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11/12/2017 8:03:13 AM: As I watch the news of the many revelations to/of different male celebrities who have acted inappropriately toward women, with many of them claiming they didn't realize how their actions were perceived/felt by the women they gave their 'attentions' to.  It is obvious how many women have tolerated less than proper behavior, and did so for many varied reasons.For the submissive/slave males on here, let Me make some things clear.  For most Women, especially Dominant ones... when we want you to be sexual, show us your genitals, do specific acts of submission... we will tell you.  Your job is to politely show your willingness to submit.. and do so when told to do so.  Until then.. DO NOT DO IT.

10/6/2017 2:49:36 AM: How hard should it be?  Nope, not talking about the male organ, I am talking about a relationship.  I had met someone in the last two years whose company I enjoyed.  We met on a D/s site so that understanding was present.  Yet we had our differences in needs and expectations.  So, despite being the Dominant where some believe in the 'bull in a china shop approach', I worked to find common ground/compromise where those needs were quite different.  It meant, I had to work to not be 'Me' in some ways.  Where I loved closeness and communication, I left more room for his personal space.  The relationship ended because the distance in needs/wants was just too great, and he decided he didn't wish to attempt to bridge the gap.  I was hurt and disappointed, but moved on.  Today, I am grateful it ended.  Instead of Me working so hard, I am with someone who makes it easy.  Its not because he is 'Mr. Super-sub', but simply because we are a better match.  Sure, there is work involved, but it is minor in comparison.  I get to be Me.. and that.. is easy!

9/14/2017 2:59:34 AM: I do love conversation, good quality, interesting, entertaining conversation!  Knowing that, if we are not actively engaged in such a conversation, and you write Me, have some good old fashioned composition in the message.  I strongly encourage a greeting, and a couple more sentences of what is on your mind, maybe be so polite as to 'introduce yourself' a bit, etc.  This is not a school English class, but keep some of those lessons in your mind a bit more.  I realize not everyone will write you back on here, when you do put in some effort, but your chances of Me writing you back then, are pretty damn good!

7/7/2017 5:10:23 AM: Instant D/s.  I have been talking with a male submissive who met an incredible woman on here.  He has gone to see her now a couple of times.  He cut the first meeting short because he was not seeing enough Dominance from her.  The second did not go to his liking either, apparently.  He is seeking a long term, very strong, Power Exchange.  I don't know his past and how he expects things to go, nor do I know just what this woman has in mind.  Yet, I see in him some of My own mistakes, and wrong assumptions.  I have met people and done some 'playing' right away.  That is all it is, it is not true submission, it is play.  It may bring out the fun chemical release we enjoy from it, that short term thrill, but that is all it is.. short term.. and in many ways, meaningless.  For Me... the fulfillment is in the longer term relationship.  Where, over time, when it is not always 'fun' or 'convenient', someone submits to My rules, My limits, My direction.. even when they may not 'feel like it'.  Yet.. devotion..love....even habit... they give Me their best, submit to a rule they don't like, receive a paddling when they don't feel they deserve it.... or even clean the bathroom a second time, because I decided they didn't do it right the first time.  Those things.. fulfill Me... and they take time.  You want to submit, then submit to My timeline, My vision... My way.  These more satisfying relationships take some time... and impatience has no place in them.

5/28/2017 4:45:03 AM: I am thinking this morning there should be a button in the email area on here that allows you to 'delete and block' an email without actually opening it.  How nice it would be when you preview a message and know its some of the 'trolling/spam' type emails to get rid of it and never deal with that UserID again in two clicks.. 1.checkmark/tick off the box, and hit the button to delete/block.    I know as a Female Dominant, I don't get near the garbage mail the males on here get, but those who write that obviously didn't read My profile, offer nothing I want/need... (including just saying something of intelligence)...   what a great way to get rid of the pesky things.