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I am a fit, active, masculine man who enjoys a solid, secure, and highly disciplined life. Such a life is as austerely beautiful as the edge of a blade, but would benefit from the curved, complex, softness and joy a good woman brings to a relationship.

With that in mind, I seek for the perfect submissive girlfriend.

In vanilla terms, a girl who can be pretty, charming, feminine, devoted, and capable in any social setting -- the most enviable companion for a night of small-venue live music, dinner with friends, or a random weekend road trip. She is no less a girl in hiking boots and jeans than she is in a cocktail dress and heels.

Beneath the vanilla icing, in her heart of hearts, she knows she is deeply submissive and craves to feel the guiding hand of a good man in every aspect of her life. She has a strong libido, an eagerness to serve, and an honest, open, loyal heart. As I seek, so she seeks for someone who will draw the very best from her and who will settle for nothing less.

On the kink side of things, I favor bondage, leashes, old-fashioned discipline, simple protocols consistently enforced, and a sense of casual, continuous, dominance that influences, but doesnt overburden, every aspect of the relationship.

I am not a dom to play on the weekends. I am a dom for the working day.

Be local or willing to relocate in a reasonable timeframe. Such a life must be lived not merely typed about.