I messaged someone here, introduced myself and I got this response: "Thankyou, but no thankyou". This response made me happy because I would not want someone with a huge ego in my life. This came from an older woman and it seemed more petty because of that. I think common courtesy is a very nice thing which everyone should learn. :)

Once I am past the financial slavery mindset where I tell the dome about my budget and she is kind enough to agree with it. Then I feel that giving time is very important. Not only me giving time to her. But her giving time to me to. I don't like emailing and not getting any responses, then getting a response but a one liner that does not answer anything about every day life. I don't know how it does something for anyone but it does not do it for me.

Humiliating me while you talk to me is all right. :) But not talking to me makes me think like I am talking to a wall.

I remember Craig Ferguson talked about Britney Spears and told the media to leave her alone because she is a recovering alcoholic and alcoholics are very fragile. That video made the headlines, Craig was surprised that being kind made a news headline.

I feel the same when out of 100 profiles, I come across a profile which does not talk about money. :)  It is such a pity but I think being bitchy or being a domme is different. I was talking to someone yesterday and she agreed, she said that getting to know the person is paramount. Then you can eventually pounce on the person when you have that connection. That is exactly true. Once a connection has been made, then you can go overboard with it if you want. It is a pity that this website has so many women that have profiles that have highlighted one word, "Fin Domme", "Financial", "Money", "Wallet". Frankly, if someone has that amount of money then they will go and get a pornstar to be a professional domme. 

I hope things change.

Is it odd that I find kindness in a domme. Dommes are supposed to have short tempers and not value for soft emotions but I want a kind woman. If she is kind, then I can trust her more and more, then intense reactions can follow.

I have to say that these kind of dommes are very rare but they are not non-existent. They know how to talk to someone and they do give you time to see how compatible they are with you. At that time, a slave or a sub won't need to be asked to do something, he will start being nice to you.

I am sure there is a market for girls that want money to talk. There are some profiles that start with "I don't need your money" but they end with, "I need your money". A woman whose heart is in the right place is the most valuable woman in the world.

It is interesting that the first few days of communication are always very promising but then disappointments follow. I don't expect anyone to be perfect, neither am I. Far from it actually. But the thing that I despise the most is lying. It is the mysterious behavior that gets to me. Suddenly the profile is changed and the person disappears from the face of the earth without letting you know where they are and why they are leaving. May be I am trying to see where I am in the hierarchy of this world of submission but I do want that respect of knowing where my loved ones are. It is a very unsettling feeling when they come and go in your life as they please without telling you what they are going through.

Anyway, we live and learn.