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I am 27 years old, married (in an open relationship) and with a wide variety of interests. I am very switchy. I have a number of dominant partners and am looking for submissive partners. On the non-kink side of things, I enjoy making and eating good food and fencing. I drink tea, not coffee, push buttons in a very reasoned manner for a living and like the smell of lavender. I also am French, though I've come around to the concept of brunch. Especially on my balcony. On the kink side of things, I am a sadist. I enjoy inflicting pain, whether with a variety of impact toys, or just my hands. I also find objectification and humiliation to be intensely erotic. My kink however is not centered on sex. While a scene can sometimes incorporate or lead to more sexual activities, that is not my focus or primary desire. My play style is very varied. On some occasions, I like to bare raw primal urges. On others, I enjoy a cold, detached, more clinical approach. Much of the time, I want play to be simply fun and will laugh and draw laughter. I have extensive experience submitting, but my experience on top is more limited. Please be aware of that. On the other hand, my experience submitting has taught me a lot. As a masochist, I know very well where and how to inflict pain. I am looking for a submissive play partner. However, for me, BDSM is more than just whips and chains. The more of a connection I develop with my partner, the deeper the play can be. Also, that makes the before-play time more fun. That means the dinner conversation has to be just as good as the play. I am looking for a female submissive who is intelligent, has a high pain tolerance, likes to be of service and finds humiliation appealing. Being a little arrogant is a definite plus. Sharing some listed interests is nice, but I do not fit in this box. We may share things which I simply did not write down. Feel free to ask. You also need to be comfortable with the fact that I am married and have a number of other partners who also take up a portion of my time. If you are looking for a "primary" or a live-in situation, I am probably not the person you are looking for. That said, I have time available and will make time for the right person. While I am primarily interested in a female submissive, I am open to meeting switches. Send me a message and if we are a potential match, we will get together for tea.
Richnbratty
 
 Age: 35
 London, Switzerland