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I am looking for a woman who wants to enjoy life and have fun with it and in it. Someone who is open and upfront about her wants and desires. A woman who wants to explore this lifestyle and enjoy it and have fun with it. I am open aand honest. I am loving and caring but will dish out discipline and punishment when needed. To me a persons true beauty and being is on the inside and not the outside. If this interests anyone stop and say hi. I am a firm believer in this life that is the sub/slave/babygirl whatever you wish to call has the choice when it comes to her Dom/Master/Daddy or whatever they chose to call him. Its not the other way around yes he be interested in her and want her to be his but it is her decision if it is him. Every man no matter what his title must understand the wants and needs of who he is with. He must understand their desires not only in the body but in their mind and soul. For this lifestyle to work for anyone there must be trust and respect for one another first and everythinbg else will evolve from that if there is to be anything. I believe in limits and boundaries and every woman wanting them should have them and set them. Every Dominate should honor and respect those limits and boundaries. If they are to be pushed it should be a mutual decision and a comfortable one. We must learn that no means no and stop means stop dont go any farther. Then talk about it and come to a decision if it should go farther. I believe in treating people with respect and will treat people with respect even if its not returned. I have been in this lifestyle for going on 22 years now. I dont bed hop or go from one to another. I have had two subs in those years and it was a wonderful thing. The first one was when I was just starting out and it lasted for two years it was an exploration for both of us she felt it wasn't the life for her and we parted. The second lasted 18 years and it ended almost three years ago due to a devasting illness and I am just now getting back into things. I have just recently relocated to Port Saint Lucie from Virginia. I figured it was time to leave the old behind and start a new. I enjoy ropes and paddles and OTK. I enjoy playing with my partner whether it be with spankings or bindings or the use of clamps or orgasm deprivation. I have been involved in many things like I said spankings with multiple materials and bindings with ropes. I have done some waxing and orgasm deprivation. What I get involved in depends on who I am with and what she wants to experience or feel. I also believe she should be protected and kept from harm so i dont beilieve in damaging the person other than making some rosey red cheeks. Im not into brutality. This should be a loving, caring , respectful, fun and pleasurable relationship. The only limits to this lifestyle are one imagination and their wants and desires.
lisa212
 
 Age: 43
 Engagement, Ohio