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Update--I am taken. Thank you to those of you kind enough to express interest and/or drop me line. I wish everyone well.
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Hi there. One of those toppy-type people suggested I check out this site, so here I am. (The ever-inquisitive subbie looking around the planet.) I may update this later...we'll see how it goes.

Update: I have viewed some profiles...and I have received some very nice notes from folks here, so I will add a bit about myself that may help you decide whether or not to drop me a line....

I am not actively seeking a Dom or a collar at this time--I have a very busy life between work and school, I do not live in a closet, but I do have a pair of rose-colored glasses that get me into trouble occasionally. (Only occasionally though...I am a good girl! Mostly....)

I am not young, nor am I particularly outgoing (at least, I am a bit shy around new people or places). I enjoy a variety of activities and I like to explore--road trips, good! Although I have old injuries that preclude me from some athletic activities I enjoyed when I was younger. (Lost one knee going airborne off a motorcycle and lost the other knee crashing into a tree while practicing for a downhill [ski] race.) So I am ordered by my knee surgeon to STAY OFF MY KNEES...but there are a lot of things that I CAN do. :) My life is going through some major changes these days, and as I get back to the gym and start working on my physical health I should be able to begin enjoying some of those old passions once again.

What I am looking for...when I am ready to look--I am attracted to intelligent men. Not necessarily brainiacs, but that type of intelligence about life. Maturity is important. Laughing, teasing, playing dress-up...these are good things...but each in their own place. I would seek a partner that would respect me as he respects himself. I would expect and give discretion where careers are concerned. I like to go out sometimes, and sometimes I like to stay in.

Friendship is the only way to start. When meeting new people--we each need to find out if there is any compatibility as people before anything else will happen. Love is something that grows with time--love at first site is rare and does happen, but the full flower of a relationship comes with that continual delight of discovery of each other as complete human beings.

Hmmm...I'll have to think about this profile and change it all tomorrow. :)

Take care and enjoy life.

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11/3/2005 9:08:10 PM
What strange turns our lives take.  Friends--always there, dependable, the ones you can say anything to and know that even if criticism is offered, it is never mean or hurtful...but meant only to enlighten.  And then one day as you turn around the collar is there, along with the 2x4 upside the head.  (OK, so sometimes I am a bit slow.)  You have to watch out for the quiet ones...they are cunning.  :)

10/29/2005 7:31:16 PM
Well...it was supposed to be "more clear"...LOL.  Ah well.

10/27/2005 10:10:15 PM
Well...several have asked, so once the "untouched" photo is approved (well...untouched except to protect anonymity) it will be a bit more clear.

10/8/2005 12:16:15 PM
Woodpeckers.  It isn't fair!!  Two of them.    Off to the boat store for owl decoys, I guess.  Cheapest way I know to keep the pests OUT of my wood house! 

10/3/2005 10:18:53 PM
TIP for the day:  Do not watch "Beaches" alone.  It makes you maudlin.  It is sad.  And then, when you try to sing along and hit those high notes...well...it just gets ugly.  :)

9/6/2005 9:13:45 PM
So the truth is out:  My adult son is a complete slave to a four-footed dwarf that looks like a cross between a Dalmation, a Pug, and a Boston Terrier.  Her name is Ms. Camilla Parker-Bowles.  She dotes on him, bosses him around, and has very strong words for him if he leaves the house without her express permission.  And she doesn't even own him--she owns his girlfriend.  Or maybe she is a switch?  If he has steak, she knows how to "sit pretty".  OK, ok...sometimes we just need a laugh so badly anything is funny... :)

9/5/2005 2:10:04 PM
Tragedy comes at us so unexpectedly--and sometimes it is so great, it is hard to find ways to help without making things worse.  For those that pray (in any form), there is a young man (just 18) bereft of a friend this weekend--and feeling guilt for an accident he could not foresee and that he did not die with his friend.  Healing prayers for him and his friend's family are welcome.  There is power in prayer as there is power in thought--and I believe that good can come from unknown sources, if we but ask.  Healing for my nephew's spirit and healing for his friend's family in their loss of a bright young spirit.  Thank you.

9/3/2005 1:56:27 PM
Do you know the nicest thing about this site?  E-MAIL!  The other sites are so frustrating--you have to pay to use their e-mail.  I guess we all have to make a buck but, really, there are other ways.  It wouldn't be so frustrating if the prices were at least reasonable.  Here it may be simple, but you can really communicate with people--and there's Tetris!  What more could we ask for?

8/23/2005 8:11:18 PM
I survived the dreaded Javascript course!!  It's awful when the instructor doesn't instruct, but I survived.  Four more weeks of school!!!!!!!!  **grinning from ear-to-ear**

8/2/2005 10:27:08 PM
OK now, comp sci fans:  who uses JavaScript???? 

7/12/2005 7:04:02 PM
Funny the things one can learn about in a programming class.  Take JavaScript:  I open the new e-text and scan the table of contents, and guess what catches my eye?  "Document Object Model (DOM)".  Somehow I just knew there was a deeper meaning...LOL....There are Document Object Properties, Document Object Methods (I would really like to know more about those methods), there are Images--well, when thinking of Doms there are many images that spring to mind.  And then there are those "hands-on projects":  Oh yes, Please!  I want one of those!  ;) 

6/19/2005 7:13:42 PM

Pirates are fun!  (Even if one doesn't find the black diamond!) 


