47 year old lifestyle sub. If you think being dominant is about getting someone to open their bank account while calling them a loser then we won't be getting on. I honestly think Findomme is a way to exploit desperate fools who know no better and it spoils it for genuine Dommes and subs looking for a connection. HOWEVER: if I'm in a relationship it doesn't mean I'm cheap. Giving gifts to someone who's earned my trust and love is a completely different thing. 

I've been in and out of the lifestyle since I was 18. I've known I was submissive since I could walk (think playground games where the evil witch captures the knighT and you're not far wrong). I am a fan of latex and pvc, however I know the clothing doesnt maketh the person. What makes me want to submit is confidence, a sense of mischief, good humour and the ability to make me blush with just a knowing look. If you get in my head I will literally give you my mind body and soul, with all my love. 

if You do message, I'll reply with respect and honesty and I'd expect the same in return. 
ok, hope I've not bored you with this, please get in touch!