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Sandi4fun

Pan Transgender Submissive, 48, North Carolina

I love to dress sexy and whatever comes next. I am interested in meeting professional, mature, and experienced partners. I love to play. No strings attached. Please, no bottoms, submissives, or guys in panties.

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dancesonstarlight

dancesonstarlight

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MsTxStorm

If you think this is all just about sex, then we have nothing to talk about. We are definitely not looking for the same things.

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Elorin

Put a 50 percent payment on four corsets to fit the smaller size. Can't wait until next payday to pay the rest and get my four corsets in the mail!

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imasincereslave

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Communication problems will always shine a light on the kind of relationship you have.. Morse code signal through a vibrator is an odd way to communicate but it an interesting way to teach Morse code.

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TheVintageYears

TheVintageYears

Question: I would be interested to hear about your journeys and how you navigated finding your D/s type. ANSWER: In my experience, it can be an occasionally rewarding, but largely difficult and frustrating journey. But then I guess a lot depends on who you are (I mean, really are as a person and what you expect/seek). At its best is more honest and intimate than anything else I know, but then it can also be hugely intolerant and judgemental too - something of an irony to my mind. There is such a broad spectrum of interests and needs that simple labels - no matter how many there are - are not sufficient. Unless you identify as a victim and ride like flotsam on the tides of kink, it is important to know yourself. If you don't know you, how do you expect anyone else to?? Mine has been a long journey, the most recent insight being that I am an empath, albeit an unusual one. Knowing this now makes so much sense of things in past, both in BDSM and vanilla life. But I know I am still processing it all and have a way to go. I will leave you with two thoughts: Through BDSM, one is made aware of who one truly is. This may not be who they thought they were, who they want to be or even who they think they should be, but it will be them. (and more controversial) Everyone (dominants and submissives) is damaged in some way - not always obviously and often not admitted even to themselves - and this will have bearing on how they contribute to and what they take from BDSM. The links are not simple linear ones, but they are always there. Understanding one's own damage is healthy. Understanding the damage of a potential partner is enlightening. And finally, when you find a place, however brief, you will feel with intensity and know what it is to be alive!

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BecomingMegan

Look, here's the deal. If you are going to make your first email something like, "On hormones?" or "how is your search going?" or "are you currently owned" i am going to either give you a smartass reply, delete your email and if i am in a mood i will probably block you. So i will make you a promise becaue i know a lot of sub/slaves don't reply and it makes the effort of having written an actual introduction email seem like wasted time. If you send me an intro email that is more than 2-3 sentences, doesn't demand information of me right off the bat and actually does tell me why you are writing to me in the first place, then I GUARANTEE I WILL REPLY. 100%. I promise. (not including copy and paste generic messages you send to everyone). Yes. I get it. I'm being cunty. That's okay. What you need to understand is that I get a bunch of emails every time I log in that have those annoying demands or questions or make zero effort. So, nothing about those emails makes you stand out from the others. So I repsond to anyone who puts in just the slightest amount of effort and ignore those who don't. It's simple. Also: by means of an update, obviously I'm not 18 anymore but I'm afraid to update my profile here. my birthday is January 28th. So take the age 18 and the year i started my profile here and add a year for every year between now and then and you'll know exactly how old i. am now. Finally, unless you are a really mean, perverted, nasty daddy, you're probably not the right Man for me. i. am looking to become owned property. Can i. be Your daughter too? Sure. But i. am not looking for a soft dominant. Unless You see me first as property and chattel, we won't be a match.

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jen182

nice to see we finally get our journal back. so much faster than re-doing profile!

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DirtyDarling

I am not afraid of being buried alive.I am only afraid of being buried alone.

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BlkMale44

Very interested in FLR

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Tennwhiskey2024

As usual people disappoint. They can have their drama but you can't have yours. They lie to themselves, and to you. Impossible to have a relationship here but I hope to make connections.

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BlueFyre

8/24/25 I'm around, albeit less frequently. I am still looking for a FT sub/slave, with a big focus on working beside me, as my hands. A sub in my Home will be well cared for, with a level of D/s and kink that helps keep them motivated. If you enjoy house and yard work, there's plenty to stay busy, or if you're able and want to work from home or here in the Denver area, that's an option. Long-term position is also a possibility, which means my extra-long set of questions may be the most important job application you ever complete. It's not for the faint of heart... Then again, neither am I. 😈

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Nothing Enters the Room Alone There have been moments when a person touched my hand, or held my gaze a second longer than expected, or said something so simple and kind that the room changed before I had the language to say why. Nothing dramatic.No confession.No promise.No grand scene. Just a moment. And still, something larger entered with it. Not only desire.History. That is the part I have been thinking about. Because it does not matter what first awakens desire. It may be physical.A mouth.A voice.A body moving with ease.A scent that reaches somewhere old before the mind has caught up. It may be mental.A sharp mind.A way of seeing.A sentence that feels like it found you in a room full of noise. It may be emotional.A steadiness.A warmth.A quiet kindness that does not try too hard. It may be something harder to name.A spiritual recognition.A feeling that this person has touched a room in you you thought had gone dark. It does not matter. History still enters the room. That is what makes desire so beautiful.And so dangerous. Because we like to think we are only meeting the person in front of us. Very often, we are also meeting:what they remind us of,what they awaken,what they interrupt,what they promise without meaning to,what they stir that was already waiting underneath the surface. A person can arrive in the present and still open an old door. I know that feeling. A good conversation that feels a little too relieving.A kindness that lands harder than kindness should.A silence that feels safe enough to make the body ache.A certain kind of warmth that does not only feel new, but strangely familiar. That is usually when history has entered. Not because the present is false.Because the present has touched something that was not only waiting to be felt, but waiting to be resolved, repeated, avoided, redeemed, or finally understood. That is the haunting part. We do not come to each other empty. No one does. We come with former lives still echoi…

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128 Basic slave Rules 1. i will serve, obey and please my Master. 2. Above all else my primary focus shall be to please my Master, hoping that He finds me pleasing in all that I do, whether i am in His presence or not. my Master knows of my potential, learning more about me in each day i am with Him. He trusts that i will act in accordance with what He perceives of my potential - He knows what is best for me and how important it is that i set a good example for other females who may be present around me. 3. i will not wear panties, except when i am on my period. 4. i worship my Master's body. 5. The power of my Master fills me with awe. Just the sheer thought of Him or the hearing of His voice gives me strength. 6. To receive pleasure i must earn it. 7. i will not hesitate in my obedience to my Master. 8. i trust my Master: His responsibilities, His skills, His hunger and needs, and His concern for my safety, my emotional, psychological, social, sexual, and physical health. 9. i am nothing more than an of great value - an instrument Master will use to draw out His pleasures. 10. i will ask my Master for permission to satisfy whatever need i have before acting on it. 11. my body and mind are the property of my Master. 12. i must always give thanks to my Master for all i am given immediately after receiving what He has given me, for such things are gifts or privileges granted to me by Him. 13. i must be both specific and explicit in my speech. 14. i will not hesitate when responding to my Master. my focus is important to my growth. 15. i will thank my Master for the discipline and punishments I receive, specifying what i received and expressing the reason as to why i was given them. 16. i have no will of my own other than that which falls within the context of the rule…

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Decided to update my profile. I hope this was not a mistake. Anyone else wonder why everything takes so long to get approved?

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ARGHHHHH It has been a while since I've bothered to write a new entry, but I have looked at end eliminated maybe 100 "female dominant" profiles the past few days". And a couple of "female dominate" profiles which never cease to amuse me. I've written several to give them advice on why their profiles sucked, and how they could correct them if they ever wanted to have a chance to find a decent guy. A couple read them and didn't reply. One wrote back and told me off then blocked me for her amusement. The rest haven't read them. None of them will listen and none of them will ever find a decent guy. I keep trying, because maybe one day, one will listen. But this isn't about them. It's about the 99% of female domme profiles on here who think that merely being female and dominant is enough. Their profiles say nothing about who they are, other than they are female and dominant and they may have some of the demographics and interests filled out. It might have a close up of their boobs or feet. Rarely a face or full body pic. Because they truly believe that just by procaliming "I am" that they will find the man of their dreams. The perfect sub/slave(s) of their dreams. And they wonder why their inboxes are always full of men who want to worship her and promise her the world, and who all turn out to be lying assholes. So they add instructions to their profiles over time, telling the assholes not to contact them or how to behave. Like a bank putting a sign on its door saying "no bank robbers". Right. As the years go by, the profiles get more and more angry and negative. Some of these women have been here nearly 20 years. Now if I contact them and suggest they actually write a bio and tell us who they are and what kind of sub they seek and what sort of relationship they want and hint that not doing so is the reason they havent found anyone in however many years, I always …

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Mistresscrystal3

Mistresscrystal3

LEARN HOW TO READ A DAMN PROFILE BEFORE MESSAGING ME!!!!

