10/30/2011 4:16:48 PM: New Journal Entry October 30, 2011 Today I have decided to begin my search for a 24/7 live in submissive.  I am looking for a sub that wants the true 24/7 live in experience, they will be be trained to serve in the home and to serve the DOM as his house submissive.

8/3/2010 8:30:43 PM: My Thought for Today. Punishment.  What is punishment and why do we use it?  When we speak of punishment it means different things to different people, it can be given in physical, emotional, or even in mental form.  The type of punishment truly depends on the type of Dominant you are and what you hope to gain from the punishment.  Is the punishment being used to instill fear into a Sub/Slave for some miss deed they may have performed?  Or are we using punishment for a sexual gratification? I can only speak for myself on this subject but I will say that if punishment is needed, it is because of a breach of protocol by the Sub/Slave.  And that this breach is usually from a lack of understand by the Sub/Slave to the rules that have been laid out.  Now I will admit that I have used punishment on certain Sub/Slave’s for gratification, this occurs when the Sub/Slave has a more masochistic side which I tend to enjoy.  When we dispense punishment , we have to remember that the punishment is designed to break the Sub/Slave’s will to repeat the action that caused the punishment.  So in doing this we must always remember to reward the Sub/Slave, it is not enough to only punish them and break them down it is in my opinion of critical importance to remember to reward them.  I was told many years ago in Germany, if you beat your horse enough it will eventually die, but if you give your horse a carrot for doing what is expected he will strive to earn the carrot over the whip.  I find this line of thinking to be true in most aspects of my lifestyle unless I am dealing with a Sub/Slave that is in the lifestyle for the pain aspect.  When this is the case I employ the reverse if the Sub/Slave craves pain then the punishment will lack the pain that they crave. I know that my thinking may differ from many, but please remember I was trained outside the US where the lifestyle is looked upon in a different light then here in the US.  If you have a comment please email me and let me know.

7/25/2010 4:40:24 PM: This is for a friend.  What is the difference between physical submissive and mental surrender.  Physical submission, the submissive allows the Dom to have control over his or her physical action. To dictate how the submissive body is used by the Dom or acts per the Doms directive. This type of relationship is easy to partake in even the novice Dom is able to control the submissive. Now Mental Surrender is the act by the submissive to surrender all control over personal thought to the Dom.  This type of control is not easy or simple if tried by the novice it is possible to damage the submissive.  If the submissive is suffering from any mental instability permanent damage is possible.  When attempting to mentally control the submissive the Dom must assume not only the Dom or Master role but also a father role.  It becomes the Doms responsibility to nurture and care for the submissive since the Dom is now assuming all control over thought and action of the Sub.  A true Dom will never allow his or her submissive to be harmed by his or her actions.

7/17/2010 1:28:30 PM: My Final Journal Entry...You can not have peace without war.

7/15/2010 9:39:06 PM: Good morning everyone, it’s 12:28am and I had to post this thought to my journal.  Real fast and to the point, can someone please tell me how a F**King 19 year old little girl can call herself a DOM.  Most of these female DOM’s are young enough to be my daughter, all they have going for them is their looks.  And I see that some of the dumb ass subs are even willing to give these little girls money.  Guy’s wake up save your damn money buy a ticket to Germany , go to the red light district in Berlin and go to a dungeon you will see what a real Female Dominant is and can do for you.