Hello I am a 45 year old male who is looking for a sub, mate, friend. I have been in this lifestyle for years, only recently becoming more active.

I am looking for a sub to teach, grow with, and learn more about ourselves in the process.

I have been called eclectic in life, at one point I dabbled in Goth, Country, and I have actually been called a Gothic Redneck, however Steampunk currently has my attention.

I enjoy watching movies and just hanging out. I love to cook as I am a trained Chef.

My kinks are varied; I enjoy rope Bondage, Mummification, and a few other things. What turns me on; leather, latex, roleplaying I.E. schoolgirl, cheerleader. But whatever it is, I am fairly lighthearted and enjoy laughter and simply having a good time when it comes to kinks and exploring.  I am open to trying almost anything  you'll never know unless you try!

Please feel free to drop me a message if I have in any way sparked your interest, if even for nothing more than friendly banter back and forth.