6/16/2005 11:35:43 PM

Is it Springtime that makes us restless and half crazy?  I just don't know.  A friend of mine (another submissive) once said--when she first knew me--that she wasn't sure about me.  She wasn't sure where I "fit"...I was so closed-off and "contained".  It drove her nuts.  Then one night, when we were having a late dinner and preparing to haunt some of the jazz clubs in town, she snapped upright and then leaned over the table to whisper to me:  "I've got it!  I know what it is!  There is fire inside you!  You hide it, but it is there and you know it.  God help the Dominant that unleashes that fire--and I wish I could be there to see it.  It will be magnificent."  Maybe not verbatim, but close enough.  And she is right.  I think that that is why I dance--like a moth around a flame--when I am in the presence of the strong Dom personalities.  They draw me.  They speak to that flame inside.  I just have not yet met the One that will brave the flames, I guess.


5/29/2005 5:53:18 PM
Ah, the poets.  The poets and the storytellers...they always get me.  Why is that?  Perhaps it is the allusion to those secret passions that move only on the inside, where no one else can see...but...those special few can sense....

5/27/2005 5:18:10 PM
Idle thoughts for a Friday night when no one is here to beat me as I might (because I'm a GOOD girl) deserve:

"I am" -isms....

Believer in Faerie
Rampaging DustBunnie Murderer
Siwwy Doms!...Twicks are for Subbies!
One of those Sinister Submissives....

5/26/2005 2:49:55 AM
Almost 3am.  Moving furniture all night.  I should be sleeping and where am I?  Watching "The Quiet Man"...*sigh*...one of my favorite movies of all time.  Beautiful Ireland, wonderful old customs, men were men and women were a force of nature *laughing*...who doesn't love Maureen O'Hara?

5/17/2005 7:59:41 PM
OK.  Where was I on Monday night?  They had a workshop on "Flirting Techniques to Get You Laid".  I always miss the good stuff!  ;)

5/14/2005 11:25:41 PM
AAhhhh...everybody's gone.  Clean skin.  Clean hair.  Soft dress.  What's a girl do??  She's play DiabloII, of course!  ;)

5/14/2005 4:49:00 PM
Ever have one of those weeks when you are SO relieved it's Friday and you can actually rest.  Maybe even get some real sleep?  And the world comes to "help" you...and within a few hours you are hiding in your bedroom, with the covers pulled over your head, in the fetal position.

This has been one of those days.  I have my own little house.  I live alone, except for a son that is in a dorm at college most of the year.  And I feel this need to run away.  Is it legal for Mommies to run away from home?  Just for a few hours?  For some peace and quiet? 

5/6/2005 9:37:35 PM
OK OK...I know....I'm bored!  But it's not dungeon night.  I'm going to the club tomorrow night!  (*pouts*)....I need to breathe...need to hear the moans and screams...(*grumbling softly*)...need a good flogging too, but my "Buddy" is at sea.  What's a girl to do????

5/6/2005 9:06:24 PM
OK...nowhere else in this lifestyle have I heard the term "natural submissive" or "natural Dom".  Nowhere.  Zero, zip, Nada.  I have asked but received absolutely NO response.  What the heck is a "natural submissive"?  I guess if I have to ask I am not one...Thank God.  I am, and always have been, submissive.  It is part of who I am in the depth of my being.  It's not "natural"...it just IS.  I wonder if this is not just someone's attempt to create another set of labels by which we are supposed to judge ourselves?  We have too many labels as it is, and life is too short.  *sigh* 

5/4/2005 9:57:28 PM
Tip for the day:  Do NOT watch spooky type movies if you don't have someone to cuddle with!  I do it all the time and I don't know WHY....I must be a masochist!  ;) 

4/30/2005 10:15:59 PM
I went to an SCA faire today.  It was nice but, alas, no brigands, rouges, scoundrels, or pirates accosted me. :((((  Perhaps a girl did not show enough cleavage?  Hmmm....I wonder.....

3/27/2005 11:30:59 PM
A word on "Interests"...there are too many selections on there that are not exactly my cup of tea.? However, there are things that interest me that cannot be expressed by a simple checklist.? So....

I am attracted to "nice" guys, but that means "nice" dominants.? I am strong-willed in some ways and I am very focused on things like work and finishing my degree.? Some dominants may find that I could not devote as much time to them as they would like.? However, my career and school choices do not detract from my desire to be completely devoted to the right person.

The right person for me would start as a friend, and other things would develop over time.? I cannot see myself marrying again--I think once was enough.? I am perfectly happy being on my own, but it would be nice to find that one special someone to share life with.

I enjoy a good flogging--it's like a deep massage with special bonus sensations!? Caning is wonderful, if done correctly.? Mixing things up with wax, fire, ropes, chains...ummmm....happy, happy girl!!

If my "hard limits" cover things a partner might be interested in, I would not be averse to having them play with someone else...I would desire that those moments are discussed ahead of time so that all parties know what is going on and there are no misunderstandings.

The most crucial part of a D/s relationship, to me, is devotion...and trust.? There are always options and possibilities where there is trust, respect, and devotion all around.? Appearance, height/weight, etc., are not as important as overall compatibility.? Love would be wonderful.? Hmmm...and I'm too sleepy to rattle on anymore tonight.? I better get some sleep and try again tomorrow.

Night all.

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missannalisa
 
 Age: 20
 Ontario, Canada