I am something of a bondage obsessive: I consider it the first and most foundational aspect of a relationship. I require someone who understands that being kept silent and strictly immobilised by me is their default condition, and anything else is a deviation from that basic normality. They will never be simultaneously more safe and more utterly helpless than when they are the centre of my attention as their bondage master.

Secure, solvent, stable, educated to PhD level.