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AWickedLovely
Pan Female Dominant, 54, Vermont 
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AWickedLovely

 

I idenity as queer, AFAB, gender non conforming. Demisexual, helpless romantic of a kinky power dynamic sort. I do not conform to the patriarchal beauty standards, I love my curvy body.

I seek men between the ages of 40-60 for Long term service with an openness to an emotional connecting. I am non-monogous. I expect you to be chaste and sexually loyal to me. I would be your only sexual partner  I enjoy this lifestyle when I can, however I am search for relationships to take my to my desire to return to a place of power over the man and or men I train. Total power exchange is what I seek. I enjoy high protocol training, and complete control to mold you into the man I wish to have closes to me. If you are farther then a hours drive away you will need to be able to relocate within a years time to serve me 24/7. I enjoy micromanagement of your everyday activites. choosing clothes, food and when you are allow to masturbate, if you are allow! I love sex and being the one in control in the bedroom. I am not a prodomme, which by the way is completely fine for others to be, it's just not my thing. I do expect to be spoiled and pamber. I am not shy and ask for what I want and need.

If you live clear across the county do not contact me I am not interested in being cyber friends.

I have lots of interests, in order for you to learn about them you will need to meet me in person. I am not willing to spend a lot of time chit chatting online. It just isn't any fun. I enjoy fine dinning, live music, and travel. I am just as happy to curl up on the couch for an evening with a good book or movie while you wash and massage my feet naked on the floor.

I have an extensive skillset in the lifestlye I will share with anyone luck enough to take me out for a nice dinner. I will not go into great detail online I have been scammed to many times and I refuse to do free labor to titilate your cock.

I do not tolorate misogyny, transphobia, homophobia, racism. If you display any of theses behaviors I will block you, I will not take the time to educate you, thats free labor and I am not here for that.

If you are interested in serving me, I expect you in your first message to share your experience in the BDSM lifestlye and what kind of relationship you are seeking.

Good day!

3/7/2024 6:32:55 AM: Good day to you all out there on the collarspace internet platform. This is a reminder that you will not grow as a man sitting behind your computer screen. We will not find yourself naked and begging at the feet of a Domme scrolling on your phone. It has become really clear that many of you, will continue to self sabotage and never fulfill the desire to serve a domme. I do not take that personally.  I will not spend my time and energy trying to convince anyone that they should serve me. I have had some promising meetings with submissives, and we will move at the pace of trust. As that is one of the key component to a successful power exchange relationship the second key is honesty. I will continue my search, even with potential servants, because I can, and I will have everything I want out if this life. I do not fear challenges in training if I see there is a real submissive soul behind your eyes. I am not afraid of conflict, discord, or disagreements. I am a fully empowered woman, rooted to my own truth. Having spend years unpacking my own interaized  misogyny how I would say that I was a domiant woman, and then I would set aside my own needs to met the needs of the submissive I was training. It was hard to undo this programs that I was fed by the sick culture we live in, over a life time. but I will never put the needs of anyone before my own again. I am open to conversation about coexisting, agreements about my needs and yours as well. I do not think a submissive can only live on the engery of service, you are allow to have needs, and I want to know what they are, to see if they align with my own, or if there is a negotiation that needs to happen to find balance and care within the relationship. This can not be accomplished without honesty and trust. Transparent communication is the three key to a sucessful TPE relationship.  It seems to me that there is still a since of entitlement to my body, my time, and my attention from submissives on this site. This is straight up misogyny You men out there wonder why you can't find a partner, well woman are generally done with mothering you, done tolerating your lack of accountability when harm is cause. Walk away or ignore you when your fragile ego is bent out of shape. You approach me without thought as to the power of the first impression. This can be frustrating as men, even submissive men, raised and fed a steady stream of patriarchial propaganda. Feel you have done nothing wrong, even when a woman tries to hold you accountable for your misogyny and disrespect tells you that you are being harmful and you look around at all the other men out there and you say I'm just acting like every other man out there. And in that lies the issue, the problem. but you are living from a place, a standard that fuels lies, harm and war.  Your lack of understand regarding the privilege you recieve just because of the dick between your legs.  If you have spent a life time filling your head with a check list of the perfect Dominant woman, fantasizing about how that woman is going to train, use, love, dominate you, and then you try to use that check list, or those fantasies as a road map to a successful TPE relationship, you are missing the main ingredient the WOMAN. my advice if you care to listen and have made it this far. LISTEN TO WANT WOMEN ARE SAYING. you will not make those desire or fantasies come true without the WOMAN. and if you keep writing off those of us still trying to be in relationship with men, because the Goddess knows there are times when I ask myself why I continue to do this. I believe no one get left behind. If you have read this far, I will share a vulenarble truth with you. It is really difficult for me to want to be intimate with anyone if I do not feel safe. Even to talk about my desires, and I will not do that with a complete stranger on the internet.  If you are not listening to me, if you are only hearing the sound of your own desire to serve, and you are trying to fit that into your fantasy you are not listening. I can't feel comfortable chit chatting about my intimate sexual desire without trust, honesty and transparent commuication first. That might not be what you are talking about with other Dommes on this site. but I have set a boundary about what I will and will not talk about and most of you boys here on CS, have disregarding that boundary, to titalate your cock. when I share that I do not wish to talk about sexual acts openly with a stranger, I get ghosted more times then you can imagine. It is the truth that if you are having those conversations with a Domme, then gerenally she is trying to seduce you for your money. Think about it guys! Thank you for reading my thoughts, and I welcome yours in return with the understanding that I owe you nothing.  

