I am a married BBW seeking sanity, married to an impotent straight laced vanilla who has no interest in sex or the BDSM world at all.

I am seeking online only, maybe someone in a simular situation who needs an outlet for their own dark desires.

I am a submissive with slavish leanings, yet am a strong willed individual who could almost be Switch if it were not for the fact that I prefer to be on the lap or kneeling at Someone's feet over having someone at mine.

Yes, it would take someone with a will stronger than my own to keep my attention, I have no desire at all to 'top from the bottom' and if it starts to look that way I will lose interest... just being honest.

I am a pain slut, no scat, animals, underaged, cutting or needles. I enjoy things that leave marks, hair pulling, spanking, whips and forceplay.