I've been in this lifestyle for over 15 yeas and it's never fails to amaze me how many

people use these site as a way to pass the time. They show NO interest in what

a BDSM relationship is all about or the time and attention that is needed to make it

happen. I've stepped away from this lifestyle a few times, So I wouldn't become jaded

or just plain pissed. I chat with may female sub.'s who have put up so many walls

because of the lurkers, liars and abusive smucks they can't even begin to talk to you

about they want or how they want to proceed to find it. You also have the people

on here who start out with the attitude that all you meet on here are the same and

judge you by those past connections, So your defending yourself against others sins.

I'm looking for a 24/7 TPE relationship and as a serious Dom. feel the future is not

bright in doing so unless we begin to police the phonies around here ourselves. I know that will never happen, So I guess I will hope for lightening in a bottle to find that which I desire.

Yes, now you can all responded and tell me how wrong I am about all this, But the

words "complete denial" come to mind.

Master M