Searching for serious FLR

I am on CS and other sites looking for a partner in a specific type of relationship, I wish to find a female whom I am physically and mentally attracted to, an equal to the outside world , but she would lead the relationship, I wish to find a life partner with kink being the core common interest, I want to a bond which would lead to a full time and fulfilling relationship for both of us, with a lot of fun and laughter along the way, be able to talk and communicate openly, but while being able to be stay individual enough to give each other what is needed to grow as partners in a D/s relationship. 

I like caning, spanking, TPE, pegging, chastity, humiliation, degradation and objectification