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Basic info: Hello, my name is Matt. Obviously, I enjoy being spanked. I made this page so that interested spanking partners can learn a little bit about me (which saves me time by not having to answer the same questions many times). I am a 22 year old white male of average height and weight. I am flexible enough to bend over and touch the floor, so positioning is no problem for me.  Preference of spankers: I don't really have set demographic limits. I enjoy being spanked by both old and young spankers. Both genders are OK with me too. I also have no problem being spanked in front of others (assuming they are in on it). It's even fun to be spanked by a husband and wife couple. So what limits do I have? Well, the most important requirement  is sanity. When people with a strong fetish get horny, they can sometimes get stupid too. There is also the fact that there are mentally unbalanced people in any lifestyle, but probably more so when dealing with a fetish that is kept behind closed doors and which relates to violence (consensual as it may be) of a sort. Keep several rules in mind, and we will be OK.  1. I want a spanking. I don't want to be your slave, "houseboy", boyfriend, etc. 2. I may be very submissive when it comes to spanking, but that doesn't mean you can treat me with disrespect. Remember that I am actively allowing you to spank me because we both enjoy it. I am under no obligation to do this. I don't owe you anything. Don't treat me as an inferior unless we agree to this sort of power dynamic either for role play or to set the tone of the spanking session. 3. Respect my living circumstances. I don't live alone, so I can very rarely host. I can't travel long distances, so don't ask. I don't recommend that you travel long distances to spank me, because my need for discretion doesn't allow me to make such promises.  4. Just because we may say that I am being "punished", doesn't mean you should take it too literally. A spanking may be more exciting if we treat it like a punishment spanking, but this is all there is to it. A real punishment is unwanted, but I want to be spanked. I don't actually "deserve" to be punished (in the true sense of the word), which means that you don't have some sort of karmic duty to carry out my punishment. I will certainly be an eager part of our fake "punishment", but keep in mind that it's nothing more than that. As a side note, I do realize that there are people out there who claim to need a spanker to punish them for real-life misdeeds, but I don't buy that line. Here's something to think about. There are many different forms of punishment. Spanking includes both pain and humiliation, but there are plenty of other painful and humiliating options for punishment. Why do they insist that the only punishment that works is bare butt spanking? Bare butt only policy: Obviously, a spanking will be more painful on bare skin than it would be over clothing, no matter how thin. For some implements, the difference in pain level (bare vs. clothed) is bigger than it is for other implements. I know some spankers like to give spankings over clothes or start over clothes and slowly transition to bare butt spanking. They often do this because they feel going straight to bare butt is too severe.  I insist on getting it bare butt from beginning to end. This is one detail I won't compromise on. You won't be landing so much as a mild pat on my butt until my underwear is off. I am fully aware of the fact that getting it bare butt means that it will hurt more (a lot more with some implements). I just think that having my butt bared enhances the spanking experience enough to outweigh the added pain. Besides, having my butt bared allows you to see what kind of effect you are having. Humiliation: Although I require the spanking to be bare butt, it is a nice bonus if I am fully naked. I don't do this whole modesty thing during a spanking session. If I'm naked, I don't act ashamed of it. You won't see me covering any body parts up, or turning to hide them from view. I don't retreat to dimly lit corners either. In fact, I offer to strip naked and put away my clothes first thing upon entering the location where I am to be spanked. I don't even touch my clothes until our session is over. I have stood completely naked in front of a spanker's male and female friends in a well-lit room before, so I am used to it. If I am naked and you see something you want to touch, just go ahead and do it. Don't even ask me for permission. I don't expect there to be any place for modesty during our session. As a general rule (unless you tell me otherwise), I keep my hands away from my butt and genitals. A good spanking will make me want to clutch my butt in both hands, but I won't do that. You and anyone else watching are certainly welcome to rub my butt if you want, but I won't do that for myself.  You are also free to touch my genitals, but two rules apply. First, you must be very gentle when handling my balls. Second, you should be careful not to overstimulate my penis, so I don't accidentally have an orgasm. My goal is not to get off, but rather it's simply an act of submission. I am allowing my private areas to be seen and touched by the spanker  and anyone else who is in the room. My consent to be touched like this can be assumed by the fact that I am naked in front of you. By the way, massaging my butt isn't always a good way to relieve pain. If my butt starts to go numb after prolonged spanking, massaging my butt can help restore sensitivity to it so I can better feel the spanking when it continues. I have no problem calling you "sir", "coach", "daddy", etc. just as long as you remember that this isn't for real. I don't need a new dad. Pain: Obviously, a spanking has to hurt. If it doesn't, it's not a real spanking, just a mild butt massage. That being said, it's not the pain itself that I enjoy. Pain, by it's very definition, is something unpleasant. What I do enjoy is submitting to the pain of a spanking. It's easy to accept a spanking if it isn't going to hurt, but it's also a lot less exciting. It's much more exciting for me to submit to a spanking if I know it's going to hurt. This is also why I don't want restraints of any kind. I like it much better when I have to make myself stay in position. Although it's not pleasant, I don't really mind the pain so much. I just don't like marks that are