I'm hopeful to find someone fun to hang out with. Not sure I'm ready for a long term commitment, so I'm not searching for that right off the bat, maybe something will develop with time. Besides, I think it's weird to get in touch with strangers and discuss relationships, marriage, and kids right off the bat - right?
I'm fairly athletic, I enjoy cooking, I don't watch TV except for Stranger Things, I like live music of almost any genre, etc. I don't put kink interests out in the open, I've found that men fixate on that to the exclusion of everything else and it's not the focal point of my life. If it is the focal point of your life, please don't bother messaging me, I'm not interested.