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prettyjellybean

Sprawling on the fringes of the cityIn geometric orderAn insulated borderIn-between the bright lightsAnd the far, unlit unknown Growing up, it all seems so one-sidedOpinions all providedThe future pre-decidedDetached and subdividedIn the mass-production zone Nowhere is the dreamerOr the misfit so alone SubdivisionsIn the high school hallsIn the shopping mallsConform or be cast outSubdivisionsIn the basement barsIn the backs of carsBe cool or be cast out Any escape might help to smoothThe unattractive truthBut the suburbs have no charms to sootheThe restless dreams of youth Drawn like moths, we drift into the cityThe timeless old attractionCruising for the actionLit up like a fireflyJust to feel the living night Some will sell their dreams for small desiresOr lose the race to ratsGet caught in ticking trapsAnd start to dream of somewhereTo relax their restless flight Somewhere out of a memoryOf lighted streets on quiet nights SubdivisionsIn the high school hallsIn the shopping mallsConform or be cast outSubdivisionsIn the basement barsIn the backs of carsBe cool or be cast out Any escape might help to smoothThe unattractive truthBut the suburbs have no charms to sootheThe restless dreams of youth - Rush

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Darkersided

I am now with someone on a FLR basis 2024

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desireexxx

Whimsical cuckold thoughts - the unique erotic highs as wife is ceded to him, the stronger - watching the crecendos of pleasure she experiences - yes, humiliating, but priceless. I suck his cock after.

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realcuteguy

If you need harsh, or strict protocols, I am probably not your guy.

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LeDiableRouge

The King bee ruled for over two thousand years thanks to learned philosophers and egoistic men like the Queen bee Lilith has been misrepresented.

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knl4myplzr

Update! 3/2022 *** I don't bother to respond to "Hi" "How are you" and similar one liners. I get too many to bother. I'm currently open to and - if not actively - perhaps somewhat lazily (as in waiting for one to fall into My lap) seeking a great second male submissive. I'm open to the RIGHT person and situation. I don't check this site frequently though as I'm busy and it's frankly easier for me to wait for mail to accumulate. I have previously been in and enjoy an mFm hinge type triad and I've had 2 live-in submissives in a relationship. One moved / things happened, what can you do? I like to let relationships develop naturally into whatever they are meant to be, so I'm not saying I'm looking for live-in just that it once worked out well and was a dynamic that suited Me / us. Now, WAIT WAIT WAIT - Don't start writing yet. In the interest of full disclosure - I already have a collared boy. (Who is NOT bisexual so, there will be no forced bi in my household). He's just not going anywhere. SO! You must be poly or open to exploring poly. I am not the jealous type and I expect that to be true of you as well. If that's not going to work for you and you're looking for long term monogamy - I am NOT the Lady for you. YOU MUST BE: LOCAL or WILLING TO RELOCATE. Sometimes it can work if you're able to travel frequently, and air travel obviously shrinks distances, so this isn't a 'hard limit' ;) ATTRACTIVE & FIT (as in, no stranger to the gym, you know what olympic lifting is, and maybe you even like the occasional crossfit workout. You appreciate words like 'vascularity' and 'striations' and you know how to make a mean protein shake. Brainy AND Brawny - we can figure out the fetish connection and likes/dislikes IF we actually connect on any other level. I don't JUST want to beat the snot out of you, I want to like you, find you intriguing, engaging and attractive...and THEN beat the snot out of you. Just kidding...mostly. POLY or OPEN to the IDEA of b…

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M2s39

What am I intreseted in? What am I looking for? I am open to many situations. Mostly I would like an online sub to be my babygirl. Someone who wants to live her normal life and yet needs someone to give her stability and direction. I would guess a Daddy figure is the most accurate description. All of that being said I understand we all have different views of the perfect relationship. While I search for my "perfect" match, I am willing to learn about what you want, and who knows, it may become what I want. Let's talk and see if we can meet on some common ground.

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Bad news. We may have to cancel the 2nd 'i will eat your pussy' event due to a cancelation by one of the participants. We will reschedule but the one remaining participant may not be available. We'll keep you posted.

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MasterMayDomme

Review of Tea Party 17th June I just wanted to thankyou again for allowing me to serve at your party at the weekend. I had an amazing time and the ladies attending were exquisite.XxxSlave pat Thank you for another incredible afternoon of debauchery May! 😝💞 Miss A xxxThus Tea Party was a riott💃🏽- so many worthy 🍆🍆🍆🍆🍆🍆🍆🍆! Thank you Mistress May once again for letting us have such a good time. Miss V

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commited12u

Funny thing about a good sub is they will do almost anything to please…

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Aridgarden

Recently someone asked me in an email what five principles I would offer to submissives wanting to get into the lifestyle... first and foremost, you always have the right to stop ANYTHING at ANYTIME if you dont feel comfortable with it consensual means you both agree to and want it without coercion the best and healthiest relationships, not just within the lifestyle, are those with open, honest, non judgmental conversations that take place throughout ...not just before or after scenes casual bdsm, giving someone you dont know or trust the ability to destroy you, is about as safe as taking a ride from a stranger down a dark isolated road, it could easily be the end of your life go into it with an open mind, you dont have to know what you like or have an interest in and might learn some things you thought you didnt like you actually do, but if you know there are things that you never want to try, voice them and expect them to be respected, not all dominants are the same and those who dont respect hard limits are not true doms

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LadyAbrilyn

Another crossroads So, I've reached that point again. I've lost hope in finding my One, and my heart wants to consider trying vanilla. Again. I know it's not for me, but I am tired of holding back my feelings, and want a relationship to pour them into. I don't need a man in my life, I am a whole Woman by myself, but I do crave the companionship. I don't want to force anything, and honestly I kind of feel sorry for the boy I do find. I have a lot of pent up feelings, and desires, and he's going to have a lot to make up for, for making me wait so long to find him. I keep reminding myself that I'm not going to find what I want in the vanilla world. I tend to attract narcissistic, alcoholic, abusers in my vanilla life. I read somewhere that I may not attract any more then anyone else, I may just see it sooner. Nonetheless, where are you my sweet, slave boy? And why aren't you in my bed worshipping me?

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OurOtherSelf

Happy Christmas, everyone and hopefully you all have a prosperous New Year. The last year had been a tough one for everyone I am sure. However, keep your head up, keep smiling and don't stop laughing at the absurdity of this world of ours. To paraphrase Sultans of Ping FC said, "Things can only get better, even if you have lost your brand new sweater" A little 90s indie pop reference there for all you indy kids out there!

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I have this dark fantasy that keeps creeping into my mind more and more lately to the point it consumes my every thought So to anyone who will listen to my fantasy and make it a reality I will spend the rest of my life as your few limits slave anything over then scat or pain I will do with a smile if you make my fantasy real

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While there a certain joy about having naked people wandering around the house, there a side of me that is thinking. I wonder if I can get that ass smell out of the sofas and the floor. Laughs.. A home should never smell like a dam locker room. If your naked on a table as part of the decoration. Passing gas isn't acceptable. Why is the decoration changing colors? Why is there wax? I really don't think burning ass hair is very appetizing..

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Not sure why my profile has been unapproved, Support is silent with no info from them apart from a vague message to read the TOS Very unhelpful guys!

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pizzapuppiescows

It's a busy time of the year. I find myself both looking forward to the plans I make, and dragging my feet at their execution. Yesterday I had a thing in the morning and a different thing in the afternoon that I had to do something for, but I hadn't done it yet because I'm awesome like that. Between the two I sat down for a while because a girl needs a break. And then I rushed like crazy to get the thing done, grab the dog, put shoes on, and head out. I realized I had slipped my right foot into a slipper without thinking and corrected it. And then on the drive, halfway there, already late, while talking on the phone to a manager about some new changes, I realize I have on the left slipper.

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LondonTriangle

Phew and thank god! I nearly forked out just under £500 on the wrong specimen: 1. £295 for harness gear - custom made still lush 2. £50 for the application in 2 sizes 3. £95 rope bondage lesson but getting discount as the teacher is an old friend of mine Will still spend for myself but if I ask a man questions it means I am investing time to understand how to give you what you want. You can't give me a second, ok, harness yourself. I am good. Still investing in the supplies just finding a worthy destination. Some people like to talk forever and not act on their impulse I was thinking lets act on the impulse not just talk about it.

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Aoawer

Email me a TASK and I will DO IT! and send proof too! I'm eager and desperate and would do anything!

