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2020 summer update... single, attractive, intellectual, emotionally mature, financially stable, highly experienced 45 year old kinkster who has been in the lifestyle for 20 plus years is seriously seeking... I live south of Boston closer to Rhode Island but it is a major city and I am seeking nationally as I have in the past so I am listing this major city nearby as one people will recognize.

I am a mix of handsome, intellectual, irreverent, and fun-loving... a gentleman who is very lifestyle experienced and oriented toward awesome, creative, highly kinky fun and sexual depravity... I am well educated, world and have traveled all over, articulate and witty, humorous and genuinely upbeat. I pride myself on being an ambitious, successful, together individual who thrives in the everyday vanilla world.

As my rather perverse name here indicates, I crave the depths and darker side of kink - amazing, intense, filthy, dirty, raunchy sex. To be upfront as I can, I am definitely an oral fetishist and I absolutely love an orally slutty female or gurl. If you are the type of woman or femme individual who sees their mouth as their ultimate sex , who loves it wet, sloppy, messy, and more, I most definitely will find myself interested, regardless of what you look like. If you are the type of girl or gurl who thinks glory holes are the hottest thing in the world, I might want to marry you. If you are a deep throat whore specialist, I will marry you on the spot. The more unabashedly slutty, cock obsessed, cum crazed you are, the more I will honestly be into you. When I say the a pig is what I want, I mean to say someone who almost cannot control their desires for cock and cum they are that sex driven. I genuinely desire someone who is so slutty they will gladly lose all shame for a loads of jizz potentially.

My fetish list and my pictures here will give you a good indication of all this. But my purpose here is not simply to let out my sexual urges, desires, and fantasies, it is to find a unique, similarly minded set of people or someone real to be with (and that could mean being with me in a number of different ways, from a polyhouse situation, to co-equal partners in crime for fun, to a romantic relationship, to a Ds dynamic, to being genuine lifestyle partners). Any way you put it though, I am much more of the type of person who lives out fantasies for real, so I am most certainly looking for the similarly minded... the adventurous, experimental, and highly sexual.

I have been a member of a number not awesome bdsm clubs in the past and am a member of other websites (f*tlife, t*mblr, bdsmlr, etc.). I do not harbor any age, race, weight, or other superficial restrictions. Just please... be a real someone who knows that she wants this level of hardcore depravity and preferably has some experience in it too.

Take a chance on a quality gentleman who just happens to be a rare mix of absolutely fantastic as a vanilla partner and over the top, amazingly perverse as a kinkster. You can find me giving lectures and running classes or workshops at sex conventions such as KinkyCon in the New England area, or ask me for my other profile info to find out more about me. I am divorced from someone who left the lifestyle as of summer 2019 so I am in fact legitimately single and looking...