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Im looking for a very special woman who is happily in control of her life, yet craves the release and surrender of submission to someone stronger than she is.

Pleasure isnt always simple. For some, its a gift of love to bring them to tears and blubbering begging. For others, its to be put in their place mentally. So they know in their bones they belong under me. Its all about learning each other. I see power exchange as an amazing conversation of energy between two people. Its a unique of intimacy, where through bondage, pain or humiliation, the submissives veneer of normalcy is stripped away, and her inner self is revealed and validated.

Im in an ethically open marriage, where we both have the freedom to explore with others. It works well for us, with no drama at all. In fact, my wife is encouraging me to get out there more, and find a good kink match. She has a regular guy she sees, but its been a while since I played with someone. The itch is definitely there.

I got started with kink back in high school, and just kept going. Its important to maintain a balance of control and compassion. I dont want to dominate someone I dont like and care for. Nor do I want someone who has no self-worth. Offering your submission when you have no personal power is like writing a check when your account is empty. The gesture is hollow. But when a strong woman feels inspired to kneel, its a beautiful moment for both of us.

In my day to day life, Im a software developerbusiness owner. Im into sailing, screenwriting, film directing, skiing, scuba diving and great chats over coffee. Im also a sadist. So yes, I love working a woman over, physically and emotionally. I love mapping her out and exploring her horizons. Specifically, some of my favorite things include rope bondage, caning, electricity, predicament bondage, merciless teasing and orgasm denial, chastity, mental reconditioning (perhaps my 1 fav), clamps, face-fucking, plugs, humiliation, forced-bisexuality, the list goes on... )

I kept a live-in 247 slave for a year, so I have some insight into intense experiences, and the real-world traits required to keep that going successfully. She was a very successful executive at the top of game professionally, and to maintain balance in her life, she needed to experience the opposite of that at home. We found many ways to help her feel small.

As for safety, I pride myself on paying attention closely to my submissive, in the moment. So I can quickly learn what she needs and fears, and what is too much at the time. But, expanding boundaries is key. Im actually quite good with beginners.

Has this captured your attention? If so, I look forward to hearing from you!