54 yr old Dominant looking to talk with others about the lifestyle. I am experienced and I like discussing the philosophical and psychological aspect of D/s, M/s and BDSM in general.
I am intelligent and well read. I am a highly educated Dominant male who believes in male superiority and female inferiority. This does not mean that women are of less value, just that men should lead and rule over them. This is part of the natural law. Aristotle wrote about this in his Politics where some are born to to be masters and others are born to be slaves. He understands this as being part of nature.
My vanilla interests include working out, reading, going to movies, traveling and enjoying a good steak dinner. I also love to read and expand my knowledge and understanding of the world. I also love theme parks.
I do have a good sense of humor as well even though this profile does not show it. I am also a reserved individual and it takes awhile for someone to earn my trust. I also do not like or tolerate disrespect.
I am former military and I approach the lifestyle the same way almost like the Old Guard training from the 60's and 70's. Everything is earned and responses to orders swift and there is no topping from the bottom or dealing with SAMs. There is a lot of talk about the gift of submission, that's fine but there is the gift of dominance. Why should I collar you? What do you have to offer in return for my collar and domination?
I am seeking a sub who is intelligent, good sense of humor and has a positive outlook on life. The sub should love bondage especially steel bondage. I want her to be not just a sub but a friend as well. I would hope to be able to form a bond that is based on trust and love with the hope that her journey will be one of a true and deep submission. I would hope that one day she will come to me and kneel and say "Own me." Someone who is passionate for this lifestyle. Someone who understands or wants to understand their place in the world. The woman who understands her true nature and wants to embrace it no matter how wonderful or difficult the journey.
My personal approach to being a master or dominant is not about fancy titles. or the most sex toys or bondage gear but it is about attititude and character. Masters and doms should be open and honest in their comunication with their slaves/subs and expect the same in turn from them.
I believe in high expecations and standards for my slave and I enforce them.
It is important to communicate and allow open and honest discussions without fear of rejection or anger or punishment. Submission and domination within the TPE dynamic can only grow with communication and trust. Then bond between the dom and sub and master/slave grows deeper.
I believe in being supportive and patient with a slave and guide them along their path of submission.
The collared sub or slave is a person and needs to be respected as an individual and not taken for granted.
Limits must be discussed and resected and any expansion of limits must be discussed and agreeed to prior to a scene.
Limits within a 24/7 TPE must also be discussed and agreed to.
Aftercare must never be withheld.
I am not in a hurry to find a sub/slave. I believe in taking my time as I want to make sure the sub I choose will be my last sub. I want a long- term relationship and I want the choice to be the right one for both of myself and my potential sub/slave. My age range is bewtween 25 and 50.
I hope to hear from you.
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98% Master/Mistress
91% Owner
86% Daddy/Mommy
81% Degrader
62% Primal (Hunter)
60% Experimentalist
59% Sadist
54% Voyeur
47% Ageplayer
37% Exhibitionist
36% Non-monogamist
3% Vanilla
0% Switch
