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Hetero Male Dominant, 44,  Kansas
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My screen name speaks to my desire to take a sub, encourage, mold, and nurture her, and make her into the best she can be for me.

To me BDSM, Ds, DDlg, Ms, (not that I dont feel aspects of them dont apply to me) and the like are arbitrary labels imposed by others. I identify with aspects of them all, but none of them describe me fully. I expect a lot from you and wont settle for less, yet I also believe that this should be fun and rewarding.

What I seek is surprisingly difficult to find. you must possess complete honesty, obedience, strong work ethic, a deep need to please, supreme loyalty and devotion, and the ability to communicate clearly (with a gag in). you should be service oriented and a people-pleaser. Im looking for someone who deeply needs to please. You need to have ability of some sort and a sense of humor is paramount.

Im successful in my field, intelligent, hyper creative, and make good decisions. My friends would describe me as dryly sarcastic, but funny as hell. Im looking for 247 after a time, but I dont look away from decent play-only opportunities.











 Dominant Male


 6' 0"

 175 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive female

Sub/Sub Couples

 Lives For:

 Bar Hopping



 Hair Pulling

 Obedience Training



 Intellectual Discourse

 Lifestyle BDSM

 Rock Music


 Bird Watching

 Coffee Shops

 Garage Sales





 Camping (Expert)

 Hiking (Expert)


 Anal Play



 Body Worship

 Breast Play




 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Domestic Service




 Mental Bondage


 Orgasm Control

 Sensation Play

 Clothing Selection

 Maid / Butler Service

 Plastic Wrap Bondage

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Public Play

 Speech Restrictions


 Suspension Bondage


 1950s Lifestyle


 Classical Music

 Eighties Music



 Nineties Music

 Pop Music

 Seventies Music


 Cane / Crop Discipline


 Corner Time

 Electrical Play


 Outdoor Bondage

 Sensory Deprivation

 Vacuum Stimulation




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