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ForcefuIHands
Hetero Male, 37, Dayton, Ohio 
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ForcefuIHands

WARNING: This profile contains adult language and actual reading. Do not expect me to cater to your sloth or illiteracy. In all honesty, I don't expect to find much here. The problem with a free site is that anyone can put up a profile, even the insincere, cruel, and the cynical. I know this to be true because a common response I get from even worthwhile seeming people is I set this up as a joke For those of you who are genuine, honest, interested, and literate, by all means continue.

TL;DR Version: I am only interested in a long term involvement. My expectation is a reasonable amount of prep work regarding mindset online before meeting in person. Although I do not object to a personal relationship, "submissive" and "slave" are both job titles. I expect to make use of both your body and mind to the degree I require, as I care to and without objection.


This profile is intended to start conversations, not to end them.


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"O' better far to live and die,
under the brave black flag I fly,
than play a sanctimonious part,
with a pirate head and a pirate heart..."
- The Pirate King, Gilbert and Sullivan's "Pirates of Penzance"


"Submission is not about being used, submission is about being of use. Submission is not about what is done to you, submission is about what you do for others. Strong men simply need women. This will never be understood by weak men. A strong man needs a woman at his feet, who is truly his. Anything else is less than his fulfillment." -Unknown


"History teaches us that men and nations behave wisely once they have exhausted all other alternatives." -Abba Eban

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I am returning to the site after an extended absence, having recently come out of a year-long relationship with a submissive no longer in my service. While I would not describe myself as "looking," merely open.

I should state that I have no intention of contacting anyone. The burden lies on you to present yourself. Should you see that I have looked over your profile, don't be afraid to make the first move. I understand the need of women to feel as if they are being pursued, however in my opinion this is a reversal of roles on a BDSM site. If surrendering your will to that of another, one should be proactive in making that choice. There are far too many disingenuous people here to invest valuable time outreaching to the potentially specious. This means also that should I choose to contact you, I expect a polite reply, even if that is as simple as a "No thank you."

I have more than a decade-long record of being a very potent and capable Dominant.  Many submissives who have served under me have parted on good terms, most still remain in contact, and all have gone on improved under their time with me. In fact, some confess they still feel my ownership of them even years later. Several have traveled across states and in some cases timezones to live under my care for periods of time, and of those, nearly all have asked to remain.

So why am I here, then? Because I have had great success here. I briefly tried my hand at vanilla dating, and as frustrating and protracted as interactions can be here, I have met and trained some genuinely remarkable people whom I have met time and again through this site. I remain reluctant and hopeful it might serve my needs again, despite my reservations.

I usually identify as a Daddy Dom, mostly because I enjoy the affectionate side of that dynamic, as opposed to relating it entirely to incest play. I enjoy the freedom to be strange and silly with someone who I have a shared intimacy with, as well as the role of a mature and guiding force. I tend to communicate very well, speaking clearly and plainly about my feelings, desires, and expectations and value someone with the emotional maturity to do the same. As far as submission is concerned, I prefer natural over forced. If you are interested in friendship or simple mentoring, I am open to both. I have had friends start in the life for whom I have provided similar services.

As for my day-to-day life, I am not a man of means, although I have managed to carve out a decent life for myself. In my brief time, I have been homeless on a beach in California to a student in London. I am a freelance graphic designer, a writer and artist, and in the last year I have changed companies with an effective promotion, gone from an hourly position to salary, and quit smoking entirely of my own force of will.  I value my art over living expensively. I am an excellent cook and give incredible massages. I will admit to being a nice guy, and a bit of a hopeless romantic as well. I have my passions both in and out of the bedroom.

As two Japanese business men said to one girl they were trying to set me up with at a bar, Good man, good heart.

