2/29/2024 5:10:28 AM: Spot the time waster   They have no pictures  They don't even have a realistic location Been on here years and never met anyone or intend to meet   Time and effort is priceless, don't waste it!

10/30/2023 3:36:39 AM: WARNING  If you are going to meet with another member from the site, please do some research on them first, speak to them on the phone, video call them  and ask for references etc  Any one who is honest and into kink will have no problem with doing so!   It's about everyone's safety 

10/16/2023 1:39:33 AM: I always thought bdsm sites are for people to chat and hopefully find that person    Yet the majority don't have pictures, and so they are either after online or just seeking attention    Or the worst kind, scammers 

10/5/2023 5:34:04 AM:  been on here for a few days So still looking for a submissive who actually wants a vanilla relationship as well, which is like gold dust    Find most want on-line.... which is very boring, or have set that many road blocks in the way etc It's very irritating to say the least, though wonder if using fetish clubs are the way to go? ...