I enjoy this lifestyle immensely as it seems that there is always something new to see, learn and experience. I enjoy having control and appreciate that it takes of trust, on both partners, for it to work. Rule 1 is to be open and honest. I have quite a bit of experience in the scene but I also know there is a lot more I could learn, unfortunately these pesky days only have 24 hours so I cant learn everything. I do have experience training newbies who wished to take on roles as subs, babygirls, and slaves. Right now Im not actively looking for any one thing in particular, I would enjoy a play partner for some fun (not necessarily sex), though if I met someone I clicked with on another level Im certainly open to friendship or even a relationship.