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If you think about it there is probably no greater relationship than that between a Dominant and a submissive. The pure passion of two people living a dream.
If you remove all the fantasy it is just two people living in the way that is most natural to them.

As a submissive it is my natural instinct to submit. I will admit to being stimulated sexually by acts of submission, but that is not truly the most important part.
It is the psychological that stimulates the most. For without the psychological stimulation inside the mind there could be no physical pleasure.

The imagination is also of immense importance. Not as a tool of fantasy but to stimulate reality. When you stand in front of a Lady and she rests her hand on your shoulder and caresses your windpipe with her thumb. It is your imagination of what is to come that will drop you to your knees, and bow your head in submission.

I would truly like to meet a Lady who understands the complexities of Domination. Who understand the marriage of the physical and the psychological as one to ensnare, capture and control a slave.

I am a mature man, and no oil painting, toy boy or stud. But i am genuine, and seeking a Mistress. Not just for an hour or two's role play. But for a long term real time experience of submission and slavery.

If you read my profile. Thank you. And if you are seeking a truly enlightened experience please do contact me. I can't claim to be perfect, but i can promise to do my best to please you and serve your needs.

Thank you.

1/11/2008 5:18:26 PM
In a way i count myself fortunate that i have been involved in two quite long term relationships with women that i considered dominant, but not in the lifestyle sense of the word. I believe that both ladies saw in me someone who could easily be manipulated and used.
The strange thing about both relationships is that neither were sexual in nature. And the strangest thing in both cases was that i never wanted them to be.
My need is to submit, and my pleasure comes from the act of submission, and serving someone i respect as my superior.
In a way i am very lucky. But i wonder if i will ever experience the excitement of submitting to a pure and natural Dominant. One who understands what drives her, and who takes pleasure from that Dominant part of her personality that is her true nature. 
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 Age: 23
 California, California