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I am a masculine gay bottom - I am not into being hurt or abused, but I do prefer to be submissive male wife to my partner. I actually like and perfer to date men that are strong confident natural leaders - they make decisions, and know what they want - they are not dicks for being a dick - in some ways they are micro managers and very controlling - yet also loving and passionate - they acccept and enjoy their role and mine and want it as a way of life. We both respect each other and there is that love and desire, but I dont want to be his true equal, i want to be his lover, his sub and his male wife.
I am open to relocation as why only look in my local area for the right man - but that does not mean i will move after just one chat - i want to build and create something that will last - and will defer to your direction and guidance.
I am masc but i do only own and wear panties as undies/ I am not feminine and not a drag queen i do love silks and satins, and open to providing what you like how you like it.
I am at the age and point of my life where I know what i want and hope to be with - career was always previous priority but now it needs to be about living and being happy and for me that will come when I have my take charge in control LOVING hubby! ( i do have NON X rated pic to share)
Seeking something serious - a DOMINANT guy who is keen to build something together with an eye towards permanence. If hook up is what you want, I am not the person! Looking for a Dominant guy, that wants me submissive but NOT a slave. Preferably in the age range 30-68
Educated, career-driven, sufficiently successful. Submissive. Seeking a Dominant guy, socially and sexually. Someone who wants likes to lead, guide. I am a straight-acting. I like to serve sexually (and understand discipline may be involved), take care of domestic chores, and otherwise engage socially
Think of the wife in a traditional, .old-fashioned marriage. If you see us in that role, we may be a match. But I believe relationships need leaders and followers. A ship needs a captain marriage needs clear authority. If you are a TRUE leader and prefer followers and love to be in constant control and yet can be loving and passionate, you may be a good fit. Some degree of emotional maturity/EQ is important!
Note I don't think this needed saying, but apparently it does Spitters are quitters and I am not a Quitter. Period.
saw this elsewhere and fully agree with the message:
Sex between a true bottom and a true top is a sacral act. It depends both on the sameness (maleness) of both partners, as well as, and more importantly, their difference (you can't have unity without difference or diversity). A top's sexuality is masculine: expanding, entering, exploring, conquering, reaching outside itself, penetrating, discovering. A bottom's sexuality is feminine: accommodating, drawing-in, opening, submitting, beckoning, receiving, being-discovered.
The bottom willingly sacrifices his maleness to the top by spreading his legs and allowing the top to penetrate him and conquer him internally. This receptivity, submission, accommodation is very feminine. But it is precisely *as a male* that the bottom pers this feminine act. It is as a male and only as a male that he is able to give his maleness as an offering to the top. It is very free, even though it is very natural. The bottom, having given himself entirely to the top, then receives from the top the top's own maleness, which moves inside him and ultimately releases inside him. The bottom becomes yin and the top is yang and they are two men united in a perfect union of masculinity and femininity.
Anal sex is key, because it is the most intimate act two men can share, as well as the most fitting way for a bottom to submit to his top, and for the top to dominate and fill his bottom. As a true man, the top's sexual organ is his penis. The bottom's primary sexual organ is his anus/rectum. The top must always be the clearly masculine, dominant partner. It is totally inappropriate for a bottom to try to command or control his top. Rather, a bottom should revere and submit to his man, and constantly be trying to please him."
Commandments of a True Bottom or Total Bottom
1-Always be prepared to fuck
2-Provide all supplies required
3-Demand no help to open up but do everything to get the top hard
4-Cum only if, when, where and how the top demands it
5-Vocalize pleasure, not pain, and be silent when told
6-The top controls the depth, pace and roughness
7-Do not touch yourself
8-Do as the top commands
9-Anticipate a top's needs
10-If you say you want it, expect it
11-It's all about the top
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