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| Lonely and tired of taking care of my own business, looking for a man to attract my interest and answer my questions, driven by growing curiosity. i have 24/7 experience, living as a true submissive only to find the man i shared my life wasn't a true Dominant. i wanted to submit totally but found He really needed a slave not a sub. If you know the difference, please tweek my mind....
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Hope everyone had a super Holiday! I've stayed busy, survived all the festivities and my life is back to the usual. I haven't read all my messages, but will -
Am still constantly hoping that the next message will grab me and spawn some real conversation. Conversation leading to a level of depth and trust, allowing the next step and a possibility of meeting the one. Sharing a journey into a joint adventure, touching the edge, stretching to the top, spilling over the rim, reaching for the dream-----I still looking for all of that & more. |
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Just a few days to Christmas & I've been very busy pleasantly serving -
No I haven't been found by that Dom, not yet. But, since I currently am not serving my man - I have way too much time on my hands & mind. So I do what I do best, serve others this Holiday Season - those down on their luck or maybe just hanging on, the wrong place at the wrong time landing them in a tough spot. Whether serving a warm meal, giving a coat, wrapping a present & my favorite gift of all; listening & feeling all the hope.
So as you see - I'm still here 'hoping' I find the right place, at the right time & kaboom** I'm through the Bs and in a real 24/7 D/s adventurous relationship. Must be the magic of the season, touching my heart - let the magic touch yours, too! |
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I have tried to be open and honest with all I have responded, only to find out that the majority of you don't recognize the difference between honesty & fantasy. What are you looking for, why do you want a submissive, how will you take care of your submissive, do you want a keeper to control? What's going on? I thought a D was a man with control of himself first and once they are comfortable in their own skin they can then and only then take on a 24/7 sub. I am finding a large majority of responses that have a lot of baggage, living a secret life and searching here & who knows where for a woman of little intellegence and even less self respect to start in a 'open & honest' relationship, when all along they are currently living a 'lie' and in a relationship that brings them no pleasure. But somehow they find it easy to tell me how perfect I could be for them. Please quit wasting everyone's time----grow up & be honest to yourself & your partner before involving others. I still am looking for a strong, open, honest & sincere Dom that will take me as his. |
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I am not sure where some of you are coming from; do all Dom's think submissives (when they aren't theirs) should submit to them? I am submissive and serve my man, I don't submit to every Tom, Dick & Harry. Is it this site that brings out the worst in people, or are people just that stuck on themselves? I will continue to search, because I know there is the right man out there, the man I will serve. And, I will do what my heart & brain says to me, I won't fall for anymore of the BS games of men who don't understand how extremely wonderful it is to have an unconditional, uninhibited submissive to call his own. |
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The more I exchange messages on this site the easier it is becoming to see through the smoke screens people hide behind. I am also learning a lot of people lie - but haven't figured out whether the lies are for my benefit or theirs. Maybe, because I am a naturally honest woman - for me it's a choice 'right or wrong' and I choose to do the right thing even when wrong would be easier. Being honest to myself makes me proud of whatever direction my path takes me. I'm proud I've recognized my need to submit, fullfill and please - I don't see being a submissive partner is weak or inferior because I have neither of these aspects - I am strong, attractive, intelligent and submissive. As much as some may think, the combination suits me well and could bring great pleasure and pride to the Dominant one I share my life. Come on----what do you have to lose, take down the smoke screens and then we can get to know each other. |
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I have tried to answer many of the response I received (with photo), and am still amazed at how many people are on this site. I find it both refreshing and rekindling, of the day I find my real match - a Dom/sub partnership. However, fishing through all the trash could be a real challenge. I know what I want, I want to be shown what I need - and that will take a man who is both persistant and patient. His persistance and patience will pay off tenfold, if he is really looking for a woman to be his unconditionally.
Are your persistant? Are you patient? Do you want uninhibited, unconditional? I am & I do.
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Whew! I am overwhelmed by the responses, so I am limiting myself to responses with photos. I showed you mine, please show me yours. |
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| Age: 25 |
| San jose,
California |
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