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LittleFelicity
I am demisexual, so my sexual interest is slow to begin. Overtly sexual messages from new people are a pretty big turn off. I now own a house and a barn with a decent amount of woods.

Due to some major life changes, Ive done some rethinking about what I want. Im going to describe my ideal, but I am open to other possibilities. I need a deeply submissive partner with a high sex drive, to humiliate and control. I am not much of a sadist, but there will be some pain. I am a deeply passionate person and very affectionate. Outside of our relationship I want my submissive to be strong and independent. I would even like them to be my partner in life outside of our sexual relationship.

I am looking for long term as a goal, but willing to try shorter term to gauge interest. I am capable of taking more control than I have described, I just find that in vanilla life someone that is a doormat wont get along with me or be able to travel in my social circles other than as arm candy. Ive done that it just isnt my ideal.

I am not active in the community. I have some friends that are. I am sane safe and consentual. I just have some philosophical disagreements with the community at large and find that its not for me. Im not unwilling to attend events in it if its your thing, but I will likely be miserable.

I have had no real luck here, but have been rather successful finding kink partners on vanilla site. However, should a meet happen it will be public and low risk likely coffee. I move very slowly into relationships, because Im very slow to trust and despite common wisdom here a Dom needs to know and trust a sub as much as a sub must trust a Dom for play to actually be safe. If thats not for you, than neither am I.

Im really only looking real-time, so be local or willing to eventually relocate.

Always happy to chat with folks about vanilla stuff.
It's unlikely my 2018 could be worse than 2017, so upwards and onwards.  
I think I just got block because of autocorrect. Lol.
I am going to be extremely busy for the next month or so. I will try to respond to messages, but will be less active.
The duality of man.
I get 503 bad gateway errors whenever I try to send pictures is that just me?
"Good men don't need rules. Today is not the day to find out why I have so many."
"Fallen angels have always been my people"
Under promise, over deliver. That's my brand of humble.
I keep odd hours, and everyone goes to bed. It's sad.
I really need more friends to chat with late at night.
The majority of people on here exhaust me.
Often the why is more interesting to me than the what.
FYI, if I don't respond to your first message it simply means I'm not interested. It has been my experience that replying to messages saying "I'm not interested" seems to start a debate with you over my interest, which is ultimately pointless. I know what I want, it's hard to find, and if you aren't it, I promise it's nothing personal.
My auto complete jumps to humiliate very quickly and often.
The show I'm on this week is insanely boring.
The term polyamory offends me. Now not the ideas behind the word, though they do not appeal to me, I can understand them. However, polyamory is simply polygamy. If you prefer the idea "amor" implying love rather than marriage then the term ought to be multiamory. I do not enjoy mixing Greek and Latin roots and if you do we can't be friends.
Every time someone says, "_______ is better than sex", I tell them they are doing it wrong.

Lately this site has been nothing but a headache.  So I have not been on as much and have not/will not be as good about returning messages.  Sorry for the inconvenience, but I am sure I will be back on more eventually after I forget why I stopped coming on.

Well now that I complain about the job the tell me I didn't get it. Which is fine really I am happy to know that I am staying and that I don't have to back out of work I've committed too. It does however mean that I am spending the summer living alone. Already have maybe two friends who will come visit (platonically).

My insomnia is acting up again.  I am worrying about money to some degree.  The bigger issue I think is that I am waiting to hear about a job and they are jerking me around.  I will be fine either way, but its a very life changing opportunity and I need to know which way it is going to go so I can plan for the future.

 

Also depending on how this job goes I may be living alone for 3 months and I always go a bit mad when left alone for any length of time.  So I have been trying to get people to visit me.  Maybe even get someone to move in for a while. 

I spend my days at work sitting in a dark room doing nothing trying to stay awake then I go home and lay in bed in a dark room doing nothing trying to fall asleep.  This cycle is not working out well.

I get really upset every time a fictional crime show portrays masters/dominant men as abusive or murders.  We get a bad enough reputation for the things we actually do (normal lifestyle activities). 

I personally think rape or sexual crime of any kind is the worst kind of crime.  I have my entire life come to the defense or aid of women in distress.  I am too upset by this horrible portrayal of a serial killing so called "master" that I cannot even form cohesive thoughts to explain what I mean.

I stumble on all sorts of random things while I am wasting my time on this site.  What I just noticed is there are folks on here whose kinks are thinks I dont even think of as being kinky. 

 

Spanking?  I have done that in vanilla relationships.  I mean sure I have done it in D/s relationships too, but really is that not vanilla? 

 

Maybe I have just strayed so far vanilla sex that I cannot even understand what that means any more.  I mean vanilla sex includes more than just guy on girl missionary sex doesn't it?

 

My mind is splattered on the walls......

Work is keeping me way to busy and interfering with my sex life.

I really need a few lesbian friends.  I dont get along with men really at all and I could really use some women in my life who have no interest in me romantically while still having lots in common with me.