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Mandi362
Hetero Female, 40, New Castle, Delaware 
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Mandi362

ok about me..... divorced more then 3 years now, i still have my kids... they are my life!

Im trying to get back in to the scene but ever so slowly like a new subby learning again i figure is the best way to go. Ive been so hurt in past and with my marriage im afraid of jumping in and trust is a major thing that has been broken repeatedly with me and im such a trusting person so this is a major suckage for me.

i am also on alt and collar space under the same handle, though try Mandi362 Mandi36 if ya can't find me.

I love BDSM and most aspects that come with it in this type of lifestyle and or relationships. Although not at the risk of family or nilla friends or folk. Dont get me wrong Family and my nilla friends are important to me and if they dont wish to be exposed to this type of lifestyle choice then I will not pressure the issue on them or expose them to it per their wish.

Since this is something Im serious about, I am a sub, but can switch. Let me make this clear only under my Dom's hand can i top another other wise that switch side is not there so stop asking me to be your Mistress!. I do enjoy giving what my partner needs or enjoys if it is not in my hard limits.

Athough let me tell you what i think a Sub is to her Dom. She loves to please and serve her Dom. Always attentive and caring, over time she can anticipate her Dominants wants and needs like little things, how and when he likes his coffee for example. She is not a doormat, she can hold conversations and has thoughts and opinions and suggestions. She can make decisions even major ones if need be. She shows her pride in her Dom by the services she offers and does for him, by acting like she is supposed to when out among BDSM folk using proper protocol and addressing Him. In the bedroom she is under His complete control, everything is His. She serves him from her heart n soul, needing to belong and loving to belong to One that fits her as much as she fits Him. Trust and honesty and communication are always secure there even if she knows she made a mistake. Her goals are set to please both Dom and herself to better things for their relationship and growth into something stronger then any metal that is forged.

side note: this does not mean she/I'm is/am a total maid for you, house hold responsibilites and bills and work load are shared.


A Dom, puts His sub up on a pedestal, and occasional brings her down for a king now and again. He understands her gift of giving Him control over her is a gift, and is something treasured. He completes her as she Him. He helps her when she needs it or if she asks for it. He guilds her where He knows she needs this or when she also asks for this. This relationship is a give and take both ways like any other. Both are equal yet not. It is complex yet simple.

My goals

to improve myself in becoming a better sub, teach to others who have the same desire to serve their partner as I do.

to work on improving my self with toys that i am familiar with being used on me, to work with them and know how to use them on another. (yes this is part of my switch-ness, I do like to co top from time to time)

to find something to work on by improving my self physically and spiritually as well as mentally, by being open when i have a problem or just being open with my partner and trusting that one partner.

help teach others about safety, protocols, how to protect themselves, how to properly serve.

have my limits pushed, in play, pain tolerance up enough to enjoy a long good session and play. i no longer have a pain tolerance so pain play is debatable.

im sure i have more goals but this is all i can think of at the moment, ill add more as time goes on and i think more on this area.

i also use sign lang.. so hummm ball gags only work at shutting my noisy mouth i can still talk with my hands (sticks tongue out) so THERE LOL (yes this is my bratty side!)

== Results from bdsmtest.org == 

100% Rope bunny 

96% Submissive 

88% Primal (Prey) 

85% Degradee 

79% Experimentalist 

75% Brat 

68% Voyeur 

64% Masochist 

53% Slave 

47% Vanilla 

47% Exhibitionist 

35% Pet 

25% Non-monogamist 

0% Ageplayer 

0% Boy/Girl 

0% Switch 

Just Practice at BEING SAFE, and HONEST, and OPEN COMMUNICATION and im sure everyone will be happy....

remember i practice the above my self in real life!
The 10 Kink Commandments
1. All activity must be safe (we do not cause true harm), sane (we only engage in activity when we are clear of mind), and consensual.
2. We must always be respectful of our partners safe word (redyellowgreen) and their hard limits.
3. We only enter into activities after we have gained trust, education, and an open mind.
4. We must always be polite and ask questions.
5. We must not touch other peoples equipment without permission.
6. We must always be clean, hygienic, and mindful of our own equipment.
7. We must always be mindful of aftercare.
8. We do not engage in humiliating and degrading scenes for solely our own amusement.
9. We always protect each others anonymity from the harsh eyes of the vanilla world.
10. Most importantly, we do not forget to have a good time.

12/25/2022 12:58:05 PM: On the twelfth day of Kinkmas my true sub got from me:Twelve spankers spankingEleven croppers croppingTen paddlers paddlingNine caners caningEight maids a milkingSeven floggers floggingSix whippers whippingFive Ben Wa ballsFour anal beadsThree stuffed holesTwo nipple clampsAnd a red butt over my knee.

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