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Thanat0ast

Hello prospective submissive, I'm glad my post caught your eye, I've been looking for my pet slave for quite some time now, and I do hope you are going to be the one to fulfill both of our desires. But first, let me tell you a bit about what I'm truly looking for:I search for a submissive that, from the bottom of her heart, desires a relationship with her dom, her owner. This dynamic, and relationship, would be built upon a foundation of transparant communications, triplicate (physical, mental, and emotional) care, and proven mutual trust. Within this, I expect that my word and intentions are the law by which the submissive is beheld to, for her to surrender, both her control and her worries, completely to me, for I shall be the one to lead and to guide her. I do not mind to start off with long distance, but when the time comes, I would expect for her to be with me, and I have the means to ensure this happens, be it relocation assistance or otherwise.She should expect to have protocols be taught and enforced, be able to execute my instructions in a timely and satisfactory manner, assume basic household duties, engage in pet-play or pet-play adjacent activities, and eagerly look forward to affection in all its forms. Shared hobbies, especially nerdy ones, and deep conversations of whatever topics that graces the mind will be part and parcel for the healthy maintanence of the relationship.Do not mistake my kindness for a lack of structure or lack of the darker side of play, I am more than capable of providing affectionate cruelty with humiliating remarks, sadistic orders, and physical discipline. Ultimately, the shape of the dynamic-relationship will be influenced by the experiences we both share. If any of this resonated with you, and you are someone that places her owner first, I invite you to reach out. I want to learn more about you, and there is no substitute for communication.Do you think you would be the one to catch my eye? I look forward to finding out,Your f…

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oysterspearl

I am going to step away from this site for a while, probably completely. I am just not feeling it; Many contacting me are too sisssy or wish to be enslaved. Most are just too young. *I know, they are not too young, I am too old sigh Thinking of the VW Buzz commercial: Are You Having Any Fun? Not really. Be well, the Pearl

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FemininaDominina

Be easy to talk to on the phone and LOCAL to Los Angeles!😊

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DaddyGemini

Took some time away from the sit but I'm back once again.

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Candadtoronto

Vancouver for the month of September - 2023 Cannot host Strong need to serve

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GGGsub

I love this quote by Anais Nin. I've adapted it for me: I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my submissiveness. I want a Woman lying over me, always over me. Her will, her pleasure, her desire, her life, her work, her sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don’t mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a man, oh, God, as a man, I want to be dominated. I don’t mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling, be all that I am capable of doing, but I am going to be pursued, fucked, possessed by the will of a Woman at her time, her bidding.

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Dominants Are Not Perfect. We're People Too.

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About to embark on a journey. I read a quote today "It doesn't take a lot of strength to hang on. It takes a lot of strength to let go." Ive Let go but now there is a me i need to find. The plan is to drive from coast to coast. Wish me luck and pray the snow doesn't trap me ... The Late Master told me only southern routes this time of year.. wheels up next week!

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Blkitchincharge

Blkitchincharge

I am not looking for someone that wants to alter their anatomy! I am not looking for a cuckold! I am very much aware that even submissive men and slaves have desires! If any of the above applies to you, I wish you the best in your search!!

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MsMeowKitty

Kinda wished I spent my birthday by myself..

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ForcefulDutch

Please do not contact me if you can not maintain a friendship or communication.

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HumiliationTrain

HumiliationTrain

I have a fetlife account as well if you would care to look me up there feel free to ask.

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I am putting my search on hold until the end of April as I am evaluating a very promising prospect. By the end of the month I will either have taken it on or I will be resuming my search. Doubtless I will update this as things proceed.

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slvforfeminists

Merry Christmas to all the beautiful and superior females out there! Especially the Nutcrackers!

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Sooooooo I've been getting some mesages that are making me re-think this whole coming back to the community thing lmaooo Heres what we ARENT going to do: • pls don't message me as if you own me already or something because you will get ignored and/or blocked. Just because I advertise myself as submissive, doesn't mean that you can approach me any type of way. Respect in BDSM should be mutual, and earned. • I'm not afraid of that block button either 😂 • Let me reiterate, I haven't done this in years. • Yes I'm black. No I don't engage in race play. Thats definitely a hard limit and if you start your first message off refering to my race or calling me out of my name, you'll be blocked and cussed out most likely. I don't like that.

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MrSharp

Have you ever heard of Fantasy Fest? I am the current organizer of the Key West munch group on Fetlife and we set up and perform at a very large kink event in Key West each year. Our event generally gets about 1,500 people and kinks off Fantays Fest a week long party. This is the 24th annual event but I have only been involved for about eighteen years. Recent years I provide a lot of the dungeon equipment like the St. Andrews Cross, Spanking Bench, Suspension Rig, and Vacuum Cubes. If you have never seen a vacuum cube in action here is a link to a video MrSharp dot net slash Cubes slash VacCube_720p dot mp4 you will need to replace the dots and slashes with the actual thing. Our group normally has a private party the Sat or Sun before the big show for our performers and volunteers. If you are interested in learning more about vacuum cubes and Fantasy Fest let me know.

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Mistresscherrypie

Mistresscherrypie

Looking for someone local in dallas texas Listen up, boys. I’m looking for a local sub who actually knows how to kneel, beg, and worship me the way I deserve. Over 35? Perfect. Mature enough to know better, still foolish enough to want it. You will worship me in every way I please: Pegging (because sometimes I want to see you squirm) Ball busting (you’ll learn pain can be pleasure… my kind of pleasure) Foot worship (my toes aren’t optional—they’re sacred) Strip roasting (I’ll verbally roast you while you grovel) Body worship (kneel, lick, beg, repeat) Trampling (I like to feel your desperate little body under me) Impact play (spanks, paddles, crops—you’ll earn every one)

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Byrdie

Public Service Announcement For those who have a tendency to delete their own profiles multiple times in a few weeks just because they're getting contacts from people of a less desirable gender, age, role, or location there is the option to set Mail Controls so that messages from people of: certain genders- either any, or who identify as certain kinky orientations outside of specified age ranges outside of your country of residence part of a couple's profile a situation where they have no profile available at the time of contact ... go into the Bulk folder, and thus you don't get a notification that they've contacted you. Depending on how hard-core you are about your filters, you can delete every message that appears in there unread.You can either follow the link I included above, or you can find the Mail Controls button at the top, right-hand corner after clicking on "Read Mail."Now, if you tend to dig into your Bulk Mail no matter what, um, good luck with that.

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...and so now I find that punctuation is not applied when sending a message. SMH

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Oh good. Now the "New Messages" section of the website won't stop erroring out when I click it. If you're reading this, know I am trying!

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rosiesissy13

I rewrote my profile... so hopefully it'll be re-approved before the end of the world.

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immature4mature

immature4mature

Back on this site looking for a Mommy again I'm 41 now just in case the profile has not updated yet. Not trying to be dishonest if it still says I'm 30 something.

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themountainhill

About the Hill that was a Mountain 14/1/24 WTF Blowjobs Blowjobs are the little black dress when it comes to chat. Correspondingly I have had more cocks in my mouth than I care to remember. Of course I know the drills, the keywords, - wide eyes that have to look up pleadingly, lips that close tightly around the head, warmth and wetness encumbering that cock of yours… Afterwards, most of the play partners said “thank you” and went to bed happy. Goal accomplished. I still hated it. I don't know what created the belief that a blow job was a good way to get acquainted. Goddamn, I can’t talk with that thing in my mouth and if you consider those gargled noises and my desperate gasps for air enough to get to know me, you might want to rethink. For pretty much every dominant male I have met till now, it was unthinkable to forgo a blowjob. Of all the unspoken rules in BDSM that surely is one of the most widespread. Blow jobs are a minimal requirement. While it is widely accepted that we all are different and might not share the same kinks, that tolerance stops with blow jobs. Yes, I do give blow jobs. I do it because I have submitted to a special person, who is worth it. But the blow jobs never were a given. Like my submission or slavery. Maybe that's something to think about:)

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I was naturally drawn to taking the lead in sex from the very beginning, and exerting control was the first soft kink I ever indulged in. My college girlfriend and I used to make out on the couch all the time. I'd visit her at home with her family, and when it got late, once her parents left the family room for other parts, we'd kiss hot and heavy... meaning that the kisses were hot and her tits were heavy; she was a busty one. This was obviously before the Internet and knowledge about kink was well hidden in the dark corners of libraries and bookstores and nudie mags, so I didn't even know that what I was doing was a thing or had a term for it. Hell, I was just a kid, but it seemed to me that the best sex I could give her, with her parents in the next room and our clothes still on was to sink my fingers into her drenched pussy, bring her just shy of the perfect orgasm, and then to ruin it, making her fight to cross the finish line. I'd suddenly fuck with the timing as she approached what was about to be a smooth, rewarding vanilla O. She'd be headed in the direction of having the climax she was used to having in her bedroom, late at night while she dreamt of my handsome college boy cock. Just before she hit the peak, as she slapped her hand down on top of mine between her legs to force me into giving her the perfect school girl climax, I quickly showed her who was boss, and I taught her a different way to experience her sex as she fought my strong hand, trying to get me back in rhythm. I'd be stubborn as hell for the last few seconds of the buildup, and once she burst, I fell still and threw her into one or two seconds of freefall, barely stimulating that tense, confused knob of hers. Then I'd rub her like mad, just like a cheap vibrator, so she would have a sort of surprise orgasm after having given up on it once she has started bucking into my stiff, motionless hand. Lovingly cruel, I was in total command of that…

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pizzapuppiescows

Just about a month ago I made some decisions about where I was spending my heart. Turns out there were little tears I had sprinkled here or there, like Gretel, to find my way back. Keeping a finger on the comfortable prevented me from fully looking towards the future. For the first time in a very long while, I fully let go and embraced the idea of what might be pretty wonderful. That has made all the difference. I feel like everything is coming together now. I just needed to get to this moment. I almost don't want to write this out loud to you, journal friend, for fear of jinxing it. But you know, you can't jinx what is meant to find you. Good things are in motion, and they are all mine.

