Collarspace

I am an experienced, sadistic Dom seeking a new sub for a long-term relationship. I will train you, right from first principles if needed.

Unlike most guys on here I am not just looking for kinky sex. I am a Dom to the core, someone who gains your respect and submission naturally, by force of character. Over time you will serve, and call me Sir, because you want to, because it feels natural, not because I demand it.

My ideal relationship is one where we can move seamlessly from apparently equal to Ds and back again. This can happen both in the bedroom and while out dating. It usually takes a little time to achieve but after a while the transition just takes a look, a raised eyebrow or a tiny tweak of pain.

After initial training, the relationship would include regular date activities dinner, movies, etc. as well as play times. We would expect to meet once or twice a week.

I will not cross, though I may push, your boundaries. I do not tolerate topping from the bottom, but I will ask after a session what you particularly enjoyed and what, if anything, you would not choose to repeat.

You will be an intelligent, independent male for whom submission is a conscious choice. Pain, obedience and service turn you on, either singly or all together.

I seek a long term relationship.