About myself and what i can offer. 

my upbringing - i was fortunate to have a very good childhood with supportive parents. i was educated to A level standard, and then went into the workplace, where i have been ever since, in two distinct careers, both long term and secure, which in the current climate is most welcome. This background has given me a secure personality, good manners which some may call old fashioned, but manners maketh the man. i am a very loyal caring person, with much love to give to that special lady, who i hope to meet one day.

Interests. i love to learn and improve myself, so i read a lot, am a fan of film and theatre, but seldom go on my own. i love music and find this is a good way to relax. 

Experience of servitude - i prefer the word servitude. For me this is the essence of who i am. To serve another, to put them first in every thought, to cater to their needs, to predict and meet their needs, and to make their life as comfortable as it is possible to be. i know this is not everyones desire, but for me the pleasure i get from doing this is so fulfilling, it makes me understand that it is who i am and i cannot deny it. my experience is spread over the past twenty years, both good and bad. i have tried to have vanilla relationships and console myself in attempting to please the ladies without putting a label on it, but this has not always been received well. Some tolerate it, many find it unappealing as they believe they want a true man, but they do not understand the strength and courage required to want to please them and put them first. This is why i find myself drawn back to the BDSM world in the hope of finding that one true lady, who will make me whole as she will fulfil my need to serve, and yet allow me to love her. So, i have quite a lot of experience of servitude, and am very hard working and domesticated and keep a very clean and tidy home.

How can i make Your life more pleasurable? - Obviously this is difficult to be too precise on as i do not know what would please You, so i can only talk in the abstract, but here goes. i will undertake all Your domestic chores, to ensure You do not have to undertake such menial work. i would ensure that all Your clothes and shoes are always clean and ready for Your use. i would wait on You, cater to Your desires and needs without question or hesitation. i will be a canvas for You to mould into the slave You have always wanted, where You will always be put first, Your judgement respected, Your word final.

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