Seeking an ongoing relationship of depth and substance. Not looking for random hookups or one-offs. Would love to build something that flourishes just as strong outside the bedroom as in it.

I'm well-rounded and have a range of skills and interests from sports to the arts - a nerdy athlete if you will. I grew up playing almost every team sport there is (my favorite is ice hockey), but these days I'm focusing more on my creative side. I love adventure and new experiences, and am rarely locked into just one lifestyle, passion, hobby, etc. 

I present as a masculine alpha-leaning man in public, but I enjoy submitting to a dominant woman in more intimate settings. I'm looking for a real connection with a Domme that we can enjoy in both our kink and vanilla lives. I am not "D/s-or-die" so it's important to me that my partner and I can share vanilla experiences, as well. Tell me something outside of kink that you're passionate about...I love learning and trying new things!

In terms of play, the mental aspect is what excites me most, and I believe psychological play should be the foundation of most intimate acts, especially those involving kink. I love being messed with, teased, and secretly twisted and toyed with. I'm open to many physical manifestations of D/s play, but it's most exciting when it's rooted in mind play.

Would love to hear from you - and happy to share more - if what I've said above aligns with what you seek. Thanks for reading!