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I moved to Portland a couple of years ago. I love it here--and enjoy the leather community. I head a Master/slave family with jimmy (boijim here on recon) as my slave. Nomad (PDX4U), under my coaching, is evolving from a slave to becoming a Dom; because of our history, he still serves me in many ways. I still see my East Coast slaveboy, slave Gerard, a couple of times of year for extended visits. Nomad and jimmy have moved in with me. I co-host the Portland Leathermen's dungeon party. (Contact me if interested in attending.)

I am a serious Master, an Alpha male who knows how to take control. Boys and slaves find me tough, severe, and caring. Apart from the obvious pictures of slaves in my gallery, all the rest are of me over the last 9 years. The primary thumbnail was taken this November, 2015.

I consider D/s (Dominant/submissive) relationships to be spiritual. A master must work to bring out the very best in the sub. The sub must lose his will in his Master. But the Master must lose his petty ego to something greater than both. My image as a Master is the figure of the dancing Shiva--Lord of Creation and Destruction. For to be growth we must be alive--to be alive we must embrace the process of destruction and creation. At its best, D/s work/play intensifies and focuses our vital life-energies.

A Master/slave relationship depends on four virtues--trust, respect, honesty, and courage, but the greatest of these is courage. Only if we have the courage to look deeply into ourselves and take action, can we begin to respect ourselves and each other. And it takes courage to trust.

Joseph Campbell wrote: "It is only by going down into the abyss that we recover the treasures of life. Where you stumble, there lies your treasure. The very cave you are afraid to enter turns out to be the source of what you were looking for."

That's where a true Master will take his slave. It's an arduous journey that both Masters and slaves take together, but one that a few courageous men are willing to travel. In the words of Baudelaire:
"To plunge to the depths of the abyss, Hell or Heaven, what does it matter?
To the depths of the unknown to discover what is new."

I'm particularly interested into guys open to exploring a sexualized spirituality. The key to opening my Master heart (and getting my cock hard) is to feel a guy submitting totally, stripped and kneeling at my feet. That is when I can bring out a boy's slave heart, even as he brings out my Master heart in the wonderful bdsm power exchange.

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BLONDENEEDSDADDY
 
 Age: 40
 Edinburgh, United Kingdom