I figured the person looking for lifestyle would want as much info as possible to make an intelligent decision as to if what I seek and what he seeks is compatible before he emails, since it will be life altering. If long profiles bother you, don't read it then contact me and bitch about it, simply DON'T READ IT! No one is forcing you to do it.

My Lifestyle dominant definition: I don't take clients, people passing through, nothing casual, definitely nothing online, etc. I do NOT respond to the title Mistress, I am a dominant. Just because you email doesn't mean I "have" to take you. I have the right to choose just like you do. 

I insist on significant textual exchange here before I am willing to IM. I know some see this as "time wasting" or "faking", I call it the kind of sensible behavior that comes to protect both sides, so no IM’s unless I request it.

with that said....Hello everyone!

Just me....Thought I'd make a new-ish profile and have a fresh start: A little about me: Single, fulltime job, I like going to concerts, street fairs, etc.  I like Harleys (back seat rider), music mostly metal, I like model trains, and building layouts (oh shut up..lol). I'm a MARVEL JUNKIE!!!, I mean I might need some kind of rehab.  LOL My latest crush is Sebastian Stan, love me some Winter Soldier....(drool). And can't forget about my man Michele Morrone and of course Ryan Guzman. BUT my future husband Milo Ventimiglia lol  Of course anyone with an accent has a definite edge, LOL  

I am very easy going and laid back. I am often told that I am very easy to talk to. I am not an angry person, and I am not interested in someone who is. 24-7 drama is just not my thing. I know everyone has baggage, but if that's all you have to offer, I'm just not interested. I am a human being, I do make mistakes, and not afraid to admit it when I do.  I am a strong, confident woman who knows what she wants. I can be very strict and hard at times, especially at first, until you are trained and learn how to serve me.  I need to know you, the real you, to get inside your head.  This will begin from the first conversation 

what I'm looking for:

I am looking for males that are bi or bi curious, not sure if I will do anything down this road, or to what extent, but my slave has to be open mined. Eventually, may be a poly household one day. You must be able to actually relocate, if you're a gentleman, one that is comfortable in a suit and tie as well as a pair of jeans. If you want a D/s relationship that is woven into an everyday vanilla relationship. 

This is for a 24/7 live in position ONLY:  I am looking for one male (companion slave) whose motivation is real need instead of just occasional play.  As my slave you will have domestic duties, cook, clean, chauffeur, etc. (Think of how Alfred serves Bruce Wayne / Batman, now put him in a Ds based relationship)I am big on rituals, tasks, positions on command, and protocols. Honesty and loyalty are very important to me. I am a sensual Dominant, I don't do extreme play, I like to, mostly, sexually tease. The only pains I administer are with paddles, belts, crops, etc. I do go slowly to build up your tolerance.  I'm very nurturing and caring. I am extremely careful, so you must do exactly what I say or I will end it. I mean the whole relationship no one gets hurt around me.

Please don't: mention race/color. I am not some fetish for you. If that is your preference, keep it to yourself. Don't contact me if you are a dominant/ex dominant wanting to be submissive, dynamic doesn't work for me. Don't contact me if you're into feminization, nothing wrong with it, just my thing. Don't address me by a title of any kind, that is reserved for those I collar. Don't contact me with compliments/flattery, or the spam platitudes of "what a slave is, and what a dominant is" (yawn). Don't contact me if you refer to yourself as worthless, slut, pig, etc. Slaves/submissive are proud people and proud of their choice, there is nothing worthless about them. 

If you want to be considered send me a "face" pic along with your introductory email containing a brief history of the vanilla you, (nothing about lifestyle)

Good luck on your search everyone!!!!