I would say I'm complicated. I'm definitely a switch.  I've many fantasies, some darker than others.

There's occasions when I love the idea of being dominated, tied up, abused, left to struggle, or humiliated in front of other people who want to use me. 

There are other occasions when I want to be charge to see the fear, the expectation, the excitement in somebody else's eyes. 

Quite often my desires will feature somebody else sharing my situation, especially if I'm being submissive. There's a strong desire there to share this with someone else, who is also being dominated. 

Happy to chat. Get in touch!