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As far as my personal style, I enjoy diversity, obviously. I am gifted with words, so whether it's scolding, praise or dirty talk (which I am obscenely good at) expect me to be vocal. In the bedroom, I favor wet, rough, and sloppy use. Out, I prefer affectionate contact. Do not expect to leave my side often, even in public. I prefer to bathe and dress my girls myself, taking great pride in their appearance. Expect to be shown off as my trophy. At times I feel hair should be listed as a hard limit, as I may very well have input in that regard as well. I enjoy piercing and tattoos, enjoying the art of the latter, and the utility of the former. I definitely prefer natural beauty to the trappings of vanity.

Regarding terminology, I think slave suits what I enjoy more than submissive. Moreover, I get the impression that many misunderstand the level of freedom a slave might enjoy under the right owner when given permission.

I expect you to have goals and ambitions, as I have a hard time respecting those without. Respect is extremely important. If I can't respect you, I simply won't top or own you. Part of the thrill of this degree of submission is knowing the person under me doesn't need me or my care and abuse, but wants it and craves it instead. Knowing that is extremely erotic.

My requirements include being safe, sane, and D&D free. I expect a degree of fitness, or in frank terms, I will not consider submissives that weigh more than myself. Others and I would say I am average if not a little out of shape, with ambition to get better, and I expect the same at least. I don't expect you to be a geek like me, in fact I would prefer not, but being tolerant of my interests if not passionate about them is important, and I will expect a degree of participation.


My standards for the women I consider come from my experience, so if my level of expectation seems high it is because of the exceptional women who have set the precedent.

After some basic contact and mutual interest, I will request to confirm at least two of the following three things: photo, web-cam, and voice. As far as training, I do expect to at least do some introductory work online. I believe this helps to assess one of the most important things in this nature of relationship; discipline. The key to success will be the difference between the minimal expectations I assign and your performance. Most importantly, I expect you to maintain a level of communication regarding your progress and a reasonable timetable to move things from online into real time.

The best advice I can give someone who doubts my level of interest would be, let me decide that. I respond with respect, even if I'm not interested. It is seldom I ignore anyone on purpose. If the 300lb black man who offers to be my personal toilet can get a polite response, chances are you will too. Do yourself a favor and leave the lofty language at home. When I speak, I speak pragmatically, and again I expect the same.

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What I'm not interested in:
The pleasantries aside, I will now respond to quotes from other profiles that make me bristle. If some of these quotes seem familiar, let me clarify.

I'm looking for a personal relationship
Now this is one I get the most trouble for not clarifying. This is not a dating site; this is a BDSM site. We're not going to go on a date. What I'm looking for is a submissive. That is a job title. In fact, chances are our first meeting will be more like an interview. That doesn't eliminate the idea of things becoming more personal, but I'm not here looking for a girlfriend; I'm looking for a submissive who can do a remarkable girlfriend impression. If I wanted to end up with a self-involved spoiled nitwit, I would date.

I have an inbox full of responses from rude men
Welcome to the Internet. Hate to break it to you, but you are on a free adult fetish website that allows solicitation from anyone with an e-mail address and time, aside from the fact that most males are honestly and rarely more than grown boy-child primates. Here's a wacky notion: How about you empty your mail every day, then you browse through profiles, contact the people you are interested in communicating with, and put forth some effort into something you claim to want. You know, instead of acting like helpless infants watching as stupid fucking perverts beach themselves like dying whales onto your account. If you don't like getting stung, don't volunteer to chew bees.

(insert laundry list of demands here)
Most of the 'submissive' profiles I read hardly sound submissive at all. In point of fact, even most responses have an air of superiority and contempt. I have received more polite and respectful responses from switches than those who claim to be submissive. In short, do not expect me to have much patience for your bullshit list of criterion. There is a difference between a submissive and a doormat, but you're not claiming to be a doormat.

I have the right to choose
Of course you do. Of course. That's the whole point of being here. So, why would you say that? Is it going to dissuade anyone who can't bridge the mental divide between playing dominant and realizing you're another human being on the other side of wires they actually have no fucking control over? Doubtful.

