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Hello,
I am a 47 year old male Dominant with a little over 2 years real time experience. I belong to a local BDSM club and have many friends and contacts within the lifestyle. I am looking for a partner as well as a submissive. If i need or want a doormat I can always buy one at Wal -Mart. I am not a jealous person and dont want somone that wants to be "only us" as I like having new and varied experiences with the people I already know and new ones as they may come along. That is not to say that I want to play the field or that I wont treasure My submissive and protect her and our relationship and have both of our best interests in My mind in whatever decisions I may make. I just want us to both be open minded and honest and willing to explore together. I am looking for a woman that is secure in her own daily life and image. Somone that knows what she wants and that getting it doesnt always mean having things her own way. I am not looking for a person that needs me to micro-manage thier every move and decision. I want someone that is balanced in both thier approach to life and thier approach to this lifestyle. Honesty intelligence and a sense of humor are very important. As the saying goes " Rule #1- Don't sweat the small stuff" "Rule #2- its all mostly small stuff". I say mostly because of course there are important issues and challenges in our lives that we cant NOT sweat. Still I feel it is importatnt to keep things in perspective, and that includes lifestyle issues. I have a job and a vanilla life and will assume that you do too. People get sick, they have off days, the kids may be getting on your nerves. What I am getting at is having a D/s relationship is very improtant to Me as it is for you. That said it has to be put into the balance of the other forces that mold our existences day by day.
I have become open to energetic connection and applying that energy to both vanilla and D/s aspects of My life. It can be scary and a little hard to get used to if you havent fully experienced it, but i have found that it not only enhances the D/s experience but the emotional, sexual, and physical experiences we desire to achieve through exploration of the BDSM life style.
If you have bothered to read this far then read a little further as I explain that while I do enjoy the sadistic aspects of this life and the concensual application mental control and physical pain, I also happen to find the sensual aspects equally if not more rewarding. Yes i am known for My skill at hand spankings and with other tools of the trade (lol) such as floggers, canes, paddles, rope bondage, saran wrap mummificatrion, wax play, knife play, enemas, pony play, and a host of other activities. I have packed a great deal of learning into a fairly short period of time obviously. I take the safety aspects of all of these activities very seriously as well. All of that however is physical and a function of brain chemicals when it comes to the response a sub may have to them. I have found that the mind is the place to truly get inot someones head , pun intended. After all the brain is the largest sex organ in the body and the place it all has to come together for things to really click. Men are often accused of thinking with thier penises, and a lot of women also think with thier pussies. Those are only the nerve bundles we stimulate to get off. The mind resides in the grey matter between our ears, and takes a lot more to be satisfied. I was lucky enough to have found an outlet for neds and desires that allows My partner and I to interact on a mental as well as physical level and allows us to get to places we never would have in a purely vanilla relationship.
I hope this information is helpful to you and that it leads you to want to respond to My profile and see what might be able to happen between us. I will be happy to answer any other quetions you may have as i do value oppeness and honesty, and that is not just a "line" for me. Thank you for taking the time to read My profile and may your search be fruitful. This lifestyle has helped Me get to know My self better at the same time it has helped Me know others better and more deeply. Be well and have a great day.

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MissMyaStar
 
 Age: 22
  Washington