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This is my second profile here on this site. I decided to start fresh with a new name, want to see my old account just ask me in email.
I am looking for something very specific here and something that is very hard to describe but I will do my best here. I want everything; I want a friend, a companion, a deep meaningful relationship that has lots of fun and exploration associated with it. I am a knowledgable novice/beginner with some limited experience in bdsm. I know alot and have even studied many of the psychological and physiological aspects of this as a way of merging my "normal" life and interests with this.
I describe myself as a dom, but in reality I am a mostly dom (95-99 percent of the time) switch. I do have some very specific sub fantasies I would like to explore so special brownie points go to ladies that have a slight domme streak in them to match.
I am a 25 year old who has been interested in bdsm and the dom/sub lifestyle for a very long time, can't really remember what sparked my interest in it, but I've kind of been hooked ever since.
There are a few physical realities of my situation that need to be understood. First I am a college student, this means like 95% or so other college students I have no source of disposable income, it also means I'm stuck here for the next year followed by wherever I go to grad or, supreme being reference of your choice added here, med school after that. Secondly I do live at home, yes this means with my parents, so in the grand scheme of things I have next to no privacy. And whomever I end up with would be the take home to friends and family type with a fun little secret. And finally since I am a college student with aspirations to go into medicine my studies come first.
And now for something completely different:
I have a fun personality, not really a big partier, but more the kind of guy who loves to make whomever he's with laugh. I'm also pretty relaxed and open and try to be honest, so I kind of expect the same. As you can tell by my name I am a romantic but as you can also tell by my interests list I can have a sadistic streak at times; so I am just as likely to fix a lady a candlelight dinner as I am to suspend her off the ground, eat dinner off of her and then pour candle wax on her breasts. :-D
I want someone who is strong minded, intelligent and can hold her own in the world. I want for the sub I end up with to be with me as more than just my sub, to be also my best friend, my girlfriend (and more when the time is right), and anything else. What I do not want is a one night stand, or someone who is just looking for a comp out. I want my future sub to be with me because she finds her greatest joy in submitting to me and in seeing my pleasure in her.
Personality wise I want someone who will stand up for something, and won't agree with everything that comes out of my mouth and hang on my every word. I want someone I can joke around with and have fun outside of the bedroom in addition to being a mostly sub switch in private.
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Just added a new pic to my profile. |
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OK if you are going to e-mail me, this goes without saying, or so I thought, make it seem like you got out of the second grade. I may not be the next Yates or Hemingway, but I can at least form a proper sentence and hit spell check. I know I'm kind-of raging against the machine here since most people who fall into this category are scammers or bots, but still... |
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so I'm kinda torn in a bunch of different directions, part of me wants that stereotypical bimbo cheerleader type of girl. Another part wants more of a quiet shy brainiac like me. I want a solid loving relationship, but then I want to do things to that person that are less than savory. I am also trying to figure out if I want to continue searching down in Houston knowing I will ultimately be heading somewhere else in a few months. |
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Awesome thing happened today, I got my acceptance letter to graduate school so I guess I'll be heading to DFW sometime in August. |
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Well I'm back again I guess, though not in the mood to do a lot of searching. Thought I had met the perfect one for me but I guess not, life is shitty like that. |
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Added a new pic, you can tell I'm really not that photogenic :-P but it's newer than my old one. |
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OK so I think I'm finally nailing down what I'm looking for. I want someone roughly in my age range, 18-30, could maybe go a little older depending. I would like a mostly sub switch to explore everything with and have a normal relationship on the outside. Bonus points for a well educated, driven and intelligent women. Body type doesn't matter to me so much, but I want someone who is overall beautiful. I don't mind someone who is stubborn or sassy, actually I kind of enjoy a little attitude. |
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Ok well a few weeks ago my faith in this site was revived; I found a sub that I could actually see myself with, that was smart and independant; it didn't work out, oh well, but maybe I'll actually have some luck on this site. |
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READ THIS BEFORE MESSAGING
I have tried to be the nice caring guy, this has gotten me next to nowhere and has proven to be very frustrating and aggrivating...so nice Ray is not going to be answering e-mails anymore. I am tired of seeming to deal with the same exact things over and over again so I'm going to lay out a few ground rules for people to contact me.
I. Be willing to be serious. I am looking for a deep and meaningful relationship ontop of everything else done in play, if you don't want this...or don't want this with me, move on.
II. No significant baggage, I'm tired of helping people deal with shit just to have them come to think of me as their best friend. No more, the shrink is no longer in. If you feel like you would have a problem that would need to be dealt with get it dealt with then we'll talk.
III. If you have a tiny miniscule inkling that you think you might get back with your ex or another perspective dom STAY AWAY!!! This one has happened to me plenty so I'm rather tired of it.
IV. Don't try to scam, trick me or lie to me and think you'll get away with it or think I'll be very happy when I find out.
V. I am trying to get into medical school to go into trauma/emergency medicine. This is a calling I take very seriously, I have devoted myself for 3 very long years to it, understand that there are times when I might be going to school studying and working 16 to 18 hours per day several days in a row so when I do have free time don't waste it.
VI. If you are going to give me bad news aka you don't want to be with me, don't do this crap where you just become passive agressive and start to ignore me, atleast have the guts and common decency to say bye.
VII. I am stuck living at home until I finish my senior year in college it looks like, aka 10 months from now is when I will have some privacy on a regular basis, fair warning...
Lastly I will become a nice romantic caring guy after a relationship develops, I am tired of feeling like I'm the one that's actually jumping through someone else's hoops. I don't believe that anyone should have to prove themselves "worthy" but certainly a dom should not have to be at the submissive's beck and call. |
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In a potential sub I demand somebody who is actually able to show some intelligence and independence. If you ask me a question I know I've answered in my profile, that's just going to show that you aren't even able to read, I could just buy a blowup doll if I wanted a dumb bimbo. My time is valuable, senior bio/pre-med student here, don't waste it. |
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The photo that's getting approved is a rather old one, but it's the only one I currently have uploaded on my computer. I'll be posting an updated better one in a week or two probably. |
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| Age: 22 |
| Akron,
Ohio |
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