Collarspace

IF YOU ARE ALLERGIC TO CATS DO NOT BOTHER

I seek a sub life-partner in a LT FLR. NO GAMES

Subs seeking a FLR really need to learn the defInition of FLR

It is a "relationship". It is based on the female being in charge

of everything involved in that relationship.

There are 4 solid levels . I have seen two different sets of levels

with one being more mild. Look them up.

Kink/sex is NOT the primary function in a FLR. Even if they do

come into play, it is not immediate. So get that notion out of

your heads. It grows over time.

You start off by building a relationship. you will be of service,

cook , maid, landscaper, handyman, waiter, and share expenses.

You will worship your Goddess as she wishes,

any way she wishes, whenever and wherever she wishes.

The Domme makes all the decisions, guides you to do things

properly. will punish shotty work, and reward excellent work.

Service subs are welcome for housework, yardwork, and such (power washing, wall washing,,,)

________________________________________________________

If you seek a long term, female led relationship, get in touch...I am not about random play. Please dont waste my time. I have had my fill of it. What I seek is a sub life partner-period. (within an hour ideal). _____________________________________________________________

Always bear in mind, especially in a FLR, that it takes time to learn and build the dynamic. No 2 relationships are ever alike. Someones interests will change in terms of wants, needs and desires based on each others likes and dislikes. In a FLR, there may be a specific protocol that the Domme follows, but it grows, changes and develops within the relationship as it builds.
Always remember no 2 Dommes are alike and neither are any 2 subs. This would be even more prominent if either party was out of the lifestyle for a while or new...
I have a female led household. What I will seek will be one to share and build a life with in all ways. I will NOT support someone, and I dont expect anyone to support me. I expect us to work together in life. 55+++ONLY...

Always remember, SEXY is a state of mind-not a look...

And YES, I am a big girl-due to health issues-that WILL not change. I have Fibromyalgia and Lupus and live in chronic pain, I have also had both knees replaced. However, working on getting in shape.
My dream is to live in a home in the woods, near water-private. Interpret that how you will!

****What ever happened to the good ole boys? The ones that needed a Mistress that could get in their heads? Make them feel sensations they never imagined? Even worked hard to earn a good taken from behind? I will never torture another human being. I will scene ,for the mutual pleasure it brings. I will not rape a sub. He needs to earn the pleasure of being taken that way. I use to love teaching a sub to have constant orgasms without release of cumming. Yes, that is possible! Turning a sub to jelly, literally, for my amusement. There are just no subs like that anymore...***

Please do not contact me unless you know the true meaning of a Female Led Relationship. Understand thet it is a 'relationship'. DO NOT say you will relocate and change your mind when a visit time approaches. To many of us, this is not a fantasy or a game, it is a way of life. So if you are not serious please don't bother. I have had my fill of posers. No random play.

At this point in time, I will ONLY continue to talk to those I am already talking to. Beyond that no one else. I have realized continuing to look for what I need is pretty useless, and is just causing too much pain and sadness. I have too much going on to deal with that any more. Thank you to those that have been kind and hopeful. Your time has been appreciated. I am so very sorry for anyone I have hurt. For those that have hurt me, just one word--KARMA

Not Looking At All! Just Friends Please Respect

I know I am seriously letting some down. So I do not 'ghost', I will just make a broad statement. I am sorry, but I am stepping back for awhile, I do not know how long. I have been overwhelmed with game players and those who only wish to talk about sex and kink and I have had enough. Enjoy the rest of summer and be safe.

I DID EDIT A COUPLE ENTRIES WHEN I REALIZED THEY WERE HARD TO READ, UNTIL I NOTICED IT CHANGED THE DATE... I don't know if I should just give up or redo my profile or what. I have lost contact with some I wished to talk to due to short term memory issues that pop up from time to time. Those that I have a great conversation with just seem to disappear. If I am screwing up-tell me. I do talk a lot when nervous. I also try to lay it all out there so things don't come up later and be a red flag, and that can be overwhelming. I am very honest and open because I know what I need and want. Very few have been as open back, but I have appreciated it, Maybe I just need a break? I have grown weary of the search.

Description Journal Username Gender Identity Orientation State Country Height Sexuality Ethnicity Age Start Age End Willing to Relocate Height Seeking Photos Only Videos Only List As Sort By Search For