Described as attractive, intelligent and confident, I'm more concerned with style than fashion. My tastes lean toward the sophisticated and unconventional. My interests span the arts, politics, psychology, animals and design; I'm endlessly fascinated by the darker side of human nature and amused by its ironies and absurdities. Liberal, non-judgemental and open-minded, I find balance for life's complexities through maintaining simple and basic values. I'm passionate but not militant.

After years of suppressing my true nature and sexuality, I knew unequivocally in one moment that my life was about to change in a big way. I began to seek out those of like mind to help me explore and celebrate this too long ignored but very special facet of my personality. Years later, after corresponding with too many to remember, meeting a select few and sharing intimacy with fewer still, I understand what I'm looking for in a Man and Master.

My Ideal Person: An understanding, experienced and patient natural Dom - One whose disposition is inclined to mentoring and cherishing this very sensitive and sensual submissive who loves and needs to please. Emotionally available, realistic and always mindful of keeping my best interests at the forefront, those with a cruel streak should take a pass. Leaning toward the erotic end of the scale, I understand, appreciate and enjoy the intellectual challenge of transforming the sensation of pain, adding to the moment's eroticism. I am most attracted to naturally dominant men; confident and comfortable with their masculinity/sexuality and truly able to appreciate women. Also important are a high level of intelligence, a good sense of humour, open-mindedness, honesty, integrity and compassion. I do my best to take care of my health and appearance so it follows that I look for and appreciate the same in a partner.

With respect: Please don't message me if you smoke, are attached in any meaningful way, submissive, switch or under 45. You will be wasting your time and mine and if I respond, I will be rude (acknowledging that emotional/psychological maturity don't always correlate directly to age, stats are stats).