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Lawrence111
Hetero Male Dominant, 69, Upstate, North Carolina US 
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Lawrence111

Executive Summary:  I am an experienced, single Dominant, Mentor, Trainer, Teacher and Guide seeking a sincerely submissive person with slave potential for a long term learning relationship that is close and intense. In most cases I prefer a live-in or weekend (focused on training) basis in my home which is located just outside of Wilkesboro, NC on over 13 acres of woodlands. There are four 1/2 baths, two showers and one Jacuzzi (see below). I do love it here as have folks who have visited.

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-I expect my partner to be a non-smoker, a non-user of street drugs (such as 420') and a moderate to non drinker. If you want to quit smoking but have not yet, I can motivate you. Together we can make it happen.
 
- Experience:  A transplant from New York where I received my training (circa ’98) in a small private group that met in someone’s home on a monthly basis. Some of these folks would identify (after considerable coaxing) as “Old Guard” and from them I learned a great deal.

- Environment:  I own and live in a modern Chalet-styled home with great views (along with pleasant amenities like an indoor jacuzzi and a separate “play” area), which is located in the mountains just outside of Wilkesboro on 13+ acres of of private woodlands (think “Sherwood Forest”). In appropriate weather, I'd enjoy outdoor bondage, flogging, etc and with my own gated road, I am never disturbed by uninvited guests. This allows for a more private and focused environment than one would find in a typical apartment setting.

- Limits are reasonable: no children, animals, scat, blood, needles, marks that were not planned for, broken bones, trips to the ER, etc. There are likely others that skip my mind at the moment, and we should certainly discuss "limits" in advance.

 

- Good listener, tries to be intuitive and aware as well as keep a sense of humor.

- I'm D&D Free, non-smoker, rare drinker (outside of the occasional glass of wine with dinner), college educated (but not pompous about that or about anything), 5’9, 205-215 lbs, moderately hairy, clean shaven, usually shaving my head to be bald or have very short hair. Also clean and drug free, with excellent hygiene, never tested positive for any STD's/ STI's.... Yes, 'even herpes'.


- While I occasionally "date" (no sex or play, just social) I have not made a commitment to any person or situation. I confess to being most "selective").
 
Understanding that most people do not want a long drawn-out process, to my mind a "search" should not take forever but at the same time should progress in a methodical fashion. I suggest these steps as building on one another and making the most sense:  

- communicate via regular email (which is to say several Collarspace emails, and then several "regular" emails using G-Mail, Yahoo, etc)

 

(Note that I prefer *not* to type in emails or in chat too much because in my past typing for business caused carpel-tunnel and finally surgery. Extensive typing is not so necessary if our goal is to eventually talk on the phone then meet.)

- exchange G-Rated face photos,

- talk on the phone and then meet for coffee as we are both comfortable doing so, deciding if there is mutual chemistry.

At the end of this process I would wish to make a mutually beneficial connection with a steady person who is enthused towards service and learning and on whom I could focus my energy.

I will exchange G-Rated face photos when we are both comfortable doing so and am happy to answer questions not addressed here.

 

I have become interested in "Relyfe Programming" but want to be certain that what I am learning and doing will cause no harm in this mutually consenting process of reprogramming the right girl.

 

And finally my motto remains:

 

"Never make a priority of someone who sees you as an option."

4/18/2018 10:19:11 AM: Interesting blog. Not mine but I'd note that some of these photos are from the old InSex/PD days. (You may need to insert 'h t t p : / /' before the word 'prisoner247')prisoner247.tumblr.com/archive 3/24/2018 7:11:17 PM: I have had more 502 error codes (and other error codes) today than on any other day since I opened an account on CollarSpace.  I think the run from 2004 is due to expire.  RIP 3/22/2018 2:09:09 PM: How to say this without appearing to complain...Some folks like to chat on-line. There's nothing wrong with that and on-line chat is a good way to start to get to know someone.But over the years I have learned to identify those who are so petrified of meeting in the real world, that they will stay on-line forever, chatting *exclusively* on-line, never moving to a phone call, let alone a face-to-face meeting in a public restaurant.Their standard response is that I am being 'pushy' when I want to step up our game. No, m'dear, with all due respect to you (because you are attractive and charming): I am not being pushy. Rather I am being practical: If you never intend to meet, we are simply wasting the time that I could be putting into getting to know someone who is genuinely looking for a real time relationship.Also I would like to voice-confirm with someone as soon as possible to make sure that we are the persons that we claim to be (you = female, me = male).There is nothing wrong with either of these points of view and methods.I try to be (and feel that I am) patient... but at the same time not stupidly wasteful of the limited time and resources that we are able to dedicate for our individual searchs. 2/18/2018 11:21:54 PM: So far so good, conversations for a few nights mutually seem to go well, then... The next day and for the next week... no responses to messages, or emails ... left high and dry with no idea what went wrong.Adults tend to look at ourselves first: Are we the problem?  Then TELL US.  (If it's me, it would sure be nice to know what went wrong so that I can grow and improve for the future.)This 'disappearing act' routine has been happening since the dawn of the cyber age, and I shall never cease being weary of it. 9/22/2015 9:56:08 PM: - If you have small children, I am happy for you.- However my days of living with and taking care of small kids are over. Mine are adults, and do not live with me.- I will date a woman with kids, but as much as I like kids, I can not live with them.
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