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I am somewhat well known in the local community and will not post photographs in this, or any other, forum, If meaningful communication is established, I will be happy to exchange pics via CS messaging or email

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If you don't live in fear that I will take over your life. I am not scary enough for you. Of course I can push beyond what you can handle but I don't want to leave behind broken people on my wake in life.

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Suzyswallow

Just posted a new pic on my profile took two days to get verified wow this site is so slow. Xx

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LondonTriangle

Year's ago I went to this intriguing open lecture from a historian who published a book about sexual novelty. He described meeting people with what seemed like an unusal fetish but could be linked back to a childhood encounter. I guess my early encounter links back to my childhood, seeing my mother neglected, disatisfied in her one relationship. She is one of those Christian women, who has been with one man here whole life and put all her hopes and dreams into one man that shattered her expectations of a happy life and marriage. I guess I lived part of her experience, which is why I am extremely independent always pursing a life goal, always helping others. 90% of my life has been helping other people and I honestly can say if I was hit but a bus, my last thought would be I have helped thousands of people. Just self-reflecting I don't think my sexual fantasies are in the BDSM remit. I think leather is overrated. Owning a BDSM dungeon is just bad furniture and B&Q rope. I just like the idea of three people, entering a space and saying fuck what other people think, what do you want to try and what do you enjoy and leave the rest behind. I am sure there will be some who will show judgement and these are always individuals ignoring the cavities of their own life filling up with shit. Life really is too short and I would rather in my public life carry on as I am and in my private life explore who I am.

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The ability to protect a relationship is a skill that you should have. If you allow the internet and the news to influence you. You have to think is this influence good for you. The news thrives on drama to gain attention to push commercials. Stay strong with your relationships. Be informed. Remember happiness is the goal.

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Bikinisub

I'm watching TV in my bedroom with my sub and I step out for a moment. I don't hear anything. It's quiet. My sub has paused the TV so I don't miss anything while I'm away. Does anyone else's sub do this? I'm eating a snack while on my phone. My sub comes over and empties the ash tray I'm using. She's out by the pool in her bikini and grilling shish kebabs for dinner. She comes inside and I ask her where she was. I'm grilling kebabs for dinner. I'm making them early so we can enjoy the pool. I'm getting a massage while on my pool float. She works on my legs arms and my neck. I'm reading my book while sunbathing by the pool. She's in the pool doing the same. She gets out and heads into the house. I ask where are you going? She replies, to freshen up your drink. She anticipates my every need.

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Trying to think of ways o celebrate my birthday, Are there any good suggestions one can offer a Goddess?

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Master has given specific orders that i am not to be on the sites. only my own blog. i am grateful for Master's orders. i won't be on the site here until given the privelege.

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MistressWhipplash

MistressWhipplash

Sunday 12th Nov 2023 Chilling now after a busy weekend. I am designing wrapping next which will go on my shop. It will be lovely to have my own design to wrap gifts in. P.S Live near London and take my NO at my 1st answer or get blocked. Pretty simple folks. I wish I knew someone near me who could make clothes. I can design the fabric pattern and get it printed. Meanwhile a thoughtful submissive driver to go to out together with would be fun.Where's a cute little bitch when I need one. Saturday 11th Nov 2023 Art day today and baking tomorrow as I have guests visiting. The Mawning munch is in a few weeks. I miss going to Club Pedestal but my driver required. I would prefer a younger guy who can keep up with my energy levels. Friday 10th Nov 2023New to Collarspace but not the fetish scene. My main profile is on FL. I go to my local munch in Romford, they have great food there. See you there sometime at the Mawney Munch in Romford Essex UK.

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It make a request of me. Don't spoil me. If your preparing for failure. Obvious there is a trust issue to address before things move forward.

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kinkyplaymate05

kinkyplaymate05

Love when I waste time talking to people and then they play games over meeting. And yet, claim I’m the flake! if you don't intend to get real, don't waste our time.

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Fireflybound

So turns out the account I thought I deleted is still here and have accidentally logged in to it! I do not use boundfirefly anymore - so message me here!

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This slave seeks to serve a cruel and Sadistic Woman or Couple. slave does not believe that property chooses anything but offers Control to its Owner. slaves only choice is in who it offers its body and mind to. other than this it offers full control and it offers its commitement to learn to be of service or amusement for its Owner. this slave has experience in live in service and craves to end its life in service to a Dominant. it is described by many as a pain receptacle.

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blkbitchincharge

blkbitchincharge

I am looking for a Valentine's Day slave Are you ready to serve me?

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Everyone has quirks, peculiarities, idiosyncratic eccentricies, and predilections, and unreasonable likes and dislikes. I have more than most, perhaps. Example: I really don't like the word "naughty", in the ThisThingThatWeDo context. Another example: I really don't like the phrase "Sex Toys". I like the things themselves; just don't like nomenclature. "Sex Tools" is what I call them; because I'm so fucking romantic, I suppose. Telling me you want to "get naughty with toys" would be one way to cure my priapism, should I ever develop a case of that.

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urbanleatherlife

urbanleatherlife

Finding a balance for the things inrequire In life has been the greatest treasure hunt. ask me about it

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TheBlaqueQNGodess

TheBlaqueQNGodess

I want to slap him in the face, while never breaking eye contact 😊😈

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severnes

I intend to spend the winter in southern Spain, if anyone knows a house to rent, or if any submissive would like to host me (I pay the expenses) write to me here

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wayward5oul

Happy New Year everyone!!!!

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If I can't give you confidence to be who you are, we are not a good fit.

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snowcatsub

This is just so I'll stop getting messages of so called concern. Yes I am fine from the hurricane, Greensboro got nothing but rain so I'm not in an area that was affected. I have no clue why people would think any different when I'm in a city so far from the mountains. I wouldn't even be on here if I was in a bad off area anyway.

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Dammit, I'm 59. I don't want to update my profile in case it goes into limbo again. Was born in 1963 ok?

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AngryRope

i don't need a lightning rod

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Why do individuals, make a profile, only to remove it after a few days. I can begin to count, how many, make a profile. You or someone else responds and they delete it. Or those, who make a profile and never come back, to check on them. Frustrating,dealing with those types.

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TheMountainsTop

TheMountainsTop

Looking for someone to help me humiliate subby tonight, message if interested!

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Imagine me nude and ahackled. I am your live in slave. I do the domeatice work, abused pain and bruised alave and fuck holes whore. I cook,clean then get the shit out of me given pain. When the packages or mail are delivered i must offer my mouth to say thank you for the delivery, even if they are women. I am the ho that the community can use. I have no shame

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transbitchuk

if you want to see more and know more i'm on fet with the same name xxx

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I see this site is still here. New account, new journey. Wish me luck.

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CentralDom

Imagine...some idiot 500 miles away told me he 'needs' someone. I tell him that's his problem , not mine and the shit starts some stupid rant. Perfect example of a self centered creep. Total narcissist. Enjoy life alone.

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HannahPo

Oh a little about me. Most people on here seem very single minded and want some magic insta unicorn slave just off some old website like this... I am a housepet. That means I have an owner. He has had me for nearly 10 years and you know... A puppy is for life etc. I am totally committed to this life and lifestyle and am very happy. Where did we meet? Well I used to be a sex worker and he was a more kink interested client.. We had a few nervous meetings out and about then before long I was chained to his bed every night lol. Here to perv and chat to other kinksters mainly. I like hearing about what happens in the rest of the kink world. Even if its mostly not for me.

