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Male Switch, 44, Santa Clarita, California
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Male Dominant, 51, Chicago, Illinois
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Male Dominant, 36, Bristol
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About Anarchi
I am demisexual, so my sexual interest is slow to begin. Overtly sexual messages from new people are a pretty big turn off. I now own a house and a barn with a decent amount of woods.
Due to some major life changes, Ive done some rethinking about what I want. Im going to describe my ideal, but I am open to other possibilities. I need a deeply submissive partner with a high sex drive, to humiliate and control. I am not much of a sadist, but there will be some pain. I am a deeply passionate person and very affectionate. Outside of our relationship I want my submissive to be strong and independent. I would even like them to be my partner in life outside of our sexual relationship.
I am looking for long term as a goal, but willing to try shorter term to gauge interest. I am capable of taking more control than I have described, I just find that in vanilla life someone that is a doormat wont get along with me or be able to travel in my social circles other than as arm candy. Ive done that it just isnt my ideal.
I am not active in the community. I have some friends that are. I am sane safe and consentual. I just have some philosophical disagreements with the community at large and find that its not for me. Im not unwilling to attend events in it if its your thing, but I will likely be miserable.
I have had no real luck here, but have been rather successful finding kink partners on vanilla site. However, should a meet happen it will be public and low risk likely coffee. I move very slowly into relationships, because Im very slow to trust and despite common wisdom here a Dom needs to know and trust a sub as much as a sub must trust a Dom for play to actually be safe. If thats not for you, than neither am I.
Im really only looking real-time, so be local or willing to eventually relocate.
Always happy to chat with folks about vanilla stuff. |
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It's unlikely my 2018 could be worse than 2017, so upwards and onwards. |
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I think I just got block because of autocorrect. Lol. |
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I am going to be extremely busy for the next month or so. I will try to respond to messages, but will be less active. |
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I get 503 bad gateway errors whenever I try to send pictures is that just me? |
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"Good men don't need rules. Today is not the day to find out why I have so many." |
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"Fallen angels have always been my people" |
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Under promise, over deliver. That's my brand of humble. |
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I keep odd hours, and everyone goes to bed. It's sad. |
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I really need more friends to chat with late at night. |
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The majority of people on here exhaust me. |
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Often the why is more interesting to me than the what. |
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FYI, if I don't respond to your first message it simply means I'm not interested. It has been my experience that replying to messages saying "I'm not interested" seems to start a debate with you over my interest, which is ultimately pointless. I know what I want, it's hard to find, and if you aren't it, I promise it's nothing personal. |
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My auto complete jumps to humiliate very quickly and often. |
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The show I'm on this week is insanely boring. |
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The term polyamory offends me. Now not the ideas behind the word, though they do not appeal to me, I can understand them. However, polyamory is simply polygamy. If you prefer the idea "amor" implying love rather than marriage then the term ought to be multiamory. I do not enjoy mixing Greek and Latin roots and if you do we can't be friends. |
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Every time someone says, "_______ is better than sex", I tell them they are doing it wrong. |
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Lately this site has been nothing but a headache. So I have not been on as much and have not/will not be as good about returning messages. Sorry for the inconvenience, but I am sure I will be back on more eventually after I forget why I stopped coming on. |
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Well now that I complain about the job the tell me I didn't get it. Which is fine really I am happy to know that I am staying and that I don't have to back out of work I've committed too. It does however mean that I am spending the summer living alone. Already have maybe two friends who will come visit (platonically). |
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My insomnia is acting up again. I am worrying about money to some degree. The bigger issue I think is that I am waiting to hear about a job and they are jerking me around. I will be fine either way, but its a very life changing opportunity and I need to know which way it is going to go so I can plan for the future.
Also depending on how this job goes I may be living alone for 3 months and I always go a bit mad when left alone for any length of time. So I have been trying to get people to visit me. Maybe even get someone to move in for a while. |
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I spend my days at work sitting in a dark room doing nothing trying to stay awake then I go home and lay in bed in a dark room doing nothing trying to fall asleep. This cycle is not working out well. |
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I get really upset every time a fictional crime show portrays masters/dominant men as abusive or murders. We get a bad enough reputation for the things we actually do (normal lifestyle activities).
I personally think rape or sexual crime of any kind is the worst kind of crime. I have my entire life come to the defense or aid of women in distress. I am too upset by this horrible portrayal of a serial killing so called "master" that I cannot even form cohesive thoughts to explain what I mean. |
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I stumble on all sorts of random things while I am wasting my time on this site. What I just noticed is there are folks on here whose kinks are thinks I dont even think of as being kinky.
Spanking? I have done that in vanilla relationships. I mean sure I have done it in D/s relationships too, but really is that not vanilla?
Maybe I have just strayed so far vanilla sex that I cannot even understand what that means any more. I mean vanilla sex includes more than just guy on girl missionary sex doesn't it?
My mind is splattered on the walls...... |
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Work is keeping me way to busy and interfering with my sex life. |
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I really need a few lesbian friends. I dont get along with men really at all and I could really use some women in my life who have no interest in me romantically while still having lots in common with me. |
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