Why do people choose a dark or black background for their profiles and journals?  I thou the point of a profile and journal was for people to read them, so why make it harder or impossible to read?  Just a thought.

Been awhile since I posted.  I'm curious about something.  I am the type who wants his cake and wants to eat it.  After all, what's the point of looking at cake and not eating it?  But I want my cake to be sustainable.  This is how I also look at a relationship with a submissive or a slave.  I want a sustainable relationship center around a mutually desired power exchange.  Yes, I do have my sadistic side, but I have no interest in using a girl up and dumping her when I am done.  I want to develop a relationship with someone who would be my ongoing prey, so to speak, where we can build depth and intimacy, seeing just how deep the rabbithole of our shared depravities goes.  And the first step in this, in my mind, is building mutual trust and respect.  I don't believe in naming calling someone, degrading or belittling someone I don't know.  I adore humiliation and degradation but within the confines of the relationship I desire with my submissive or slave.  So expect me to address you with manners and courtesy, because being dominant does not make me immune from manners and courtesy.

Today was my birthday.  I'm 47 today, though I wouldn't characterize this as one of the major birthdays.  Unfortunately I didn't have anyone here to give any birthday spankings to.

In the process of moving into a new house.  Well, an old house if I'm being honest.  I purchased my parents' house and recently finished renovations.  Updating the kitchen, a proper master bathroom with a shower big enough for three and tub for two.  And roughly twice the size of my old home.  Now I just need to find my perfect submissive 1950s housewife and pet.

I was exchanging messages with someone this morning and she asked me what was I looking for in a potential slavegirl,  I got on a really good roll with my wordsmithing this morning so I thought I'd share that response with the world,  Obviously there is more to it, but if you feel like this is you or if my words moved you in some manner, I would love to hear from you,

I am looking for a slavegirl who is both demure and slightly outgoing, She enjoys being shown off but also experiences that tinge of humiliation when she is, She wants to love and be loved by her owner but also accepts she is his property, his owned possession, his pet, She activity looks for ways to please and pamper knowing that her owner will always care for her, take care of her, pamper her when needed but he will also push her mentally and physically as well, instilling the discipline she needs so she may function at her best always, She is someone who has a brain and seeks to be owned not because she is weak or a failure but because she feels complete when she submits to her One and serves him, She has a masochistic side and craving for humiliation to match my own sadistic desires, She wants to relinquish control to her owner and embrace his rules and protocols so she may truly embrace herself and her submissiveness, More than anything she wants to be stripped down to her bare essence and remolded into the best version of herself and be a part of a true relationship that can last beyond the end of time,

If your profile or profile name mentions diapers or pigs, it's highly unlikely I will write or respond.  Everyone has their kinks and I respect that, but these two are not part of mine.

My wife's profile is MissPeyton.  Feel free to check out her profile and message her.

Update 2 

I know my profile says I am 35 but I am a much more grizzled 46 with, according to my wife, very handsome streaks of grey in my goatee and beard,  I'm also in better shape now than what I was when I was 35,  I run 2 plus miles every day and am reincorporating the rowing machine into my morning workouts,  

Update 1,  Still married, still loving my wife, who is still dominant,  My wife is now working as an icu nurse and about to transfer to working the overnight shift, eventually working overnights on Friday Saturday and Sunday,  I'm looking for a submissive or slavegirl who would primarily submit to and serve me as my companion, paramour, pet and playtoy,  While I would prefer the submissive I collar eagerly look to serve both my wife, we would be willing to discuss,

I know my profile is in need of an update and will do so in detail via journal entries tonight,  If I add you to my favorites list, it's because your profile caught my eye and I plan on writing you once I have added a couple of JEs,  But feel free to ask me questions, I am an open book,