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Ok, so i'm not new to this site anymore, and still looking for a decent Dom.
I'm not new to bdsm but have far from done it all, I've had only 2 long term doms, both come with stories. Although i'm not active in any communities, nor do i want to be necessarily, i'm also not shutting the door on the idea. I am private about my life to people i know, people i don't know may be a different story. I can be an exhibitionist and adventurous, especially around people I trust.
I don't smoke or do drugs or have any nasty habits, but I do like good wine and spirits especially when there is nothing to do the next day.
I'm clean, no cavities in *teeth* n nice pink gums. No Drugs please.
I am not a doormat but i can be very submissive to the right guy (or couple) with the right situations. I'm not Dom at all at home but I'll command situations and don't get "taken to the cleaners"! D/s is a two way street, I can't be sub without a Dom and they cannot be Dominant without a submissive. Not many understand that, or ignore it, or both.
I'm a nudist at home but you don't have to believe it.
I would like to find someone to explore this with along with do regular vanilla things. I have real-world responsibilities that i cannot abandon so the right Dom has to realize this and work with it. Who knows, a saying goes that "there is great reward in revealing things that don't appear to be worth uncovering".
I'd prefer a couple. That doesn't mean i would not build upon a relationship with a great guy and leader who wants to have a poly setting. I don't care alot about looks, but no one too old or ugly beyond repair. I do like to look modern and fashionable in public. I am a designer by trade, so if you lack the eye, i can see for you. A few extra pounds can make me feel more sub to a larger human being (no sumo, haha), too few pounds and, well, I can't take a guy weighing less then me and claiming to be Dom seriously, sorry!
I much prefer to chat than email so if you see me on take a chance and invite me to chat. I'll probably be in one of the top rooms or you can try a private chat if working.
Yes I have yahoo, facebook, pics and a cell phone. No, you can't have access to those things until we chat a few times.
I hope someone with half a brain has read this far and invites me to chat.
One stipulation, NO Crazies, you know who you are ;)
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Ok just because this is a kink site doesn't mean the rules of getting to know you don't apply. Its got to be a very small about of women who jump to the snap of a stranger? |
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up to late and too early the bewitching hour |
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no Dom, no reason to celebrate. i took the day off work, maybe he'll msg me.... |
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I keep thinking the perfect Dom or couple is around corner but there are so many corners. Will it ever be real again? |
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Today i've met many wonderful people here. I have no method for choosing any of them. I hope I can find someone for a LTR. I know some of you are married or involved and that's not a problem but the problem is would you ever leave? Is whats on the other side of the fence green enough or are you always going to stay where you are? You can't move forward if you anchor yourself. You should only set your anchors in clear waters. Ships ahoy or landward HO? |
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