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New to Charlotte -- accepted a job here sight unseen in June, and so far am very pleased.
I'm a woman who takes people as they are. I'm not looking to change anyone to suit me, nor to change myself fundamentally to suit someone else. At this age, we are who we are (at base, I mean -- naturally we are evolving in response to our experiences.)
Would be great to meet someone with whom to spend time and explore shared interests. I have a novice interest in birds, enjoy live music very much, and have a whimsical sense of fun (which extends to sexuality). Might like to learn social dancing and get better at cooking for one or two. I also would like to do some kayaking in this area, since I've enjoyed that a few times in the Sarasota Bay and in the Hudson River. Life is full of possibilities :)
I have experienced some big losses in the past 18 months, and so am grieving. However, I'm not weeping and gnashing my teeth day and night. I have many reasons to smile, and see new ones every day. I am grounded, resilient, loving, pliable, yielding and strong.
A sexual connection is delightful, especially when it is rough and raw and humbling. I like an intelligent man who commands himself capably and compels my submission through words; and one who is willing and able to use physical force with some finesse.
I love to play; I love to please; I love to touch; I love to provide service and feel like a useful girl (in sexual and nonsexual ways); I need to feel some boundaries and to be allowed to express devotion. I also love to be pleased. :) Overall, my joy in service and obedience comes from approval, and not necessarily from the acts themselves.
I respond naturally to the energy of male dominance when I open myself to someone, and thrive under the authority of a man when I have chosen that relationship.
Open to exchanging messages and online friendship if we have mutual interests, and to meeting in person if it feels right.
Please note: Humiliation is not my kink, but humbling is. Severe physical torment is not my kink, but discipline is. Anal anything is *not* my kink.
Not interested in NSA sex, married men, poly men or couples.
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