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MzticStormz

I'm 60 this year. You would think that CS would at least make it so that one could increase one's age without having to go through a complete profile review. What a pita.

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SubmissionExplorer

One of my kinks is forniphillia, so that makes me a forniphiliac. At its simplest it is the act of turning or being turned into an object or piece of furniture. Obviously for me it is the latter. Being used as a foot stool, table, chair is amazing for me, but if anyone out there has some woodworking or metalwork skills perhaps to make more complex items to fit me into that would be wonderful. The Wikipedia definition is: Forniphilia is defined as the act of turning a human being into a piece of furniture. This paraphilia involves the desire to use the person as an object often in a sexual content where an individual may be treated as a functional item rather than a human being. Additionally it reflaspects a psychological aspect of control and utllity where the individual is rendered to a state of servitude or objectification.

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dungeonkept

As long as I have to wait for the Profile update to be appoved, let me add that I am an excllent DIY'er, having owned 7 houses in the past and flipped 3 of them, I know my stuff!

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I wonder why an alleged couple would post pictures of only one person. I wonder why an alleged couple are unable to keep track of conversation.

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EmperorAscendant

EmperorAscendant

Men, I might be flattered, but you're wasting your time messaging me.

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MsPam4u

Taking a break. Not sure I can do this anymore.

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slave4YouEastCoast

slave4YouEastCoast

Some of us are born to serve. I sought out alpha males online as a horny porn obsessed boy. One of those Daddy's began to use me and fill me after weeks of convincing and guidance as I ackwowledged i wanted to get fucked not fuck and that I like the idea of having my pussy filled. Daddy Mark suggested household suppiies to penetrate my hole. I began to jerk off with my clit over my mouth. I came into my mouth. I ate my cum. Daddy Mark wanted to meet. After limited resistance Daddy Mark drove to my neighborhood late at night where I snuck out and met him in a quiet area a few blocks from my home. He directed me to wear only a tshirt and shorts and to approach his van. When he opened the door he told me to get in and remove my clothes and hand them to him. I did as told. He filled both my holes. He fed me poppers as he showed me porn of twinks being bred. I left knowing that I'd never do that again. Two weeks later I did that again. This time in my youth baseball uniform. He filled me with my jock strap on. "You're made to be a bottom bitch," Daddy Mark said. "You're the most eager bottom I've ever had." Meeting 3 saw me sink deeper. I told my parents I'd be spending a weekend at a friends house but instead rode with Daddy Mark to his house, where a sex swing, basement playroom and two Daddys waited to make me their bitch. I've slowly accepted I want to be a slave. Owned, taken, shaped, used. I'm a sissy. Open to relcation, few limits, TPE and life free to be a slave.

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I do not expect you to endure the things i have in store for you, I expect you to fail spectacularly but with failure comes growth and strength. Weakness is the fear of trying.

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If surgery can be used to create a hole, surgery can be used to tighten one up.

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Looking for: 1. Female 2. Speaks English 3. Accountable 4. Upkept Nice to have: 1. Oral fixation 2. Porn addiction 3. No tattoos 4. Under 60yo

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girlinboy

I recently discover another fetish of mine - full toilet service, and I like it. If I find someone with it, it will a bonus.

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Has the journal system broken - again? Let's edit the posting from last April to see if I can leave a message...

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ExperiencedWidower

ExperiencedWidower

Due to a typo, I actually turned 60 in August. not 70. We all know it is a real challenge to update any profile information.

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RavenMoonSiren

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chivalrousmale

Miss B has a plan, my DDD or Domme Determined Destiny. As Her sub, I don’t need to know what it is, I simply trust Her and obey…

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ForcefulDutch

Wow they are back. The best way to learn about people instead of reading their fantasy profiles about how good and special they are.

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Why I do not train others? People are like a pandora's box. Once they are open, it is impossible to put them back in their box back to their orginal forms. They learn how to please and interact differently than your typical vanilla relationship. Once they are comfortable in the lifestyle, going back is hard to do. There is comfort in knowing what is expected and knowing what needs to be done to please and to perform add stability to a mess of a life. It difficult deal with those who are left alone without that strong influence in their life. They tend to flounder a bit before they can create their own structure of a life. Relationship after care is more important than after care after a session.

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New questions from applicants: Q: Can a family member who disapproves of my lifestyle come stay in your house with me for months at a time? A: No. We have an in-home opening because we choose to embrace how we live and love every day of the year in the privacy and safe space of our home. Q: If I decide to leave after a little while, will you give me money? A: We respect that sex work is work, but that's not what we are here for. So, no.

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Seeking long term , I would like if she was slutty for me.

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1. Meeting. continued.... When she let him in I was sat back still on the floor, and he sat in the chair, the bed was a low futon and she sat there as the only other piece of furniture, so we were in a triangle. He was older than us, and had a laddish attitude about him, not great looker. Bit of opening banter...he leered at her a bit and asked how she was. She looked at him and at me, sighed and stood up and went to him and arched her body into his shoulder where he sat, and said "we have just been talking. Simon said i was beautiful" "Did he?" looking at me his hand draped around her arse. "he did", she said in a kind of "so there!" manner her two hands pushing off against him a little, but not enough to take her pelvis off of contact with him for more than a second. He laughed and said "I've had worse i suppose" and she bent down and kissed him, lifting a leg over his and sliding her front down his front till she straddled his lap . "hey Robin" she said looking back " thanks for the chat, maybe I'll see you tomorrow?""Uh, yeah sure" i said and let myself out.

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EagerSubForGrandpa

There is definitely a time when a boi just needs his hands tightly bound, to be bent over and used without mercy by master and all his friends, until he remembers who and what he is.

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nytekat

I'm not very adventurous. I need to change that!

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nytekat

Well! That's nice! A person is acting like a child! If you don't like me? FINE but take my anger like a man! Yes! I'm angry! You fucking refused me!!! Wouldn't YOU be angry? ESPECIALLY if this comes from left field!

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bruiserjim

Thank you to all who have responded! I have not been very active on here lately and that is partly do to life changes and challenges. I hope you all are doing well!! Feel free to message and strike up a conversation!

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Looking4boy2own

Looking4boy2own

Well it's been a bit but I'm still here... I know, darn! LolI've been busy the rodeo royalty competition was a bust and very anger inducing not because I lost, because the individual who won used a racial slur against another person in the competition and was not only allowed to continue the competition but won?!?!?!??!!!! Yeah... you can see where this doesn't set well... I've been nominated for the vice president position of my association but don't think I want it... I'm debating a hiatus, I think I'm due the break... the working out has been not as steady no thanks to illnesses and injuries but regardless I am still working out 3-4 times weekly... yeah I'm still determined

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Sir4CSsubJournal

Submissive visitor, part 2b I laid on the bed and had him kneel between my legs and lick my scrotum. I then instructed him on how to take my cock into his mouth, how to lick, suck, bob his head, use his hands on my body to stimulate my erogenous zones as he sucked, reminding him to focus on the dick licking while multitasking. I had him try to swallow my cock, but he was not able to hold it at all, quickly gagging and pulling away. He was very good at licking the head, and I enjoyed myself greatly while providing constant feedback and instruction. I did have to pull away a couple of times as I got very close. I pointed out the signs he needs to recognize so that he can ease back a little bit to keep me near the edge without ending my fun. When it was time to cum, told him that I was going to fuck his throat. If he was able to not pull away before I came, then I would allow him cum. I grabbed two fistfuls of hairs and started fucking all the way in. He struggled, gagged, his eyes were watering, but he fought through it. Fortunately for him, I was very close to cumming when I started, so it only took about a minute. He took my load, swallowed, and kept sucking until I told him he could stop. I told him to stand by the desk in the room and edge himself. I said I was going to give him permission to cum, but when I did he would only be able to touch himself for 30 seconds, then he had to take his hands off of his cock no matter what. If he didn't I was going to dump the bucket full of melting ice and water on him. After I had fully recovered from my orgasm, I stook next to him. When he seemed to be losing the edge a little bit, I said "Cum now bitch" and started the timer on my phone. He'd been denied and very horny for so long that he came almost immediately. The first spurt went at least a foot, then the rest of his large load followed i…

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nytekat

*blink* Do people not take this seriously???? GOOD GOD! I've been doing this for YEARS!!! It takes a LOT of time to find the right match!

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"Dirty Old Man" is what I am. I do not bathe or shave. I do not care when others stare at My uncut hair or nails. I crave a slave who will obey and forever stay in my chambers. She will follow My lead and be Just as Dirty as Me. We will live a long life of lust amid the disgust. I shall love her with All My Heart and We will Never Be Apart. If this is you then without ado Send Me a Message and say so!