hard to explain. My butt doesn't mark easily anyway, but you should still watch out for that. As long as we are clear on that, I don't mind if it hurts a lot. Just make sure to keep the pace slow enough for me to really feel each swat. Different spankers have different preferences for how vocal I should be. I can accommodate your preferences. I can scream loudly or remain silent during the spanking, depending on your preference. My role as a sub: Spanking is like sexual intercourse. In both situations, it can technically work if one person is doing all the work while the other just lies there like a rag doll, but obviously this does nothing to enhance the experience. Although you will still be doing most of the work, I like to take an active role in my own spanking. If you want me naked, I will strip off my clothes, fold them up, and stash them away somewhere out of sight, since I don't even want to see my clothes until I'm just about to leave. If you have any sort of spanking furniture you will be using for positioning, I will drag that into position. I will neatly lay out your collection of spanking implements for you, and do any prep work with that (like oiling the straps). I will do all this while naked and under your supervision. I will personally hand you each implement that you are about to use on me. When I am in position, I will bend over and stick my butt up and out as far as I can. All you have to do is spank. Implements: I like implements which have the sole purpose of administering a spanking. It makes it much more exciting knowing that the implement I am about to be spanked with was specifically designed to spank with, and not for any other purpose. That's why household items like hairbrushes and belts aren't as exciting for me. Bare hand is always great though, even though hands are used for other purposes. With the exception of the hand, the implements I am going to be talking about are all large implements that require plenty of space to use. If you are going to use a small implement, you might as well just stick with your bare hand. Here are my thoughts on several implements I like. 1. Bare hand — I know not to underestimate an experienced spanker's hand. Sure, a single smack with a hand might not hurt as much as an implement might, but a long nonstop hand spanking can quickly began to sting after a few minutes. Hand spankings are also less likely to cause any long-lasting marks. The hand is also the most versatile implement. It works well in any position, and doesn't require much space. The spanker can accurately target any part of my butt with the hand. The hand can also easily mix spanking with other touches. A quick rub or squeeze between smacks is always a nice surprise. The spanker's hand might even slip between my legs occasionally to touch my genitals (as you know, you have my consent to do this anytime without asking). 2. Leather strap — Smooth leather feels nice when dragged slowly across my skin, but it can really hurt when it whips my skin hard. The sound of a leather strap making the loud "crack" sound as it hits my butt is even more memorable than the pain that comes with it. Because it's harder to be accurate with a strap when swinging it laterally, I prefer to be in a position where the spanker can swing the strap straight down onto my butt. Unfortunately, most razor straps don't have handles, but the straps that do have a handle work even better.  3. Cane — Here's a little known fact about the cane. It was actually meant to protect the modesty of the person being caned. It was intended to replace the birch rod, which could only be used on bare skin. The cane was meant to be used over clothes, since it can still cause plenty of pain through the clothes (which were mainly thick woolen trousers and undergarments at that time). Forget that! If you are going to use a cane on me, my butt will most definitely be completely bared for that. I don't care if it hurts a lot more. Not even tissue thin clothing is going to be covering my butt. caning my bare butt also benefits you, since you can see the red lines where the cane has landed. Feel like testing your aim? It could be fun to see how parallel you can make the cane stripes. 4. Wooden paddle — When I use the word "paddle", I am usually referring to the wooden paddle, unless I specify otherwise. There are many leather "paddles" that are more like straps than paddles. Like the cane, the wooden paddle can cause plenty of pain through thick clothes. As you can probably guess though, the only way your paddle is going to be touching my butt is if my butt is bared. I really like the high school and fraternity/sorority style paddles. I have a particularly obsessive aesthetic fetish for these type paddles. A good sized paddle can cover my entire butt with each swat. depending on my position, a good paddle swat can even make balancing difficult, since the paddle has enough mass to cause forward momentum on my butt when it makes contact.  Positions: Here are some positions I like. As I stated earlier, I will try to give you the best possible target to aim for. My butt will be sticking out as far as I can manage, so positions that take full advantage of this are great. 1. I am facedown over your lap. Obviously, I can really do much to bend at the waist or stick my butt out in this position, but it's still a comfortable position for long spankings. You can't really use large implements in this position though, so you are better off sticking with your bare hand. 2. I bend over from a standing position and touch the floor with my hands. This position has me bent over at a really good angle. This position is great for the cane and paddle. 3. I am kneeling on a couch seat, and bent over the arm of the couch with my forearms resting on the floor. This makes my butt stick straight up at a sharp angle. This position is great for the strap. 4. I am on my hands and knees on the bed or couch with my head lowered and my butt up. Legs are spread. Although this position works well for hand spanking. It's a comfortable position that puts my butt at a good height. Unlike the first position, I described, your spanking arm has greater range of motion here. You could give me normal strength smacks, or you could bring your arm back and put your whole body into a hard slap. This works great for either. It also allows your hand to more easily explore, since my genitals are hanging down underneath me.