It really does make me laugh sometimes, the people who think they have the right to judge me if they don't know me. Too many internet folks who think they are all high and mighty and the womans' perfect dream, when in reality, they are probably no more than a lonely pathetic excuse for life, holed up in their basement with mountain dew and funions looking to have cyber S&M/D&s sessions with any willing participant just to get their jollies. I'm sure this site has plenty of REAL people who are serious about finding someone in the lifestyle to compliment them physically and spiritually, but the vast majority, I doubt it. I got this short but sweet message yesterday.

"OK, IT'S OFFICIAL....MOST THAT HAVE TALKED TO YOU IN THIS AREA THINK YOU ARE A TOTAL WASTE"

MY response:

Let everyone think what they want. I have neither the need, nor the want, to juggle umpteen men, so I won't even begin to try.

If you all think I'm a waste, so be it. It's no skin off my nose. I know I'm not a waste, so why should I care what the rest of you think? Plus, relax, it's a fucking website dude. It's not like you're waving at me and saying hi in real life and I'm scoffing at you and walking away. Some people take the internet and the people on it way too seriously.

Those of you who think I'm "a waste of time" or any derivitive thereof, can go fuck themselves. I'm not here to be talked down on, I'm not here to be told I'm chicken, and I'm not here to be told I'm a waste of time. I came here to find a GOOD Dom/Domme, and unless I think you could be that person, I'm not going to waste my time talking you up, and I'm not looking to play internet scenes or to "get to know" you. Most people on here who have asked to get to know me, I later came to find only wanted nude photos, and cam scene sessions. NOT what I'm looking for. I need a connection before I can submit to any man or woman, most people here don't want that, understand that, or care for that matter.

So, go on thinking what you like, no one's opinion of me matters, except for my familys, mine, and of course, my Dom/Domme's whenever I happen to find one I trust and care for. Everyone else can go take a long walk off a short pier. I could care less.

Ok apparently a few more things need to be said.

First, if I don't answer your email, it's not because I'm here to "jerk" people around. It's because I am not interested. No use in wasting my time typing god only knows how many messages to the people I really don't have interest in.

Second, I don't care how good looking you are if you write me a message that consists of only one sentence. I am interested in brains, intelligence. If you look good on top of that, all the better, but I do not get involved with anyone who lacks the ability to hold an intelligent conversation.

Third, and I cannot stress this enough, first and foremost I am a human being. If you are looking for someone to treat like shit and/or beat on, I can garuntee you right now, I am NOT, nor will I EVER BE, that kind of person. I have self respect thank you very much.

Maybe this will help weed out the unwanteds....

A few things you should know.

I was serious when I said I have spunk. I am bouncy, bubble, and a smart ass. But hey, that's better than being a dumb ass. :)

I am a sub, NOT a slave. I enjoy the fuck out of being dominated, but I do make my own choices, and I prefer to keep it that way.

I am currently in the middle of a divorce, and am not looking for anything serious for now. My soon-to-be-ex husband has "quit" the lifestyle, and I need to slowly reaquaint myself with the lifestyle as it has been a few years since I have been a part of it.

Just to be clear, I am not looking to reloacate. I have a son and he is happy where he is, I will not uproot him for anyone unless it is garunteed to be permanent.