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Restraint4TGs
Pan Male Dominant, 51, Lyndeborough, New Hampshire US 
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Restraint4TGs
I have a submissive GG partner that I share my life with. That isnt going to change. Thus, everything that follows only applies to secondary partners that are local or those I can visit for short periods while I am on vacation. If you are looking for a non poly relationship with your one and only, I am definitely NOT the right dominant for you. I get plenty of interaction with my current partner but not the level of BDSM I want. If youre not a bondage loving submissive, were not a match. The first fourteen photos are examples of what I do, the last photo is me on the summit of some 14er near Leadville, Colorado.

Im seeking a submissive for a DS relationship. The level and intensity of the relationship would depend considerably on my partner but strict bondage would be required and I possess a massive gear collection with exceptional skill to back up my interest in that area. Ill take all the control that a partner gives me, from someone who enjoys limited submission in the bedroom to very intense TPE. What your needs are would be MUCH more important than how close I can get your elbows when I bind them behind your back and yes, I am going to tie you up like a pretzel. My partners goals would be an integral part of any negotiation and Im willing to go slow and enjoy a gradual process with those who are inexperienced with what I have to offer. With regards to interests I do have a lot of them and certainly do not expect anyone to be into all or even most of them. BDSM is a menu and you pick and choose what you want from it. I appreciate submission, the deeper it is the more I like what my partner is doing. Im a bit of a specialist with hoods and gags, and some of the more strict fetish devices like armbinders, posture collars, straitjackets, and cages. I bondage train my partners and you would be routinely locked in a chastity device and a collar, preferably the entire time I am with you. Corsetry and sleep restraints would be used, with sensory deprivation, chastity, and orgasm control as part of the training. My interests run from sweet and simple to lengthy and diabolical (think Insex and you get the picture). I have been described as a loving sadist. My goal with any partner would be to subjugate them, up to the limits of what they are comfortable with.

In my mundane everyday life I read a lot (sci fi, non fiction), own a business that allows me a great deal of time off, and I run RPGs with friends every week or two. When there isnt heavy snow on the ground I tend to hike with a preference for climbing any nearby mountain. I am a regular in the White Mountains but I climb mountains all across the USA, especially Ultra Proms, although I routinely tromp across western North America once or twice a year. Im fit but dont look like a gym rat since Im not built for the sprint so much as the twenty mile slog at altitude in cold rain. If there is serious snow in winter I break out my snowshoes. Im a nonsmoker, cat lover, and my idea of heavy drinking is two hard ciders in a single day. Aside from that Im a reasonable partner with a good sense of humor, a great conversationalist, andI travel all over the USA (particularly the Northeast corridor from Maine to northern Virginia).

My search criteria is this- no older than thirty five years old, shorter than me, thin to average body frame, zero body hair, and long natural hair. If you cant post or send me a picture with your face on it I am not interested, nor will I ever be. If you cant exchange cell phone numbers for texting within a couple of emails pass me by as I am not here for endless chat.
11/5/2017 1:18:47 AM: If you've noticed the site being more glitchy lately be aware that this time it can be more than just a slower connection or a failure to load. I just ended up on someone else's account when I signed onto mine, with full access to their emails, profile, etc. While it was fascinating to see what a lesbian switch gets for email, I'm pretty sure that if it can happen to me, it can happen to anyone else too.   10/22/2017 9:20:48 AM: I've been seeing more profiles of submissives indicating that they want a sugar daddy to finance their transition. In return for that they will be a loving, devoted partner/slave. The only problem with that is that after you spend all that money on someone what guarantee is there that they decide to stay with you? The answer to that is there is NO guarantee at all. They could leave tomorrow and your investment literally walks out the door. Which is why it's a Cinderella story. It does happen, but a more realistic plan of action is to get a job (or jobs) and start saving for HRT, hair removal, and eventual SRS (if that's the plan). There are people out there who dream and there are people out there who do, and while imagination IS important, doing is better. I knew someone who had to spend three years working as a delivery driver to finance her transition and I have nothing but respect for people who bust their ass like her.   9/3/2017 12:49:47 PM: Your chance of meeting me drops considerably if you don't have a picture showing me what you look like. Excellent writing skill can counteract this since I have met people sight unseen, but I've also been lied to a few times by people who thought their appearance was something they could lie about and I would just brush it off. When someone has to lie about basic information though, that's a bad sign, for dominant or submissive. On a related note I respect those that do not wish to show their face due to privacy reasons. Not everyone is 'out' per se. I am, but I absolutely do not expect anyone else to be. Being self employed does have certain advantages.   6/9/2017 11:55:10 PM: All the pictures on my profile except the last one are of previous partners. Some of them are still on Collarspace. Notice that all of them are in restraints, with some in very strict bondage. I'm not in a rush to truss up and dominate my partners though. I like to meet in person and share a meal, get to know my partners as real people and hear what they have to say and what they want to try if they are new to this. Everyone is more than the sum of their profile photos and text. But in the end I do want to control you... as much as you can handle. If you are nervous in bondage that is a serious plus; I do like anxiety and trepidation. However my overall goal is to take good care of my partners because I want them to come back for more, even if they are conflicted about what they are doing : ) 3/4/2015 11:29:16 PM: 'If she's amazing, she won't be easy. If she's easy, she won't be amazing. If she's worth it, you won't give up. If you give up, you were never worth it.'One of these statements is true. The other three are usually complete and utter bullshit.
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