The element of surprise can add extra fun;

Was fun the other evening,  I do take control, but usually after chatting, a drink, blah, blah.  But decided why wait so when she came over, I answered the door nude and told her to get on her knees and start sucking….made whole evening even more fun.

You Just Never Know (lol)

It’s been tricky meeting a woman on CollarMe, actually I have met several, but there always seems to be an issue; too many to list.  Not long ago I met a woman on here.  I wasn’t optimistic that a “fun” relationship would develop, but OMG it’s been more fun than I could imagine.

She said she didn’t play on the 1^st date…so I figured there was no reason to waste my time, but what the heck I only had to walk a few blocks to meet, so why not.  So met for a latte at Starbucks & had a long fun chat.  It was interesting as she was more attractive than her pic on here and she had a low cut top on, so I could tell she had a nice body & big boobs  (it was mean for her to wear that low cut top). Especially since I didn’t know if I’d get to see/touch them.  But the good news was she wanted to meet again.  After a “I don’t play on the 1^st date”  meeting I wasn’t expecting the 2^nd to be to wild.

OMG, I couldn’t have been more wrong.  Turns out she is just as horny as me, which is very horny! I never ever would have thought she was so horny and truly curious about BDSM,  “not all talk and no action” as the song says.  It’s been so fun starting from: my taking control , to (apparently last guy was a “bottom”), blindfolds, handcuffs, very into bondage (easy since I sail , have tons of rope & can tie knots),. My chache of BDSM toys is not too large –with bondage you can do so much.  However,  since meeting  she has shown up with a flogger, crop & candle for waxing AND now wants to explore knife play. 

And to add more drama…she is on as looking for a LTR and I’m looking for a NSA, so I’m keeping her smiling until Mr. Right comes along

You just never know…a girl who doesn’t play on the 1^st date & the “boy next door”

Guy's don't always take control???  well of course not when with a DOMM?

Who knew, I’ve always been a DOM, but to different degrees.  I guess it’s because I grew up in a military household.  Where men were “in control”.  So when I started having sex, it seemed that the only way to have sex was for me to take control.  Over the years, as I've begun to meet more experienced women  I hear more and more that I am a Dom w/o trying to be. (can be to different degrees)."  And have heard that there are guys who don't take control.  Wow, never knew that.  Still amazes me.