English and Degree educated, able to hold a conversation and looking for someone who can as well, i do not want a doormat, but at the same time i do not want someone who wishes to expect everything but give nothing. I am what could be classed as old school, i still have manners, i still expect them.



I love to control, complete control, mental and physical.



Respect and honesty are paramount.



I am complex, i like many things, i do not follow a set pattern, everyone is different, everyone reacts differently, different times, places, situations all present different outcomes. I like to go with the flow, follow my instincts, what works one time may not next and vice-versa.

I have lately come to really enjoy predicticament bondage and sensory deprivation, plus i am becoming more interested in some of the more taboo areas.



BDSM is about control, not just pain. I am interested in all aspects of BDSM, i have been lucky enough to have had several subs, all different, pain, humiliation, straight and also cuckold couples, the last a dynamic i am really very interested in.



Submission. Is conquering the mind, setting boundaries to follow, rules that are not to be broken, providing support, care, smacks, cuddles, humiliation, pleasure, (pain if wanted), but above all control, within set boundaries.



Mentally it must be complete, the physical side will then follow.





On the physical side their bodies belong to their master, he decides if they can have sex, can orgasm, cannot orgasm. Pushed orgasm and orgasm denial are part of the submission.





Short, 56, powerful, stocky with a face like a bulldog chewing a wasp, i have a wide parting, but am very hairy everywhere else. Clean and hygenic at all times, I am what i am.



Mad as a box of frogs, I prefer long term associations but will enjoy quick one offs, as long as they are safe, sane and consentual. Safe sex always. Can and do travel and try to be flexible about meets.



Built for comfort to last and repeat, not for speed. I



I take life as it comes and do not regard myself too seriously. I try to enjoy life and that includes the physical side of it.very black sense of humour but a good one.

Have been involved in the scene for a very long time.



Phone number and photo are required before meets as I have spent too long sitting in car parks or driving miles for nothing.