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Helen4education

Helen4education

Will people from all over the world Please stop contacting me, I am only interested in UK people. If you do contact me please have something interesting to say, writing a couple of words is pointless.

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OCTopforfun

Just received a new set of clover clamps that are pretty severe but will be fun to play with on the right masochist. A picture with them on has been posted.

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LadyArakney

Seeking the elusive "unicorn" male sub/slave who ISN'T looking to have a cock (or replica) shoved down his throat and/or up his ass. Must be local.

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The Long Flight: Singapore to New York The flight from Singapore to New York felt endless, but it was also strangely exciting. I was used to flying for work, but this time felt different. Maybe it was the anticipation of my meetings, maybe it was the prospect of some downtime in a city that never stopped moving. Either way, it was the start of something new, and as soon as I sat down, I noticed the man in the seat next to me. Nathan was older—mid-60s, white, confident in the way he carried himself. He had a sharp jawline, graying hair, and a calm aura that seemed at odds with the usual frenetic energy of a business flight. But there was something magnetic about him, something I couldn’t quite put my finger on. He smiled when I took my seat next to him. His gaze lingered a bit longer than I expected, and I could see the faint glint of curiosity in his eyes. "Long flight," he said casually. "You headed to New York for work?" I nodded, my voice barely above a murmur. "Yeah, work. You too?" He chuckled, a low sound that carried a certain confidence. "Business, yes. But I've spent a lot of time in New York, so maybe I could show you around if you find yourself free." We chatted for a while—about the weather, New York, the usual stuff—until Nathan started making small comments about me that left me feeling a little exposed. Nothing overt, but enough to make me pause. "You know," he said, his eyes sliding over me with a kind of knowing amusement, "there's something about you. A certain... softness. It’s rare to see that in a guy who's clearly confident." I wasn’t sure how to respond, so I just shrugged. "I guess I’m not all business." Nathan grinned, his gaze more intense now. "No, you’re not," he said with a chuckle. "I can tell. You’re definitely a man who knows how to relax, how to let go when needed. That’s... attractive." I raised an eyebrow, unsure of where this was going. Was he flirtin…

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pizzapuppiescows

You'll probably want to know that my dog was suspiciously quiet so I turned on my phone flashlight and looked around. My bra was wrapped around her bone and she was wearing my panties like a ski mask. We are back in the realm of shit you can't make up.

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Since CS does not update thr ages on profiles, I am currently 65 years old.

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slave's prayer Master, Owner of its body and Director of its will, You are with it. it is thankful that it serves You. Let it be transparent so that its heart may be visible always. Even the workings of its mind are Yours. Master, You honor it with Your Ownership and it submits to You with its thoughts, words, deeds, its body and its soul. So that it may be a reflection of Your will, and the manifestation of Your desires.

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MistressDesireSD

Such a stupid whore. Hope they get what they deserve. If you are going to assume shit about someone make sure you know what they are capable of. Still want to disrespect them? Hope you get exactly what you deserve. By the way, I do not play well with snowflakes.

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Currently seeking slaves.

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I am trying to get this journal feature to work. Submissive women, you are the greatest. Message me if you have any interst!

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Soical media is addictive, sex is addictive, kink is even more addictive. A great relationship is an extreme addiction.

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I have never found.that great fit in my life but i have forged some great relationships. Every relationship is great when things go well but it when things go wrong that determines the strength of a relationship. If someone wanders off sometimes we let them and we wish them well cause who really wants someone who not invested in a relationship. We all have a limited time. Sometime those who walk away are just not worthy of investing your time and life into.

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Probably should let everyone know I have really terrible ADHD and if we talk and I am interested in you I do have a tendency to hyperfocus on the conversation and just bombard you with messages. I've been told it comes off as being very overbearing so if that happens just let me know and I'll do my best to rein it in.

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It's back. Sometime I wonder where it goes. Sometime i wonder if it thinks it a frog in a pot of slow boiling water. Frog soup. Lol I think it was in a corner desperately trying to rub off the mark I left on It's soul. Yup that is a sex joke. I warn it about being a pandora's box. It my obligation to warn it about me. It has a bright soul let's see if I can brighten up the sky with it.

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Wolf87

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It's been 2 years since we spoke. I do not think of you every day anymore, but you do cross my mind. I know you aren't here, but I hope your mentor or Dumas is and still checks on me. Nobody here has come close to how you made me feel. I don't know that anyone ever will. I am ok now though.

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Eagles flying high but my ravens and falcons are not soaring! Wondering if any birds will be taking flight in the super bowl.

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LAActress4U

If only Yup, time to go to sleep.

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Big Dog vs Little Dog Last night at the bar... i walk in, it's crowded and really noisy. i wasn't expecting so many people on a Wednesday night. i'd come looking for a little peace and quiet before heading home; the unexpected crowd and din of shrill voices makes me almost turn around and leave. Instead, i figure, awww well, i'm already here. i pull up to one of the few open seats at the corner of the bar, next to two men who are there chatting and having a good time. Almost immediately, the man immediately to my right says hello and introduces himself. He is very chatty, friendly, obviously very intoxicated. He is polite though, so i don't mind. i'm never opposed to some fun banter and respectful company. He introduces himself, and his friend (he is TJ, and his friend is John). Once my drink arrives, TJ clinks glasses with me in a "Cheers". He makes sure to tell me about his recent divorce. He makes some lighthearted conversation about this and that. He flirts with me but it's also lighthearted and fun. TJ says something to John, i don't quite catch it but John says, "Yes, but she is making eye contact with me." John wasn't wrong. Although TJ is the one i'm sitting next to, and he is the one chatting me up, John is the one i am eyeing. TJ is striking me as kind of like a Chihuahua...high energy, somewhat amusing, but loud and needy. John on the other hand...maybe more like a Great Dane. Quiet, stronger, more in control. "A man of few words", TJ says. But you just know that he is a man of action and takes pride in keeping himself and his household in order. It doesn't hurt that John really reminds me of my ex. i don't really have one type...i have a few types...and he is definitely one of them. TJ continues talking to me, making me laugh. Not because he is particularly funny or witty, but because it's amusing. He fist bumps and cheers' me many more times. He says, "I can tell you have a dark side. I want to see you with your h…

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slavedriver01

subs/slaves seem to forget their manners when chattting here.

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EnchantedEdge

Just to set the record straight: yes, my photo is generated, but it’s very close to what I actually look like. I’m here for genuine connections, not to trick anyone. However, no one with anything to lose would post their real face on a kink website—privacy matters. For those genuinely interested, I’m happy to share real photos when there’s a reason to. Otherwise, I’m not here to entertain accusations of "trickery." Honestly, it’s never that serious, and I feel sorry for anyone with time to throw around that kind of snark. Let’s keep it fun and respectful—life’s too short for anything less.

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ForcefulDutch

" just looking for friends" shows pictures of tits, spread cunt and toys. Just liek we did at school when we looked for friends

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Rayban74

Spankings. I could always use one. And I love to give them. Seasons Spankings!!

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Viper65Rhyme69

Just because we are showing picstures of a few things for the guys and gurls that we can 3D print, don't think we haven't found SEVERAL things for the ladies, too. Those were just the things we were able to find pictures of. LOL

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BondageGoth

Merry Christmas all

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houseboyinTX

I can host You Mistress if You are conaidering a vacation or a visit to Bucharest. I will be at your service.

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Valuptas

Monday I will be blocking several people from being able to contact me at all . I am someone that actually meets in person . I am not looking for a pen pal or someone too scared to meet . I've already deleted a few troubled souls . It's summer time . If there is any time to seek out your interests, it's certainly nice enough to now . Just getting a bit more serious on who has access to me

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A little book worm, reads but it takes someone special to experience and experiment. Reading someone else's life isn't the same of experience a life. Reading about an orgasm isn't the same as having one.

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AVeryNastyMan

I have found a for sure way to get someone to stop messaging you here. Ask them to tell you about themselves. You will no longer hear from them.

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Suzyswallow

There must be someone who wants a sexy sub tv for fun in the Uk 🇬🇧 xxx

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LadyLaurelin

Helpful hints: I am poly. This means I may have other subs or lovers. Or none. According to my desires.You don't have to be poly but I will not change who I am to be with anyone. I enjoy men and women and the full spectrum in between. My interests aren't about what's between your legs so much as what is in your mind, heart and soul. I do enjoy naughty bits but I prefer to get to know you first. See if we are a good match. I host local kink events. I have a busy and fulfilling life. In order to get my attentions you will have to be interesting and should put your best foot forward. I enjoy intelligent people, no matter if they are verbose or quiet. If you're too verbose, I do have a ball gag. :) I live in Alaska. Yes it's cold here. Yes it's dark here. Yes I see the aurora's outside my house. Yes it's full of wildlife and quite amazing. Yes it's a bucket list destination. I'm happy to talk about it but if that's all you want to know then watch the discovery channel. Good luck.

