What I am seeking is one intelligent, dominant, alpha male type who is REAL, knows how to laugh and smile. It is a plus if you read, and an especially pleasant surprise if you read this profile.  I have interests that are not extreme, but also not vanilla. I'm hoping to meet someone similar and enjoys saucy, spicy adventures.  

REAL means you are not playing games. You want to talk on the phone, meet, are serious and available for a relationship. Honesty is important. It's exhausting to keep up with lies. 

I am an intelligent, submissive female who is real, financially independent, divorced, empty nester and enjoys laughing and smiling.  I am not here to play games, not here for casual sex or instant submission. I am low drama and looking for the same.

I am not interested in being beaten, I am not a masochist or pain slut. I enjoy sex, but with someone special, someone who owns me and that I can please. I believe the foundation of a healthy, strong Ds relationship involves shared vanilla interests, so lets talk about more than just kink. Youll be surprised.

Possess the mind, the rest is easy.