3/4/2024 4:32:30 PM: I am opening up my search to include the whole of the USA. 

2/24/2024 4:57:33 AM: I'm really curious about some thing why do you think the submissives on this site claim to be interested in a total power exchange female lead relationship, and they put in their profile that they are willing to relocate and yet they are unwilling to make the effort to come to me to meet me to see if there's chemistry. I don't understand. From my perspective, I don't want to put a lot of time and energy into someone without having met them in person. Once I've met them in person, I can determined whether or not I I feel there is chemistry as well as other important nonverbal boxes that I need to check. I'm curious please share with me you're thinking around what it means to have in your profile that you're willing to relocate and what your expectations are of a dominant who is looking for a submissive to relocate to them. I am not an unreasonable person but if my expectations don't match up with your expectations, then we need to have a conversation about it and what I get instead is ghosted I'm just trying to navigate finding an honest to goodness submissive who really wants to live in this  Lifestyle, As a submissive to a very controlling, dominant. I just wanna have an honest, transparent dialogue with those of you who desire the opportunity to serve me and possibly be in relationship with me and so I need you to stop being so fragile and actually state what your expectations are around this process of meeting and figuring this all out.   I'm feeling super frustrated but I'm not gonna give up because I'm looking for love and I'm gonna find it   good day

2/21/2024 8:03:23 AM: I do not use the honorfic mistress, for me it hold to many complex historical uses that I do not idenitfy with. If you wish to address me with respect then you can use the word Sir, it's a mindfuck to use a masculine honorfic as a feminine presenting person. For me its about the power that honorific holds for men, and I want that power. So you will address me as such. If you would like my attention share with me your connect to nature, or a lack of it. This is of great interest to me. It is very cold today in Vermont but the sun shines down on the Earth creating delightful sparkles on everything the ice and snow have touched. It is so beautiful I have to stop to observe it closely, trying to capture this magical site with my phone camera, it doesn't work! There is magic behond what you can see, and if you are not aware yet. I am deeply connected to the magic of the EARTH. authentic in my dominance. I fear no one and nothing. If it were just a bit warmer I would hike out to a secluded place strip off all my clothes and bask, nnaked in the winter sun surrounded by the cold snow, to charge my own light. That is sun worship Wicked Lovely style.  My light will draw you in. The question is are you afraid of getting what you so deeply desire? The question most of you here need to ask yourself. Because when I shine you run away!  little boys are so fragile, until they are naked and begging at my feet. Who among you has the courage to step into your authentic desire to serve? The magic we will make together will be blissful.    

2/20/2024 3:24:29 AM: Free educational, tip.  So my journal entry from yesterday sparked a lot of frustration on the part of many submissive men here on this site. I will not make myself small I will not quiet down. I will continue to speak my truth and I won't give up looking for what I want and if you think that your messages of your own frustration are welcome you're wrong they're not if you are here to follow then you need to listen to my advice because I've been training submissive men for over 30 years I have done so part-time and at my leisure because I did not want to take the time to train someone to be 24 seven live in. I had one of those for 15 years. So if you want to know the best way to educate yourself, you can start with the book The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz it is my understanding that the majority of you submissive men on this site have no introspective education about the programming that you have Undergone at the hands of the patriarchal Society that we live in. This is your wake up call. Real Service by Raven Kaldera and Joshua Tenpenny Outlines a total power exchange, relationship, and how it works. It has fundamental information for those of you who truly are submissive and want to serve The Submissive Activity Book by Shannon Reilly Creates a framework for the unowned submissive, and how to work toward being an asset to a dominant partner. It helps to create behaviors, set goals and create a monthly weekly and annual schedule.    I am a kind, compassionate, loving person, but I have not been treated with respect by the majority of you submissive here on this site and I'm not here to shame you I'm here to say you can do better and here are the tools that will start you on that path of doing better and if you want to disregard the suggestions on how to educate yourself, that's fine you can continue to bury your head in the sand and not become a better person so that you are able to meet the dominant of your dreams    Good day and good luck to us all

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