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Sirstrict71

It's Bewildering. So, I'm absolutely bewildered by a certain female submissive that adds me to their friends list, AND adds me to their favourites, but doesn't answer any messages, then deletes the last message without even reading it! Can anyone explain that to me? Is there really that many females on this site that really are a waste of time? I mean why would you do all that if you've no intention of communicating? Does my profile make me look strict and scary? I really am not. I'm a genuine, nice, easy going person who'll chat to anyone. The only time I'm strict and scary is when I'm dealing with a bratty or disobedient sub or slave. Anyway, rant over lol. If any subs do like the sound of my profile please chat to me. You never know I might be just what you're looking for.

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garterbeltsissy

I LOVE PLAYING WITH OTHER GURLS XXX

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alenaslight

I thought I'd be welcomed differently Man was I wrong Everything comes with a price. Back to struggling to grasp something in the darkness

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MiaBats

I know this is a fetish dating site, but an alarming amount of people here need to learn to talk to others with basic respect.

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Hezzair

What part of NO CHEATERS/ YOU MUST BE OPEN WITH ANY PARTNERS YOU HAVE did I not make clear in my profile? I mean, I thought I made that pretty damn obvious. I am poly. You can be, too. I don't care if you have a wife and a girlfriend, and then want a sub on top of that, as long as we all know the others exist! It's simple respect, people. HONESTY. If you expect me to form a power exchange relationship with you, I'm going to have to trust you. I can't trust you if your own spouse or partner can't trust you. It's as easy as that.

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Only made it to the 2nd of January and it's already another year with timewasters. Maybe I should change my aftershave ;) You know who you are you sad pricks. Get a life FFS. And for the love of God, guys just stop pretending to be submissive women!

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YourSadistDaddy

YourSadistDaddy

now wheres that sweet little fan holder.

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commited12u

Here for a good time not a long time

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i have just begun to see the gentle outline of breasts. i had started to wonder if this was going to happen. The joy of finally seeing that made me giddy! The horrors of Putin's war leave me speechless. To have an ex president offer praise to these false strong men is absolutely beyond my ability to comprehend. If we're lucky we may figure out whether we can keep our representative democracy but with each passing day i lose just a little more hope.

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She SAID she wanted to feel electricity between us... ... but when I tried shoving the zinc and copper rods up her holes, she freaked. I suppose I should consider myself fortunate I wasn't charged with 'Battery'

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MsTxStorm

wow a jerk this early in the morning, can't even say hello and gets all butt hurt cause you won't do his bidding and help him jerk off online....now where is my profile does it say I'm into that? Oh yeah only their needs matter....silly me lol Not going to even open the idiots response. You can be as sweet as pie but you don't take care of what's between their legs and you're "not real" eye roll

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WildPrecious

A long journey, and I am changed. Physically, yes, but the body and the mind are connected. Which is dominant? I think we all agree it's the mind. I need his mind to tell mine that I am exquisite perfection. I would do anything in return. Being cherished and adored, just as you are, is the catalyst for obedience.

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Happy Christmas everybody

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Please note, my bio is outdated and has been for a while... But it takes SO long to get a profile review that I don't want to even attempt. Hopefully this will suffice as a new one. I am seeking a submissive or (in a perfect world) switch to get to know and/or play with long term with the possibility of more if we both wanted it. I discovered I heavily lean dominant and am generally focused on Dominant roles, but I would love to explore my submissive side if the right person came along. I am male, 24, 5'10, DDF, healthy, and attractive. I'll try and check on here relatively frequently, and if you'd like to chat please reach out if I haven't already. I'm cautious about sharing many photos on forums, but I am happy to verify and send headshots if we end up talking. Hope to hear from you soon! (I am only interested in Women at this time, please and thank you)

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DirtyJobs

I know this site sucks, but is there any decency? If I write you a nice respectful customized note, is it too hard to politely respond even if not interested? There are just so many rude people around here with almost zero ettiquette. It used to be much different here where you got a polite response one way or another.

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It's been awhile since I added a journal entry. I have experienced so much pain and pleasure in these past many years, that I scarcely no where to begin. I've moved beyond mere pain. Now I'm looking for someone who would appreciate a good girl with a submissive heart, who sometimes needs correction or guidance. Mostly, I wish for a Dom who values sensuality with a bit of sadism to add into the mix.

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hypnomindsetter

Hi this is another way to send as Yahoo is no more It will be in next entry

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It is like art, how it is dress, how it acts. Make up is important. Being Happy while Serving. Dressing to impress in leather or lace.

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SecretGardens02

SecretGardens02

Debating joining a kink server but I've had a bad run of luck so far. Any recommendations?

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sommisandry

Been a while since wrote this stufff. Basically there is no joy unless the Femdom is into something making it much easier. Foot Worship has no value if are not into it but knowing what can do along with what are into is important. Like piercings are not good as anemic or thallsemia so lack enough blood its not like some random limit. Needles were never my thing neutral if person has tats as that can be hit or miss depending on taste. Would not be against getting married or being live in. Female has the money or owns house should be able to serve as not able to provide. Rich guys living as subs is more like movies. Those unable to provide end up as slaves or servants basically in reality. Been caregiver to mom dealing with sick dogs hence things semm a lot easier as would not want to see or believe even if name was Ripley not from Aliens. Site is kinda meh finally found browser to work along with getting win11 laptop.

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Elorin

If you find my profile confusing, we probably aren't compatible. If you can't reconcile demanding and strict with a lack of interest in slaves or M/s, we probably aren't compatible. If you can't follow simple instructions without being prompted, we probably aren't compatible.

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So Family group chat got really weird the other day. Im ok wit over the top topics but some are downright scary. hubby has some really perveted family membere

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StrangestDesires

StrangestDesires

Profile Changes Goodness. Trying to maximize use of the site, but don't want to lose access for minor changes. How annoying! Even uploading new pictures?! C'mon Collarspace, help us out!

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HotWifeMistress

HotWifeMistress

I'm a loving caring Domme seeking her sub for ltr. You: available, devoted, educated, professional, well-off, well-rounded, Caucasian, attractive, publicly alpha, privately submissive, faithful, non-sissy, cuckold (non-negotiable). Need cuckoldress to pamper, obey, serve, worship, support, suffer for emotionally and physically. Ideal Situation: long-term relationship leading to marriage in TPE/Cuckold situation where cuckold is subjected to long-term sexual denial and chastity, reduced to slave-husband status in permanent service to me. You have to earn the status of husband before being a slave. I am not a slave master. Me: Petite 5'3" 120 lb sexy curves, African American Dom, the boss, business owner, attractive, caring considerate person but to my cuckold husband, I will keep always wanting more and begging to please me. Must be good looking, in shape and health conscious. I am all 3 of those so you must be too. I'm self employed and the boss. I live in New Jersey and I'm not looking nor will entertain long distance relationships. Must be in the NJ, Philly, or DE . I'm willing to do some variations of the above in the way of physical appearance. Although if you're extremely over weight or unhealthy, I'm not interested. I dedicate a lot of time to keeping myself in shape and eating healthy foods. I really want a person that I care about who needs to be dominated more than I need someone to treat cruelly just for the sake of being mean. I prefer you be over 40, mature, health conscious, as I really want someone in great shape but at least be healthy and HWP. The more successful you are, the more I want to dominate you. When you respond let me know about you, your past experiences or anything that's significant. Messages with pics will be answered first, if I choose to answer at all. One liners or "how may I serve you" will be erased. …

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SissyBambiDoll

hiiiyyyeee everybody i will be not be able to respond due to my profile being updated but nevertheless lonly sissy hynotized bambi here smooth from cheeck to toes :) seeking a new home where i can be of service. i am very egar to meet you and make you super duper happy :) available to relocate serious inquaries only. wanna own me?? first come first serve all you have to do is get me to you and im yours no bs no games no flakes :>

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Identityzer0

This continued COVID shit is really cramping our lifestyle. GET VACCINATED PEOPLE!!!

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my Master is ALLOWING me to chat with anyone who is polite and civil (no 'manhood' pics plz) ALL does who are rude, trying to own me, or command me WILL be made known to my Master. I am here for polite conversation and friendship within the community with both males and females on either side of the lifestyle. I AM COMMITTED FULLY TO MY DADDY Master Kent ( cryelharshmstr1)

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LittlePhoenix12

LittlePhoenix12

Please be patient, I have cataracts in both my eyes and I'm currently waiting for an operation. Meanwhile, it is very hard for me to read and write a lot, thank you for your understanding.

