opposed to only looking to take.  It is a two way street.

BDSM takes us to a different level.  For this reason, I believe we are to live to greater standards.  Sex play is one aspect and kink is a wonderful thing.  But it is only a piece of the entire picture.  Our place and how we fulfill that is what is important.