I am respectful and yet controlling Dom. I like to find a sub that would enjoy an intelligent conversation along side good sessions that are dominated by use and controlling through strong and demanding personality more than physical pain or force.
I like my sub to be happy and I treat them well, the goal is to have her craving to please and do as I wish so I can continue and have her happy and glowing.
If that sounds good to you, I would be happy to hear from you and see where it can go...