I'm looking for someone stable
This rarely means stable, it often means you don't have to work. BDSM is not the lottery or a retirement plan. I am perfectly stable, able to support myself and my hobbies, and willing to make some sacrifices to get what I want. However, I'm not interested in carrying another's dead weight. We're talking about building the foundations of a life together. What should happen if I get sick, or feel weak or just need held? Why would I waste my effort on someone in the best of times, knowing they weren't interested in being there for the worst of them. Shame on you for trading something genuine for something as common as money.

I'm not willing to relocate
Well, I am. Once I get positioned with my online business I will be able to do my job from anywhere.  Relocation is part of the business, so save the excuses. Local is local. This is the Internet. It's a big wide world of potential partners out there, kids. The chances of finding someone, realistically, that meet my requirements or yours within a reasonable distance are extremely slim. Go to a munch; visit a fetish club. Those exist, really. Saying "I'm looking for someone local" is basically saying you'll settle for whatever clumsy idiot is within a specific geographical distance. It is reckless and dangerous thinking that only people that hove into your field of vision are trustworthy or competent. Proximity can be overcome, and in the grand scale of things is really a minor obstacle. A very real connection can still be forged despite initial distance. Don't believe so? Look at the letters between John and Abigail Adams.

I expect tribute.
Go fuck yourself. I'm sorry, perhaps I should be clearer. You're not that hot, and no one is that hot, or special, or important. I stare into the dull, dim face of the general public every day, and you are not a unique snowflake. Besides, I gave all my money to that diplomat in Rwanda who's going to get right back to me with a multi-billion dollar bank deposit But seriously, go fuck yourself.

REAL Masters don't negotiate.
Bullshit. Children don't negotiate. Every relationship, BDSM or otherwise is a negotiation. Even TPE is still negotiation. I have only been enriched in both my enjoyment of certain activities and the feedback of a partner. This is true for more than kink. I need a partner who enjoys mutual exploration from exotic food to culture to sex. I would be sincerely afraid of someone who has no room to budge, not to mention horrified by how simple and dull they must be.

I'm looking for someone to protect me
To quote Andy Bernard, From what? Bears, you idiot? This means that instead of conducting yourself like an adult, you intend to act like a dipshit to elicit a violent, jealous reaction from me. See above: I ENJOY showing you off. I EXPECT you to catch the attention of other men. I'm not going to react like an overprotective troglodyte because you choose not to control yourself. I would hope, nay insist, the person I am with would know better than to risk everything with such a childish action; I guarantee it would be the last time you make that mistake with me. Again, shame on you for perpetuating that particular brand of lowbrow, high school melodrama.

And put your damn junk away... Put it away. Good for you for putting it out there, but I'd rather see you form sentences like an adult than witness how far your asshole gapes. This only gets more pathetic and disturbing the older and heavier you get on a site like this. What I see when people post even naked pictures of themselves are mainly people who have nothing left to offer. "Whelp! This is all I have. Here are my regions and orifices... Maybe you can do something with these, I don't know."

3/27/2018 7:16:43 AM: If someone has some racist shit like 'No Blacks' in their profile, is it then more likely that their profile is genuine? Like, if they appear to repurpose a bunch of someone else's Instagram pictures to dupe people for whatever purpose, wouldn't you cast a wider net by not excluding entire demographics? That's just poor marketing.

11/25/2017 12:52:34 PM: As tempting as finding a girl to serve closer to my own age, there is an appeal to the notion of people seeing my escort and assuming I keep her purely for sex, in age or appearance.

7/20/2017 11:25:25 AM: I can't stand most people, so don't be most people...

7/15/2017 1:47:22 PM: Where is my fierce and loyal tigress for her long chain? I want an agent, an instrument, an implement, a courtesan... I require a proper Joan, a girl in gold silk to meter my words, the Sheba to my Candy...

3/31/2017 12:21:02 PM: Looking for someone to use, who can be of use...

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