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USGOLDSTANDARD1

USGOLDSTANDARD1

you joined up because you want someone, to want you, to use you, to abuse you. Then in your profile you set all sorts of conditions, must have this, must do that, you set limits that keep you from finding what you began as looking for. How's that working out for you, youre here day after day waiting for prince charming, for the " perfect" one, while missing out on weeks or months or even years of fun you could have had fun with somebody a little less than perfect.Are you perfect? Why do you expect him or her to be?

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kellybold

now the first snow is on the ground nice time to play at my place just need someone to come over and has his way with me over and over

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tarasouth

Remote Controlled - Part 1This is a fiction story based on a real event The year was almost over once again and Sally had no one to gift her bound and helpless form to. Another year had passed and every dominant man she had met was a no-hoper. Scrolling on her phone she looked mournfully at the parade of bound subs that filled social media. Tapping over to her dating profile she sighed. It took a lot of patience to filter through the inbox. Determined to keep trying she browsed the various messages she had received. It was the usual stuff - men with empty profiles saying 'hey'. Disappointed she pushed on through message after message until she saw one with a photo attached. Steeling her courage, Sally tapped the message desperately hoping it wasn't yet another unsolicited dick pic.To her surprise it wasn't. It was a picture of an app that she recognised. She used the app herself for one of her toys. As she took in the picture she realised that her username was displayed. 'Random Control' was a feature of her app controlled toys. A butt plug and vibrator she owned could be worn and then controlled by a random user of the app. Sure enough, this picture was coming from someone who she had chatted with as he controlled her toys! For a moment panic made her blood run cold. Was it creepy that he'd tracked her down on a dating site? What other profiles of hers did he know about? Semi-paralysed by this surprise it took her some time before she read the message to which the picture was attached. 'Control doesn't have to be random. All you have to do is ask.' Sally froze. This was out of the ordinary. How is someone meant to answer this? She gulped, but found herself unable to tap away from the message. She had to know more. Quickly she tapped through and read this man's profile. Thepicture wasn't amazing, but there was a very well written description of what this man was looking for. With every line Sally found herself drawn in further and faster. On the screen at least t…

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dateknight

Would love to get back to filming evidence of painful, humiliating or degrading tasks set by online Masters / Doms. Anyone out there want to make me film something i'll regret or order me to video myself doing something subhuman? How low can you make me go? <3 Message me for email address or with instructions on what to shoot and where to send it thank you in advance Sir

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Nature cares nothing about, nor does it play politics. Ever !

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There is something to be said about adding jingle bells with rope harnesses during the holiday season.

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TheDV

What on earth is with all the dominant men wanting to submit to me?

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PlsDisciplineMe74

PlsDisciplineMe74

I am NOT looking for on line. And I am not looking to rush into anything. Please be respectful in your communication and lets get to know each other.

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nomad1966

Well we are progressing into 2022 with a purpose. The question is though where are we looking at ending up ? Finding out more about a lot of people and how we interact after the covid lockdown is interestinbg to say the least. What are your goals ? Have the changed since Covid ? Interesting to chat with likeminded people.

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cpotk2

Travel, 2023: Scottsdale, AZ from December 22 through January 2.

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SweetDommeForLuv

SweetDommeForLuv

Just writing about how much I hate people here . . .If you are interested in me then know I seek someone to be a friend care listen let me vent daily . . if you don't want that don't message at all

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Hot. Too hot. I do not do well in high heat.

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toxiclostheart

Unless you want to clean our house or pay our bills, we don't want you. (Note: this is called a joke) Daddy is all i need or want and i don't share, nor does He. i am on here to communicate with friends i've chatted with this collarme was a thing. i have no need or want to be bothered by the so called "doms" that throw temper tentrums when i point out i am happily taken. Just a clue, it's none of your concern why i am on here. i don't message or bother you, so don't bother me. If you are not my Daddy you mean nothing and i owe you nothing.

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Seeker842

Weda visits the book store I met Weda at Red Robin. Like, we agreed. She parked in the back. I picked her up. In my truck. And we drove to an adult bookstore. This was on her bucket list of things to do. her Bo was always threatening to do this with her. But I beat him to it. Like with most things he said he was going to do, to her. As we drove there we chatted and I played with her boobs and rubbed her leg. I ran my hand between her legs and could feel some of the dampness for the anticipation. Once we got there. She seemed a bit nervous. I looked over at her and from her smile I knew I did not need to ask if she was ready to go inside. I grabbed her hand and escorted her in. Standing close to me. We found a booth. One of the bigger booths for Both of us to be able to maneuver around. We got comfortable. I dropped some coins in and clicked on a movie. I unbuttoned her blouse then proceeded to play with her tits. She Pulled out my cock with a huge smile( she has a great smile). She started sucking . There were people knocking on the door, asking to join and trying to get in. I asked her if she wanted company and she said, not this time. Maybe next time. I then enjoyed her mouth as she was doing a fantastic job. After a few minutes I pulled out my cock from her mouth and bent her over. I enjoyed her wet willing cunt for a while, before pulling it out and rubbin it on her ass hole. I pumped my cock in and out of her tight wet shaved pussy a few times. Every few strokes I would pull out and I would pull it out, And rub it on her tight little asshole. Then back in her pussy, this went for a few minutes. Fucking her pussy or should i say cunt? I pulled my cock out again. I rubbed it against her asshole a few more times. Just lubing it up and relaxing it a little as I did this a few more times. She was moaning. I pulled out my cock and put the head against her puckered rosebud. I started pushing slowly b…

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cruelmasterrabi

Not interested in cam or cyber...just wanted in real..contact only who can serve in real.

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It not the bringing out the best of a submissive that I have doubts of. It the question of will you be happy being that submissive to someone who leading you in life? I am not for everyone. I do scare many away cause I know that what I need from a submissive is a person who is happy and has a passion to submit.

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Feeling slutty... would You like to degrade me? Dm for chastity pics

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i have had 3 live-in D-s relationships over the past 30 years. The longest lasing 11 years serving as Her cucked slave. This relationship ended 2 years ago. i hope to find one last and permenant D-s relationship serving as a slave. To me a slave has no choice and must always obey its Owner no matter what, excluding anything illegal. i hope to find a Mistress that wants a slave to care for Her, serving as a domestic, Lady's maid and whartever is needed. i seek that special bond between Owner and slave. i get pleasure from serving a Superior Woman and making Her life easier. i am handy around the house inside and out. i enjoy pampering and doing household chores such as cleaning, laundry, cooking, butlering, vacuuming and much more. Not looking for a free ride.

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i found posted by someone else, who was again quoting someone else, so i don't know who the original author is, but i thank you. i've actually seen it a multiple sites in various versions, and received it in an email from a Dom i'd been conversing with here. This is obviously a message from a Dominant to a sissygurl. i don't know why, but reading it makes me feel so warm and submissive inside. A combination of desire, need, and acceptance of who i am? Or maybe a bit of dreaming or fantasizing. i'm not sure yet. i think it may be fantasizing and dreaming of the gurl i'd like to become. "I think you are more suited to being kept as a submissive fetish sissy. When most people talk about a shemale they mean a girl who has a cock - a girl who uses her cock... A frilly fetish sissy is something else entirely. A fetish sissy is not even allowed to have a cock - we call it her clitty and we treat it like a clitty - keeping it in locked chastity. The more needy (horny) a fetish sissy gets, the more she becomes controlled by her clitty and quite quickly she finds herself doing utterly humiliating things to please her superiors without so much as a whimper - in fact, she often begs for more of the same. She is overwelmed with the desire to suck cocks or be bent over to be doggie bitch butt fucked to obtain her erotic pleasure. To become a submisive creature that wants men to subjugate her and use her to satisfy all their sexual desires and perversions. Using her and ifying her as a sexual toy for their pleasure and orgasmic release. Her oral and anal slut holes just cock receptacles to be filled with hot cum. A sissy sexslave as it were, obediently doing everything she is told no matter how humiliating it might be. Her desire for utter and total submission and humiliation compels her to obey without question. If you google 'shemale', you'll be directed to sites …

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Happy holidays. I respect the religions. Merry Christmas happy Hanukkah Kwanzaa etc to me it's all the spirit of Christmas joy family peace and loving.

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ForcefulDutch

Sometimes it feels like the same 10 people are online.

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I have been through a lot. It makes me odd, weird and silly at times. While I am not apologizing for who I am, think of it as more of a warning. If you understand, you understand. If you don't that ok too. I am not here mass appeal reasons. Give me some duct tape a bondage fan and a furniture dolly and I will make a human pull toy out of them. Laughs. Listens for the panic when you tell them your looking for a good size hill. Zoom up and over the jump. Extra points if they pee on the way down.

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