I am a sensual/gentle Domme looking for a male submissive or submissive-leaning switch. A long term, in-person D/s is ideal, and I am wanting a committed, loving, monogamous relationship.

In addition to being an introverted, creative type, I am also educated, headstrong, and stubborn.  I enjoy the outdoors, making things with my hands, reading, and learning new skills.   Although I am trying to work on it, I am bigger and curvy. I have a mom bod with all the rolls and stretch marks to prove it.  I'm currently on a fitness journey.

I am looking for someone submissive, but like-minded, and a best friend. My partner should be honest, trustworthy, loyal, and always willing to learn. I’m attracted to intelligent and kind problem-solvers, someone who is clever and handy. It would be preferable to find someone who is into a healthy lifestyle.  

Do not expect me to pursue anything if you are married or already in a relationship.  I am only interested in males ages 38 to 55 for an in-person relationship, nothing online.